SLR Social vs. Hello Nurse

[Pagey]

Oh Serotonin, even in a relationship still hitting on the women of BL, I knew you'd never leave us

 

[rangrz]

lol If she gets our dysfunctional family and fits in, I think she's an automatic keeper. There are plenty of drug experimenters out there, but I've yet to get anyone to read here and "get it."

True dat. We can use my experience as empirical evidence that if a S/O "gets" BL, they are awesome.

 

[soundsystem00]

Well, the Mexican girl is nowhere to be found. Hasn't showed up to work in two days.

That didnt last long. Suppose it wasn't meant to be. Ill probably never see her again.

On a lighter note, I got a date tomorrow with a girl. Not only is she white, but we are going out to dinner and getting a room. She said I better put out.

 

[Pagey]

You better put out, sounds like things aren't going too bad
(In passing, why does it matter if she's white? )

 

[Cohesion]

ss00 wth are you doing dating a coworker? Is it? shame shame.

congrats on your date! I am a fan of dates.. don't forget to post in the date thread... details!

 

[_a_A_C_c_]

ss00, people actually still get rooms? or maybe i an old and the people i play with all have their own places? either way, good luck with the new girl

True dat. We can use my experience as empirical evidence that if a S/O "gets" BL, they are awesome.

i would agree... tho it is kinda weird to read about personal issues my friends are having and then hang with them as if nothing is amiss. even weirder when neither admits to being a BLer and having bitched about something.

 

[Beachcat]

SS00....I know you got laid, give us the deets, yeah?

So, I have a sex injury to report. Last night, I was giving my husband a BJ and he told me to take my pajama bottoms off. So I stood up for some reason, but got a little light headed and stumbled against my bifold closet doors, which were slightly open. My hand hit first to brace my fall, but then my body hit and slammed the doors shut.

Unfortunately, the meat of my hand was in the crack between the doors, and when they slammed shut....omg. My hand is seriously fucked up today. Like if I had pain meds, I would take them, it hurts that bad. Red, black, blue, swollen. Ouch. The good sex made up for the pain, I think, but no hand jobs for me until it heals....fuck, actually, I hope I can still masturbate, that would suck.

 

[kaywholed]

SS00....I know you got laid, give us the deets, yeah?

So, I have a sex injury to report. Last night, I was giving my husband a BJ and he told me to take my pajama bottoms off. So I stood up for some reason, but got a little light headed and stumbled against my bifold closet doors, which were slightly open. My hand hit first to brace my fall, but then my body hit and slammed the doors shut.

Unfortunately, the meat of my hand was in the crack between the doors, and when they slammed shut....omg. My hand is seriously fucked up today. Like if I had pain meds, I would take them, it hurts that bad. Red, black, blue, swollen. Ouch. The good sex made up for the pain, I think, but no hand jobs for me until it heals....fuck, actually, I hope I can still masturbate, that would suck.

lesson: sex is dangerous.

wear a helmet and all protective equipment at all times.

 

[rangrz]

Do you has insurance Beach? If so pretty please go get an xray? You could well of fractured a bone, from the sound of the swelling and bruising and the pain that's still there after a night.

MsG got mad at me for making an off handed comment about BDSM on her Facebook. She's worried some straight laced types well get off put or something.

 

[Beachcat]

Lol, kaywholed, that is pretty funny.

Thanks, rangrz. I am pretty sure it is just pretty severe soft tissue bruising. It is the part of my hand on the palm below the pinky, in the "meaty" part. If it gets worse, I will go for sure.

 

[Cohesion]

MsG got mad at me for making an off handed comment about BDSM on her Facebook. She's worried some straight laced types well get off put or something.

I'd be mad too dear.

Public space, 'n all..
Some things are best hidden sweetly away.

 

[Beachcat]

Here you go, you know, for a visual and all...the red line is where it actually got pinched in the door...

 

[rangrz]

I'd be mad too dear.

Public space, 'n all..
Some things are best hidden sweetly away.

Lol. Ya I guess... I suppose since.a disinterested 3rd party agrees, I'll not be mad at her for being mad at me...

Just like, I wouldn't care at all, and I work in a very straight laced and conservative environment.

Beach: That bruise is right over a metacarpal bone...

 

[llama112]

Lol. Ya I guess... I suppose since.a disinterested 3rd party agrees, I'll not be mad at her for being mad at me...

Just like, I wouldn't care at all, and I work in a very straight laced and conservative environment.

Beach: That bruise is right over a metacarpal bone...

I'd probably get a bit upset as well. Conservative type friends. Family. Coworkers. I work in a corporate type job and I wouldn't want things related to sex/drugs all over my facebook/social media. Sucks that you can't post things like that without it being a big deal, but it's just how it is I guess. My bf's family is so super Conversative that he can't post like anything on facebook (even opinions) or his family will freak out on him. His facebook is rather plain lol.

On a side note, my sex drive has decreased a LOT lately. I don't know what to do to increase it. It may be the stress from work getting to me but I don't know. My bf is finally getting a bit frustrated with it. *sigh* I just can't figure out how to increase my sex drive much. I'm only 22 ... it shouldn't be decreasing already, lol!

 

[Beachcat]

Llama, are you on hormonal birth control at all? Or any other meds? Could you be depressed?

If none of those, i will say that over the years my sex drive has waxed and waned pretty naturally. I have found that if I am in a period where my drive is low, I never turn down sex unless I am truly ill. Having sex seems to make libido increase naturally. During those times I may not initiate, but I never decline if my partner wants it. It helped him not feel resentful of me and it helped me recover my natural drive.

You could also try something like reading some erotica. That always does it for me. Or masturbating. Whenever I masturbate more frequently it makes me want to have sex more. Just my .02.

 

[Pagey]

lol kaywholed, that picture made me think of the cum-protector picture AEP put up in the lounge a little while back, that was hilarious

Beachcat I hope your hand's okay!

llama I wouldn't worry about it too much - it's been the same for me lately (and I'm only 19!), I don't want sex at all but I think it's just because I'm pretty busy in my life at the moment so I don't feel a need for it. It's normal for there to be periods like that

 

[llama112]

Yep, I'm on birth control pills, but I have been on them for about 5 years. I switched 3 yrs ago to the birth control with the least amount of hormones (since I got super moody on the first kind I tried). Not depressed but I do have anxiety. Masturbation hasn't worked for me. Porn doesn't work for me either. Never thought of erotica before.
But yeah, I think I'm just too tired all the time. And he is too. We both work regular day jobs and then have a "second" job as well. And then we party a lot on the weekend. So we don't get much of a chance to spend time together. I know that's part of it. But I could probably go like weeks without having sex. We do have sex about once a week but I wish I wanted it more!!

 

[Pagey]

Sometimes it just takes doing it more to realize how much you want it. Like you may not feel particularly horny these days, but maybe if you started having sex more anyway it would come back instantly (like I've noticed that if I don't have sex in a while sometimes I just don't feel like I want it at all, but then as soon as I do again I realize how horny I've been the whole time haha)

 

[soundsystem00]

I hate one night stands.

 

[Pagey]

Whatsup?