Uhh
Bluelighter
Yeah, let's make him feel shitty and helpless. I know I never turned to drugs when I felt that way.
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edgewise1
Bluelighter
You don't have any choice now, it's already been done and no amount of worry is going to undo it. If you don't want to live like that then stop doing the things that force these circumstances on you. There is no need to worry yourself sick now, just try to stay positive in your thoughts and learn from this!
Btw, how much damage do you think you did? If your liscence number was taken then the police are most likely aware, but if it was pd only, and minor at that, then the need to ticket you will not be a huge priority for LE.
seducedsoul
Bluelighter
just wanted to put this out there sorry
Jake I don't think it's your fault dude at all just sometimes I think it's from write the way you write. It always seems to be lacking emotion and very "3 word sentence" like which makes people think you don't at all deeply think about things or get anything into your head. THAT DON'T MEAN IT'S TRUE I just think if you feel attacked at all, or if people are getting frustrated with you, i think both sides should understand=)
Though I can't help but say BL and TDS especially has always been there for you and tried their best to answer your every worry and question even if repetitive hun- and some very amazing advice and help from seriously like everyone that replies to you and if anyone is getting frustrated, if I may speak for most, it's cause they care and want to make a difference and help ya.
But I wanted to comment on the way you word things because I understand that you totally may be thinking like "wtf of COURSE I care and blahblahblahmeaningful thought" but you don't write like that and you shouldn't have to, it's just more of a relaying your feelings type deal, because you might come off misunderstood.
Take MOI for example- I write fucking novels ALL THE TIME [I am sure you don't need any convincing on that one lol] I am the complete opposite... I write so much people most likely start toblock out most of my writing [even though every word I write I mean wholeheartedly... and that's why I can never shorten or compact my responses lol]
ummm k just throwing that out there.
conclusion: Jake- people are trying to help you and you're not showing much results through your responses... and this wouldn't be much of a big deal [at least not talking about harm reduction for a moment] if you didn't constantly make threads full of repetitive anxieties and rather redudant issues [so it seems ... and that's ok.. just it seems like you never took advice]
and to the rest of us... maybe possibly Jake's close to one word answers are a little discouraging and don't fully convey what he is trying to say though there's more than we assume?
also, sorry If I am making assumptions myself and totally missing the boat here. If so, I genuinely apologize in advance.
ALRIGHT SHIT SORRY I COULDN'T RESIST SAYING ALL THAT
AND I am always wishing you the best jake! I sincerely hope you work out your problems in life and can get a clear conscience and just relax and enjoy life sometime soon though I know it's tough =)
10-4 I AM OUT
Jake I don't think it's your fault dude at all just sometimes I think it's from write the way you write. It always seems to be lacking emotion and very "3 word sentence" like which makes people think you don't at all deeply think about things or get anything into your head. THAT DON'T MEAN IT'S TRUE I just think if you feel attacked at all, or if people are getting frustrated with you, i think both sides should understand=)
Though I can't help but say BL and TDS especially has always been there for you and tried their best to answer your every worry and question even if repetitive hun- and some very amazing advice and help from seriously like everyone that replies to you and if anyone is getting frustrated, if I may speak for most, it's cause they care and want to make a difference and help ya.
But I wanted to comment on the way you word things because I understand that you totally may be thinking like "wtf of COURSE I care and blahblahblahmeaningful thought" but you don't write like that and you shouldn't have to, it's just more of a relaying your feelings type deal, because you might come off misunderstood.
Take MOI for example- I write fucking novels ALL THE TIME [I am sure you don't need any convincing on that one lol] I am the complete opposite... I write so much people most likely start toblock out most of my writing [even though every word I write I mean wholeheartedly... and that's why I can never shorten or compact my responses lol]
ummm k just throwing that out there.
conclusion: Jake- people are trying to help you and you're not showing much results through your responses... and this wouldn't be much of a big deal [at least not talking about harm reduction for a moment] if you didn't constantly make threads full of repetitive anxieties and rather redudant issues [so it seems ... and that's ok.. just it seems like you never took advice]
and to the rest of us... maybe possibly Jake's close to one word answers are a little discouraging and don't fully convey what he is trying to say though there's more than we assume?
also, sorry If I am making assumptions myself and totally missing the boat here. If so, I genuinely apologize in advance.
ALRIGHT SHIT SORRY I COULDN'T RESIST SAYING ALL THAT
AND I am always wishing you the best jake! I sincerely hope you work out your problems in life and can get a clear conscience and just relax and enjoy life sometime soon though I know it's tough =)
10-4 I AM OUT
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How do you know no one got hurt if you drove off after you hit the other car?
If he's not willing to change his behaviors that got him here in the first place (dope, DWI) then what else can we do?
The truth and reality hurts I guess.
Btw, how much damage do you think you did? If your liscence number was taken then the police are most likely aware, but if it was pd only, and minor at that, then the need to ticket you will not be a huge priority for LE
I dont think i did much damage to their rear end........my hood was all messsed up though, you said if its PD only , whats that ? if they ticket me will i recieve it in mail or just have warrant put out ? when i called courts they ran my license and nothing came up
Jake I don't think it's your fault dude at all just sometimes I think it's from write the way you write
i feel you on that, usually i am so tired i am writing to get it done , like right now im exhausted and a little dope sick . if i was feeilng good id probably be writing much better.........
How do you know no one got hurt if you drove off after you hit the other car?
i dont know for sure ,but i didnt hit them hard enough to hurt someone
If he's not willing to change his behaviors that got him here in the first place (dope, DWI) then what else can we do?
I am trying to kick dope once again...............i tend to make it couple days on subs then cant take it and end up copping..............
id just go to detox if i didnt have a family that doesnt know and school that im in ..............
I dont think i did much damage to their rear end........my hood was all messsed up though, you said if its PD only , whats that ? if they ticket me will i recieve it in mail or just have warrant put out ? when i called courts they ran my license and nothing came up
Jake I don't think it's your fault dude at all just sometimes I think it's from write the way you write
i feel you on that, usually i am so tired i am writing to get it done , like right now im exhausted and a little dope sick . if i was feeilng good id probably be writing much better.........
How do you know no one got hurt if you drove off after you hit the other car?
i dont know for sure ,but i didnt hit them hard enough to hurt someone
If he's not willing to change his behaviors that got him here in the first place (dope, DWI) then what else can we do?
I am trying to kick dope once again...............i tend to make it couple days on subs then cant take it and end up copping..............
id just go to detox if i didnt have a family that doesnt know and school that im in ..............
toolfan420
Bluelighter
I think he's saying that if you only did property damage vs injuring whoever was in the car it won't be that big of a deal.
I really think a warrant will be issued if you don't resolve it. I've never heard of someone being ticketed for a hit and run. Not to say it cant happen. If there was no physical harm, then probably a misdemeanor, but if someone was hurt or killed it will be a felony. No question.
My advice - Go down to the police station and find out what's happening. At worst you will get the charge, spend a week in the can, get a fine, and put it behind you. Or you'll find out she never reported it and you will go home and move on with life.
My advice - Go down to the police station and find out what's happening. At worst you will get the charge, spend a week in the can, get a fine, and put it behind you. Or you'll find out she never reported it and you will go home and move on with life.
NO...
The lady might have been drinking you never know. What happened happened it might catch up to you, it might not. I have done alot of crazy shit but I have never walked into the police station and said I just pulled a hit and run and want to make it better. Same shit will go down, you think the cops give a fuck. Shit no. Try to forget about it, life goes on. Just my opinion.
Peace,
Seedless
The lady might have been drinking you never know. What happened happened it might catch up to you, it might not. I have done alot of crazy shit but I have never walked into the police station and said I just pulled a hit and run and want to make it better. Same shit will go down, you think the cops give a fuck. Shit no. Try to forget about it, life goes on. Just my opinion.
Peace,
Seedless
You don't have to be that blunt about it. I'd say something like.. " A few day's ago I believe I may have bumped into someone, and I didn't think I caused any damage, but I wasn't sure so I turned around to see if the car was still there, and they had already left the scene where it happened".
I wouldn't say the part about returning unless you really did and the car was really gone tho.
It's only a suggestion to go and admit to something like that. Me personally, It would make me feel a heck of a lot better. Me 5 or 10 years ago, I'd probably shrug it off and deal with it if it caught up to me.
I wouldn't say the part about returning unless you really did and the car was really gone tho.
It's only a suggestion to go and admit to something like that. Me personally, It would make me feel a heck of a lot better. Me 5 or 10 years ago, I'd probably shrug it off and deal with it if it caught up to me.
hyroller
Bluelighter
I fail to see how this topic is dark-side related???
You've been given some pretty good advice here, not the least of which is take a long hard look at yourself & don't put others' lives at risk in the future.
You've been given some pretty good advice here, not the least of which is take a long hard look at yourself & don't put others' lives at risk in the future.
edgewise1
Bluelighter
It is all in the way you tell the tale. But going ahead and telling law enforcement that you "think I bumped into a car last week, but it had left when I turned around to check and see", will cover your ass and since it was property damage (PD) only, the police may not even get involvedan but let the insurance company handle it. As far as the classic Hit and Run, LE really has no evidence of that.
Can't or won't? I believe anyone who has 100% desire and determination to getting clean can do it. Only thing stopping you is your excuses.
Blackvinegar2
Bluelighter
hey jake, man don't worry about it, and def don't worry about some of these replies that im reading. It really aggravates me when people respond and try to act like they are better than someone else. Like you people have made awesome decisions in your life... your obviously on this board because you guys are drug addicts also, try to give him some support. Look man, I have done it many many MANY times before (im a heroin addict, currently on MMT) nodding off at the wheel while driving, And I know you must be really nervous... Don't worry bro, everything will be OK. If its been that many days I think you should be ok. Im here if you need someone to talk to
and jake, have you gave any thought on possibly getting on methadone, or if you have insurance or the money, suboxone? Cause in my case, NA or AA never ever worked for me, and every single time I would try to cold turkey it, I would just relapse over and over and over again. And NA did absolutely nothing for me, it only made me want to get high as fuck because of how boring it is. I have been on methadone since 1/27 now, and actually just got phased up today (get 2 take homes a week now) and I have been doing AWESOME since getting on methadone! Used to be on suboxone, and that worked while I was on it too, but it got too expensive, and the idiot doctor took me off and caused my relapse onto heroin since he didn't wean me off at all. But if you have any questions about either one of these maintenance options, I can answer anything. Im pretty experienced with both of them. And I see your in new jersey which is like the east coast dope haven so I know there is prob a clinic within 15 minutes of were you live!!!
and jake, have you gave any thought on possibly getting on methadone, or if you have insurance or the money, suboxone? Cause in my case, NA or AA never ever worked for me, and every single time I would try to cold turkey it, I would just relapse over and over and over again. And NA did absolutely nothing for me, it only made me want to get high as fuck because of how boring it is. I have been on methadone since 1/27 now, and actually just got phased up today (get 2 take homes a week now) and I have been doing AWESOME since getting on methadone! Used to be on suboxone, and that worked while I was on it too, but it got too expensive, and the idiot doctor took me off and caused my relapse onto heroin since he didn't wean me off at all. But if you have any questions about either one of these maintenance options, I can answer anything. Im pretty experienced with both of them. And I see your in new jersey which is like the east coast dope haven so I know there is prob a clinic within 15 minutes of were you live!!!
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