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socially inept people

I just seem to creep the shit out of people, they don't understand that things you do in certain situations are not things you do to your friend for the lulz, then comes stigma of drug abuse, and followed up with general eccentric interests and hobbies. BAM: sends people backing away slowly 95% of the time.
 
i'm definitely one of those people. i dont know how much of it is social anxiety, how much is just under developed and overall poor social skills and how much of it is disliking for social interaction. i've spent the majority of my free time this past decade alone on the internet. sometimes i imagine myself in social situations and think about how fun they could be but then my real life social interactions are usually nothing like the fantasies and a thousand times more awkward.
 
well let me ask all of you something. What is the underlying reason for you social ineptness? is it your looks, are u insecure about the way u look? is it just lack of social development since elementary school? or some drug habit that has u paranoid or uncomfortable? What is the underlying reason?
 
^ I'm a bit of a misanthrope. I simply don't like most people. I hate "mainstream" trends, behaviour, lifestyles, etc.

I guess I've always been like that. But my meth addiction has probably made it much worse over the years.
 
Sweet P said:
^ I'm a bit of a misanthrope. I simply don't like most people. I hate "mainstream" trends, behaviour, lifestyles, etc.

I guess I've always been like that. But my meth addiction has probably made it much worse over the years.
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yeah i'm like this too, always was like that except for me it was addictions to marijuana and benzos that made it worse.

i feel like my real self (in terms of what i am thinking and feeling) is often at odds with what would be considered normal or acceptable by society's standards and thus very much at odds with the self i present to the outside world. i guess it is like this to a degree for everyone but i just have never been able to balance it in a way i've been comfortable with.

i don't what the underlying reason is for any of this is, as far back i as can remember i had issues like this.
 
My friends call me "Buzz Killington" like the Family Guy character. Every time I get intoxicated I start ranting about anything and everything, ruining their dumbed-down parties.
 
I also am like this sometimes, though not as much as in the past. I was usually pretty shy growing up, then i found weed which helped at first then made it WAY worse. after i quit weed i went back to how i was, and then i started on opiates. They make me way more sociable, and like somebody said early i think that ive learned to interact with people while high, and that ability carried over to soberness as well.
 
burn out said:
i'm definitely one of those people. i dont know how much of it is social anxiety, how much is just under developed and overall poor social skills and how much of it is disliking for social interaction. i've spent the majority of my free time this past decade alone on the internet. sometimes i imagine myself in social situations and think about how fun they could be but then my real life social interactions are usually nothing like the fantasies and a thousand times more awkward.
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I've never actually thought about that before but a disliking of social interactions must play a definite part in certain behaviors and unavoidable interactions causing one to label themselves as inept.
 
I know I can be/have been the life of more than a few parties, but when it comes to being sober, I am a social disaster. I don't know how to talk to anyone. I don't know how to start a conversation without seeming like a creep/weirdo.
 
burn out said:
yeah i'm like this too, always was like that except for me it was addictions to marijuana and benzos that made it worse.

i feel like my real self (in terms of what i am thinking and feeling) is often at odds with what would be considered normal or acceptable by society's standards and thus very much at odds with the self i present to the outside world. i guess it is like this to a degree for everyone but i just have never been able to balance it in a way i've been comfortable with.

i don't what the underlying reason is for any of this is, as far back i as can remember i had issues like this.
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isn't this insecurity?
 
Yes, 100% me. On even the most sociable drugs, i only feel moderately more comfortable in social situations, mostly because I feel more confident in setting my own sort of rules to follow with social contact with others, and i dont worry about whom I put off in the process. Creeping people out / creating awkward social situations has almost become like an art to me
 
will66 said:
shit sounds just like me....Doing H definately helped me distance myself from most social situations in general, which is to my liking :\
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Exactly...put me in a room by myself with a pack of cigs, my laptop, a needle and a shitton of dope and I'll be happy forever. No need to "socialize". What's the point when you don't care about other people and rather live in your own world anyways?
 
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Theres an amazing world out there man, Itd be a shame to never see anything more then the four walls of your room.

"Choose life" - to take a quote from Trainspotting.

And don't take this post the wrong way, I have major drug/mental issues too bro.
 
puckboy said:
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Theres an amazing world out there man, Itd be a shame to never see anything more then the four walls of your room.

"Choose life" - to take a quote from Trainspotting.

And don't take this post the wrong way, I have major drug/mental issues too bro.
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beautifully said. And i know u will get through all drug and mental issues, you're a smart guy.
 
Hey, I've got issues, too! J/K. Fucking drugs are so hard to quit when you're a polydrug abuser, that I've had to quit 1 drug at a time, and every aspect of my life has suffered do to this, um...I don't want to call it a disease...affliction. Yeah, it's an affliction.
 
That was me until I quit smoking weed.

All I used to do was sit in my garrage and get stoned and nothing much more. Now I'm goin out and actually not being awkward and anxious, and pullin bitches left and right. Honestly if you're socially awkward and a stoner quitting weed is the absolute best thing you can do for yourself.
 
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I've thought about that before. Funny thing is, when I first started smoking it made me more social. But that was before all the drugs fried my fucking shit.
 
idk man i have a pretty small group of people i like to be fucked up around on anything but booze. with booze it's a much larger group. legit
 
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