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Stupid Things That Bug You About Your Lover

Wow. It is good that you recognize these things in yourself, but since you are aware of them, don't you feel some pressure to act less selfishly?
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Not really. Most of the people I've lived with have moved in with me. Don't get me wrong. I try to accommodate when I'm with someone, but I'm like anyone else whose home you're walking into: I'm not gonna change much in how I run my house. For instance, you ain't gettin' me to cook or clean. It's just never going to happen. I've tried getting into cooking, but I just don't like it. If he were paying most the bills, then I'd consider his opinion when buying stuff, but when you're the main bread-winner, you get to buy the stuff you like. I did have someone give me shit like "Why would you buy an expensive car? Why not do something else like give to charity or pay off your house quicker?" I told him that I didn't go to college and crawl and kick and scream to a comfortable income to give it away to charity. It's not like I have so much extra money I don't know what to do with it. I just have no responsibility, I like nice things, and I'm gonna spend my money however I want. If someone was supporting me, it would be a different story.

At the end of the day, I'm single, I have no kids, I have a good career, and I want to enjoy it, because I've really worked my ass off for everything I have. It's about me, because it can be about me and there is no one else to focus on. If someone wants to rip that away from me, they are gonna need to bring something to the table other than words and promises.
 
^ Wow, Lysis, I like your explanation.
It allowed me to see it much more clearly, and it was easy to relate to your viewpoint.
You seemed so smug about being selfish, but when I see your situation more clearly, what you do seems very reasonable.
Sorry for judging you too early!
 
slimvictor said:
You must be kidding. The few times I have watched sports on the tv with my wife for an hour - probably 5-10 times in 15 years - it was pushing her limits. I enjoy most sports, but even I could not stand to watch cricket for more than about two minutes.



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seriosuly the only times i get 2-3 hours of her watching sports with me was the superbowl n like most girls she only did it cuz of the party n the commercials
 
HighonLife said:
seriosuly the only times i get 2-3 hours of her watching sports with me was the superbowl n like most girls she only did it cuz of the party n the commercials
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My missus comes with me to Finsbury Park and watches Arsenal games at the Twelve Pins (Arsenal pub) a fair few times a year. I give her my beer tokens and she sips vodka and lemonade while I rub shoulders with other apemen.
 
animal_cookie said:
haha, i do this all the time. if i am drinking something, i won't fully screw the lid on unless i put it back in the fridge or i am leaving the apartment. i lightly screw the lid on so it doesn't get lost in case i do end up needing to use it. for the most part my husband just avoids my drinks but i often drink from his bottles and don't screw the cap on. i find it hilarious when he ends up getting a drink all over himself.
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Lol it bugs me sooooooo much. We generally share drinks and stuff. Or like putting the lid on a jar or something. Then I go to open it and it spills all over. I just go to my boyfriend and tell him I'm NOT cleaning it up. :p I figure, if he can't put the lids on properly, I shouldn't have to clean it up! Plus he's a neat freak. So I could let it stay dirty for a lot longer than he could! hahaha.

I know what bugs my boyfriend about me! I leave my clothes everywhere. I leave my stuff everywhere. I am a lot better than I used to be, and I'm trying to be better aha, but I don't think I will ever be as good as him lol.
 
I know I annoy my bf with what he calls "micromanaging" and being a control freak. But damn! If someone aint gonna do something right, they need to be told how to do it correctly. I hate having to do things over that he has done in an effort to "help out". The man is completely incapable of even putting on sheets and making the bed neatly, or putting dishes in the dishwasher without food encrusted all over them.
 
she rubs the top front teeth with her tongue, she breaths really loud like shes got asmaha or something, her dog is fucking retarded, half of her vagina is shaved, she wears mens deodorant. oh and my favorite, she has 3 hot sisters(like really hot), dunno what the fuck happened to my lover. i blame her always licking the front top teeth.
 
My bf (moderator Znegative on OD and DC) does this annoying thing where he'll play guitar when I'm getting ready, and he is already done. It puts me on edge like I'm being too slow, hahahha. I don't know why it bugs me :<. He also is constantly drooling on me in his sleep. I LOVE YOU, Z!
 
D's said:
she rubs the top front teeth with her tongue, she breaths really loud like shes got asmaha or something, her dog is fucking retarded, half of her vagina is shaved, she wears mens deodorant. oh and my favorite, she has 3 hot sisters(like really hot), dunno what the fuck happened to my lover. i blame her always licking the front top teeth.
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What do you mean, half her vagina is shaved? Which half? Would you prefer all or none of it shaved? hehehehe.... sounds like you need a different gf.
 
munki said:
I know I annoy my bf with what he calls "micromanaging" and being a control freak. But damn! If someone aint gonna do something right, they need to be told how to do it correctly. I hate having to do things over that he has done in an effort to "help out". The man is completely incapable of even putting on sheets and making the bed neatly, or putting dishes in the dishwasher without food encrusted all over them.
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I'm bad about this too sometimes... I hear myself being a micromanaged bitch but can't stop doing it!! I don't know WHY, but I always worry my bf is going to spill on my computer or something. I know this is based on something like this happening once... but I feel bad when I treat him like he's stupid and clumsy... it really hurts his feelings.
 
babettehaze said:
My bf (moderator Znegative on OD and DC) does this annoying thing where he'll play guitar when I'm getting ready, and he is already done. It puts me on edge like I'm being too slow, hahahha. I don't know why it bugs me :<.
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I`m guilty of doing this too... When we`re running really late, I start playing "dueling banjos". She has told me it bugs the shit out of her.
 
babettehaze said:
but I feel bad when I treat him like he's stupid and clumsy... it really hurts his feelings.
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Yeah, my bf's feelings get hurt so easily! He is really really sensitive. Sometimes I wish he had a thicker skin and could deal. But maybe I am just a mean crankybear.
 
babettehaze said:
What do you mean, half her vagina is shaved? Which half? Would you prefer all or none of it shaved? hehehehe.... sounds like you need a different gf.
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ive been with girls shaved and not so shaved, and she has got to top the cake. i asked her about it and she told me that she ran out of heads for her razors so the left side is bushy and the right side is stubbs.

haven't been having the best sex either, she lays there breathes loud and licks her front teeth while we have sex. i hate having to do everything! not only it piss's me off but i have a hard time getting off.
 
slimvictor said:
^ Wow, Lysis, I like your explanation.
It allowed me to see it much more clearly, and it was easy to relate to your viewpoint.
You seemed so smug about being selfish, but when I see your situation more clearly, what you do seems very reasonable.
Sorry for judging you too early!
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lol I like the cut of your jib. Well played, sir. ;)
 
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