Pretty_Diamonds
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Just txt her, did you have fun rolling the other night?
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social anxiety keeping me from talking to a really cute girl
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PsychedelicMess
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yes i did have alot of fun i took .2 but it was one of those rolls where your rolling so hard you dont want to get up. and eye wiggles were fucking insane hahaa
Pretty_Diamonds
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No, I mean.. txt her ASKING her. You know, to start a conversation with her.
Pagey
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Definitely.
Because it establishes a kind of relation of power. If you end up being her boyfriend and her dealer at the same time it means you're going to have a lot of control over her, which is everything but healthy in a relationship.
PsychedelicMess
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how would i have alot of control. im definantly not that kind of person and treat everybody equally. plus if it was a relation ship im not going to charge her i tend to toss friends freebies haha. unless they fuck me over then i cut them off completley
PsychedelicMess
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of course i would ensure she is trust worthy and a reliable person before the free shit started to happen. to make sure its not just for molly.
bunnymunro
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mate just do it... oh wait on! while you were fucking around, I did it... she is going out with me now... sorry, you lost . shes gives good head, and really doesn't want drugs as much as she likes a steady relationship... ah well just what I was looking for.
dopemaster
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I would not call a girl to be like hey you wanna do my drugs. I would call her and ask her on a date or to hang out. Depends on your age. If your not a dope dealer dont be her dope dealer. You know. But social anxiety is natural at a young age and I got it. I ended up with a klonopin script and it fixed everything. But dont let that stop you. Sending her a text and saying hi is the best way to text. I didnt have a cell in high school. Damn im old, almost 30. So we used to have to call girls and talk to them. Be like what are you up to, is shes like im so bored be like I am to you want to hang out or something, like go for a walk or get a soda, smoke a joint. If shes clearly busy ask her if she has plans for the weekend and if not well ask her to go see a movie or grab a burger. So I definetly would stay away from the hard drug route. If she ask for dope say well i dont really sell it but maybe we could do some and make her pay for it. Ill pay for a date but damn drugs are expensive.
That being said I mean yeah you can bust out drugs, but dude its a date thats going somewhere if shes doing your drugs and hell I would definetly say that. This changes the dynamics if shes a party girl. She wants drugs, u want sex and you might like her, but u know if shes a hoe like that.. Really if a woman wants to use you for drugs, she better fuck you otherwise its like paying a prostitute and not fucking her. Its ok to share, if thats your thing, but dont let her just use you for alot of dope. If she wants to buy some thats cool. Id tax her a bit and do some with her. If she is not interested in you and blows you off just double the price or tell her she can trick off for cost. If you actually like her DO NOT make your relationship about drugs at all.
I dont mean to be rude, its just that well dont get taken advantage of. Ive had experiences with druggy chicks where they would date me when I was a straight up dope dealer and be so surprised that I wasnt trying to pay them to date me. At that point I let them know they were a hoe by saying suck my cock and presenting said drugs. Dont let that happen to you. You sound like a nice guy.
That being said I mean yeah you can bust out drugs, but dude its a date thats going somewhere if shes doing your drugs and hell I would definetly say that. This changes the dynamics if shes a party girl. She wants drugs, u want sex and you might like her, but u know if shes a hoe like that.. Really if a woman wants to use you for drugs, she better fuck you otherwise its like paying a prostitute and not fucking her. Its ok to share, if thats your thing, but dont let her just use you for alot of dope. If she wants to buy some thats cool. Id tax her a bit and do some with her. If she is not interested in you and blows you off just double the price or tell her she can trick off for cost. If you actually like her DO NOT make your relationship about drugs at all.
I dont mean to be rude, its just that well dont get taken advantage of. Ive had experiences with druggy chicks where they would date me when I was a straight up dope dealer and be so surprised that I wasnt trying to pay them to date me. At that point I let them know they were a hoe by saying suck my cock and presenting said drugs. Dont let that happen to you. You sound like a nice guy.
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B1tO'RoughJack
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SELF DIAGNOSED.
You're a skinny guy? You have irregular digestion and poor circulation? If so you are naturally prone to anxiety. What you wanna do is eat sweet food and stay away from any drugs that don't bring you down...fuck it STAY AWAY FROM DRUGS. Maybe do MDMA once a year.
Social anxiety disorder is just a way to prescribe pharmaceutical drugs - I'm sick of the amount of people who say they have it. It doesn't exist - just treat yourself right, and be aware of your natural condition.
ON TOPIC - do it. Don't even mention MDMA, just ask if she wants to hang out sometime. DON'T MENTION DRUGS. You will find out whether she's just interested in getting dosed soon. If not then you can still be shy and hang out - fuck it, it will still work for you, just slower!!
It's called shyness. PRACTICE MAKES PERFECT - it's easy to get over if you don't make yourself more anxious with certain foods and drugs that scatter your energy.
You're a skinny guy? You have irregular digestion and poor circulation? If so you are naturally prone to anxiety. What you wanna do is eat sweet food and stay away from any drugs that don't bring you down...fuck it STAY AWAY FROM DRUGS. Maybe do MDMA once a year.
Social anxiety disorder is just a way to prescribe pharmaceutical drugs - I'm sick of the amount of people who say they have it. It doesn't exist - just treat yourself right, and be aware of your natural condition.
ON TOPIC - do it. Don't even mention MDMA, just ask if she wants to hang out sometime. DON'T MENTION DRUGS. You will find out whether she's just interested in getting dosed soon. If not then you can still be shy and hang out - fuck it, it will still work for you, just slower!!
It's called shyness. PRACTICE MAKES PERFECT - it's easy to get over if you don't make yourself more anxious with certain foods and drugs that scatter your energy.
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dopemaster
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What that guy just said was good stuff. I used to do alot of X. That stuff can take a toll on your mind. It is a nasty drug if you do alot. I probly wouldnt have to take so much benzos now if I hadnt done so much coke, x, and pills (one thing leads to another). But yeah you should use that stuff sparingly. But it doesnt really have a significant place in dating. Drugs are fun and all, but I try to seperate drugs from dating. Sometimes people drink on dates, not usually first ones though. I keep drugs out of a first date most the time or minimal. So X is a bit much. Its potent shit, so I would save it for special occasions like on vacation or holidays.