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This is kind of odd post but I need some advice
I recently broke up with my girlfriend of 6 years, I started rolling with her(my first roll), everytime I did it it was with her, at music festivals etc we've done it for years. Listening to music now is extremely painful cause it not only reminds me of "e" high but her to. Im kinda hesitant to roll again only because i fear the emotional attachment its gonna bring but at the same time im really craving it, I feel its something I have to do to create new memories. Music is my life, any advice on how to get over this shit.:(

i.e I would like to hear what would you do in this situation
 
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if i were you i would surrond myself with close friends and pop and enjoy dont think about that old shit you used to call wet spot and move on
 
Set and setting play a huge role in mdma and what it will do............taking baggage into a roll will almost certainly see it unpackaged.
 
im in your situation bud. my first 2 rolls werent with my gf but we were together at the time. and from then on they were always with my gf. we would always roll together and connect amazingly, i wouldnt be that close with anyone else.

i would agree with james and say its safe to roll when you are completely over her, because i dont think i can roll untill im over her either because of the attachment i had with her when we rolled, and she was always there to experience it with me.
 
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im in your situation bud. my first 2 rolls werent with my gf but we were together at the time. and from then on they were always with my gf. we would always roll together and connect amazingly, i wouldnt be that close with anyone else.

i would agree with james and say its safe to roll when you are completely over her, because i dont think i can roll untill im over her either because of the attachment i had with her when we rolled, and she was always there to experience it with me.
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How long have u been apart, is it for good? you havent rolled since your breakup?Im in a really bad situation its really hard i dont see myself getting over her for maybe years, all my drug taking friends are her friends, my friends dont do drugs. I was thinking of going to a club and rolling on my own but I guess this is a bad idea. i just know I need to replace those memories somehow or i think ill go crazy. Everytime I listen to music that even closely resembles what we would listen it takes me to that place ontop of memories of her, it kills me.
 
Take like a month or 2 break from rolling so you can get over her. You dont want to risk having a bad roll if youre not completely over her.
 
Rolling gives you a chance to be able to look within yourself and see what has shaped you and made you the person you are today. Yeah your relationship has finished with this person but that will never remove the fun times that you had with her - accept that and move on.

Rolling will remind you of the fun times you shared - IF however you wish to dwell on the negative aspects of the relationship etc then Rolling will also remind you of the horrible times you had.

Your call really :)
 
You have what we call on www.bodybuilding.com forums as a classic case of "one-itis".

I currently have this too, LOL!

Your only interested in one girl and one girl only, shes probably the only one who seems really attractive to you, always on your mind ect. As long as you are in this state you are going to be more or less depressed. (You, more, because it was a long lasting relationship and is recent, mine, less, because it ended about 3 months ago now)

But until we find other girls who interest us and we connect with and have attraction to, we are going to have this problem.

But trust me, once you find another girl that interests you the last one fades, LIKE YOU WOULDNT BELIEVE.

Only way I can say this from experience is because I have been crushed for the last 3 months, but recently I thought I was interested in this other girl and as soon as she showed some signs of attraction back the last girl was out of my mind like nothin had ever happened, but this new chick was short lived so sigh, the mind tricks come back.

Long story short, probably avoid the e until you find another girl you have interest in, it will be like nothing ever happened
 
Your going to get emotional at some point. . Go through it and accept it if does happen, let mdma do its magic , maybe getting the emotions out is what you need to get over it. and that is what mdma is originally meant to do
 
Go for it! If you allow the MDMA experience to only be associated with her, she will always associate the beauty of MDMA with those memories. If you allow MDMA to be about having a great time, no matter when or who you're with- you win. =)

I've always be reluctant to roll at home or somewhere that wasn't a club or event- because I associated the good time I was having on e to be about partying, big DJs, new friends, constant stimulation. I kind of think this is sort of the same thing- part of you thinks that MDMA has to be shared with this girl, or someone you're dating. Association is a big part of the MDMA experience.
 
Bsiren said:
Go for it! If you allow the MDMA experience to only be associated with her, she will always associate the beauty of MDMA with those memories. If you allow MDMA to be about having a great time, no matter when or who you're with- you win. =)

I've always be reluctant to roll at home or somewhere that wasn't a club or event- because I associated the good time I was having on e to be about partying, big DJs, new friends, constant stimulation. I kind of think this is sort of the same thing- part of you thinks that MDMA has to be shared with this girl, or someone you're dating. Association is a big part of the MDMA experience.
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That's why the suggestion for him not to roll is a better choice. If he stays off of MDMA/Ecstasy for a longer amount of time while he fixes situations in his real life situation. Then he'll be prepared to roll better in the future and have a greater time.

A much better chance of having a great time rather then suddenly a "thought" might pop up into his head and he might go into a downward spiral from there.

We really don't want a fellow Bluelighter to feel that way, do we?
 
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