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Stretched earlobes on chicks: what's your take?

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LibertineNY

LibertineNY

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do you guys find it attracted or icky? I'm at a size 0 right now, considering going up to 00 but can't make up my damn mind. This is how it looks now

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I really think the trend is gross and I wish everybody would just stop it. It looks weird, not pretty. Doing this kind of stuff proves that you have no individuality or independence as a woman because you are copying the other 10 million idiots who are doing this to themselves.

I should have been a plastic surgeon so I could make millions correcting these mistakes later on.
 
MyFinalRest said:
I really think the trend is gross and I wish everybody would just stop it. It looks weird, not pretty. Doing this kind of stuff proves that you have no individuality or independence as a woman because you are copying the other 10 million idiots who are doing this to themselves.

I should have been a plastic surgeon so I could make millions correcting these mistakes later on.
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technically most of the things we do as "individuals" has been done many times before. I don't quite see how this is relevant to independence
 
MyFinalRest said:
I don't know, but most people around here that do the "body mod" stuff think they are exploring their individuality. That's what they say.
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I've done all my body mods because of boredom and curiosity. They were all unplanned and spontaneous and all have stories behind em
 
the thing with the ear stretching is for me as a gay man, i find it really offputting. i'm sorry but a normal body is what turns me on and if your ear is hanging an extra inch down like an elastic band when you take those rings out then urgh i aint fancying that.

op-what you have at the moment is in the boundary of what i would find acceptable on a man. the thing is that generally saggyness isn't an attractive quality except maybe on low hanging testicles so do what you want but my answer would be dont get them any bigger.

plus your very good looking, no point throwing that down the drain...
 
pofacedhoe said:
the thing with the ear stretching is for me as a gay man, i find it really offputting. i'm sorry but a normal body is what turns me on and if your ear is hanging an extra inch down like an elastic band when you take those rings out then urgh i aint fancying that.

op-what you have at the moment is in the boundary of what i would find acceptable on a man. the thing is that generally saggyness isn't an attractive quality except maybe on low hanging testicles so do what you want but my answer would be dont get them any bigger.

plus your very good looking, no point throwing that down the drain...
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but it's not like I'm planning on going super duper huge. Just one more size
 
jones-in_J said:
Do it!! You are beautiful in thosei pics And the lobes compliment your face really well. Im also at a 00 right now :)

Girls with stretched ears kick ass mmmm

Heres my lobes (and the first time my face has been on BL... :nothing to see here fbi)

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yay :) I gotta wait a bit though. Turns out these arent fully healed and my friend want to wait a bit to do it again
 
MyFinalRest said:
I really think the trend is gross and I wish everybody would just stop it. It looks weird, not pretty.
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Pretty much my take on it. The trend has been around forever. It was just as popular 15yrs ago as it is today. I think it was unattractive then and I think it is now.

It's unattractive and if you ever want a real job, it also really hurts your marketability.. but by all means, be an individual.
 
Libertine: you are gorgeous!

But honestly when I saw the title of this thread, I thought "who cares?" Some people may like stretched earlobes, others won't. I have friends who have bigger holes, and I don't think it detracts from their attractiveness, nor adds to it. I guess if one is really into body mod it would be hot, but generally I look at the overall package.

That said, most of my partners have had no modifications. Hmmm....
 
I think it's fine if other people do it since they're adults and it's their body; but I personally don't want to do it but I don't have any tattoos or piercings.

If it's a smaller gauge it's fine and the ones you have look good; but I've seen people with the huge gauges both men and women and it just looks odd or like they are trying to look like those native people in Africa who stretch their lower lip with huge spacers.

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If those are pictures of you, you're beautiful and don't need anything else. :)
 
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I HIGHLY recommend bondage tape for stretching. It sounds weird to stretch with shit from a porn shop but its self adhesive so theres no sticky side to worry about and you can slowlu go up without worrying about a blowout or anything... ive used tapers, pinchers (the jewlrey style) and bondage tape for stretching and once i used the last of the three things got a lot more comfortable
 
Honestly, I find it unattractive in both males and females. I'm also not one for tattoos and piercings. I feel it decreases the attractiveness of someone.
That being said - you're an individual - if you like it, go for it! There are tons of people who find it attractive. And you should do what you feel is right, and what you want!
 
I personally really really really hate it. I wouldn't do it if I were you, especially considering how gorgeous you naturally are!
 
Wow you are beautiful! Personally I'm an old fashion kinda guy. I don't like too many tattoos or piercings but if you like it go for it. It only matters what you like. If a girl with stretched earlobes is a deal breaker for a guy it's only because he can't handle a beautiful girl like you.
 
I like them, if tastefully done.

I'm a fan of colored glass, etc.

SLR > Second Opinion

:)
 
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