*Princess_Fifi*
Bluelighter
Flea: My flame (that was here before)was a bit harsh (partly a result of stress and very little sleep).. but mainly because your last post just made me angry.
I totally agree with your point that driving while scat or whatever does happen. Yes, it does, and yes, I think that's bad. And logically moving along from that, I think that we should take actions to try and avoid it. Big changes don't happen overnight; when people come into this thread and read DQs story, it often hits home for just one more person - and that's one more person who doesn't drive anymore.
I just got really mad, because you made one post with some dodgy remarks (dodgy = non-constructive and insensitive) which I thought was not the greatest post in the world, but tried to respond to in a constructive way... but then you went and posted almost exactly the same thing, but with even less discretion. You just seemed to miss the point.
I just think a lot of what you said was selfish and immature - or maybe those interpretations are just based on the fact that there seemed to be very little development of your thoughts by digestion of other input.
Whether I have misunderstood you or not, I don't know, but I think your train of thought was fairly clearly presented.
You thoroughly expressed your observation that people do drive while scat or on drugs. Twice in fact. However this wasn't a new revelation - we realise that it happens and are actually at the next step, which you could probably call either prevention and/or reduction. Having "polls" on who drives while affected doesn't really go with the theme.
You do actually seemed to be concerned about this as an issue - so it makes me feel awful for telling you to get fucked. Do take positive action in response to this topic, and don't take too much offence from my flame. Maybe for you to understand it better you should read the entire other thread, and then your posts again, and you might see why your they were ripped to pieces.
Here you go: http://www2.bluelight.ru/ubb/Forum29/HTML/000803.html?reload=144
And once you've read that, I'll start you off with one of your best comments imho:
[This message has been edited by *Princess_Fifi* (edited 22 October 2001).]
[This message has been edited by *Princess_Fifi* (edited 22 October 2001).]
I totally agree with your point that driving while scat or whatever does happen. Yes, it does, and yes, I think that's bad. And logically moving along from that, I think that we should take actions to try and avoid it. Big changes don't happen overnight; when people come into this thread and read DQs story, it often hits home for just one more person - and that's one more person who doesn't drive anymore.
I just got really mad, because you made one post with some dodgy remarks (dodgy = non-constructive and insensitive) which I thought was not the greatest post in the world, but tried to respond to in a constructive way... but then you went and posted almost exactly the same thing, but with even less discretion. You just seemed to miss the point.
I just think a lot of what you said was selfish and immature - or maybe those interpretations are just based on the fact that there seemed to be very little development of your thoughts by digestion of other input.
Whether I have misunderstood you or not, I don't know, but I think your train of thought was fairly clearly presented.
You thoroughly expressed your observation that people do drive while scat or on drugs. Twice in fact. However this wasn't a new revelation - we realise that it happens and are actually at the next step, which you could probably call either prevention and/or reduction. Having "polls" on who drives while affected doesn't really go with the theme.
You do actually seemed to be concerned about this as an issue - so it makes me feel awful for telling you to get fucked. Do take positive action in response to this topic, and don't take too much offence from my flame. Maybe for you to understand it better you should read the entire other thread, and then your posts again, and you might see why your they were ripped to pieces.
Here you go: http://www2.bluelight.ru/ubb/Forum29/HTML/000803.html?reload=144
And once you've read that, I'll start you off with one of your best comments imho:
Meh, I don't like this post anymore... it's not nice and probably not how I'd actually discuss the whole thing with you if we were having a conversation. But it's better than what I put here before, and is my honest opinion.. so yeah, whatever. I also feel like I've hijacked this thread when it's not mine to defend. I guess even though it's not mine, I still agree with it. Fuck I'm tired."wondering who else does it... and just wondering if your phased / concerned about it??"
[This message has been edited by *Princess_Fifi* (edited 22 October 2001).]
[This message has been edited by *Princess_Fifi* (edited 22 October 2001).]