Never had any of my stuff found or my parents catching me doing anything, the only way they found out was when I was grassed up to the police for dealing

and the copper being a family friend went to my mum and told her, when a search was done nothing was found in my house so i got away with it. They had a idea this was going on, probably due to disappearing for a few days randomly, going out at odd times, lots of phone calls etc. Also been arrested for possession of a suspected controlled substance on a night out, and when tested was found to be mephedrone (was still legal then) so got no charges but they were told why I was nicked. Have come home a few times wired and they have clocked that my eyes were beaming, I think no matter what a mother knows, they just know
Anyway, life after it hasn't been too bad, feel i can talk to me parents more openly about it now, laugh about it, my parents probably don't understand it all because they were never into any of this so i guess it's harder for them to grasp. Trust has fallen because obviously when I disappear for a weekend, stop out or they go away for the weekend they think im back on it all (which I am), they probably know this but put up with it. Although only being young at 18, if i was to give anyone, younger or of similar age advice on speaking to parents I would just say, fill them in on a few facts, like not to be sucked in by the horror stories in the media, what makes cocaine more dangerous than alcohol, if anything the latter is more dangerous.
But I have to say the worst thing now about parents knowing about me using drugs is that sometimes when i come home and have just been out on the piss and only the piss and then accuse me of being on drugs

really boils my blood!!!