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Beachcat said:
So, I laid it all out on the line last night. Me and the hubs were in bed and he was bringing up some ridiculous idea about something, and it worked its way into the following conversation which I have been wanting to have with him for sometime. Background: in real life, he is a very,very assertive male. He is an executive chef and he is a bit of a hard ass. he is very masculine in that respect. Anyway, the conversation....

Him: wouldn't it be cool to have like sex slaves that do whatever you want?
Me: hmm....I don't think that would work out, you are not exactly dominant sexually.
Him: (shocked) What? You don't think I am assertive?
Me: you are in your day to day life, but not in the bedroom
Him: what are you talking about? What am I like in the bedroom?
Me: well, you are very laid back. You much prefer to receive. I am usually the initiator, and I am the one usually doing things to you.
Him: (after thinking for a minute) well, you might be right, but I bet I could read a book on how to be dominant in bed...

It was fucking hilarious....read a book. I considered pretending I was a guy and just showing him exactly what I meant. Actually, I might do that tonight. It has been bothering me for a while that he is so laid back, but our sex life is good in general so I didn't want to rock the boat. Only, now I do. Should be fun!
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go buy him a book.
 
LYSIS! Uhhh, exciting stuff! Not sure which is more- the date or a new outfit.:D Saw your post yesterday and had just received a new catalog from Swell. When I saw the jacket you posted, it kinda reminded me of this, but not sure if you'd dig it.

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From one FL girl to another, I *love* your outfit idea! As for the date? Give him hell, girl.;)




Lysis said:
It's a beach outfit. I don't have it yet. :D It started out with "K, please help me find a shirt" and it turned into a whole new outfit. It might be cold on the beach (it turned fucking freezing today!) so I wanted something semi warm.

This (my sis says jean jackets are back in..who knew?) with the yellow shirt.
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With this skirt (in grey)
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Shoes:
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Accessories (pink and yellow ones):
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Aviator sunglasses for day (not sure if I will blow money on these...I'm not crazy about the aviator glasses look)
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Thanks, poopster! I really love that dress too. I haven't heard of Swell. I'm gonna check that out. (I hate you for getting me to shop more lol)

Give him hell, girl.
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lol I'm gonna give him so much shit.
 
Mr.Scagnattie said:
Are we supposed to have dif personas depending on what forum of BL we're in? Hah.
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I think it's really just the Lounge vs. the rest. Welcome ;)

On a completely unrelated note, I just saw Django Unchained and anyone who hasn't yet should go get their ass to the cinema immediately because it's fucking amazing.
 
rangrz said:
Your lounge persona is more lulzy, but your SLR persona does pretty damn well considering the nature of this sub-forum.
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lol I know. I love the Lounge. But, I'm still a god damn girl in every way.

Are we supposed to have dif personas depending on what forum of BL we're in? Hah.
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I do. It's kinda like going swimming with the sharks (Lounge) and you either punch them in the nose or they will eat you alive. lol I personally think those guys are hilarious and I sit in my chair sometimes at work and just LMAO while I'm sure people around me think I'm insane. haha

My Lounge personal is more "me" in the sense that it's my sense of humor style. Here, it's more like my past that I see in some people's posts and I can relate to some of it.
 
meh, basically chickened out and didn't bother talking to anyone.
I am super le sad, and hate life at the moment and don't feel like talking to anyone. Gonna try and get my ass to yoga tonight, but I haven't exercised much other than walking in over a month and I feel like shit.

Pagey said:
On a completely unrelated note, I just saw Django Unchained and anyone who hasn't yet should go get their ass to the cinema immediately because it's fucking amazing.
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or torrent the dvd screen thats been out for weeks.

lounge personas are the bestest.

i r super curious to see how people are IRL. on the internet I like being super offensive and trollish. IRL i try to avoid getting punched in the face, but sometimes...
 
kaywholed said:
meh, basically chickened out and didn't bother talking to anyone.
I am super le sad, and hate life at the moment and don't feel like talking to anyone. Gonna try and get my ass to yoga tonight, but I haven't exercised much other than walking in over a month and I feel like shit.


or torrent the dvd screen thats been out for weeks.

lounge personas are the bestest.

i r super curious to see how people are IRL. on the internet I like being super offensive and trollish. IRL i try to avoid getting punched in the face, but sometimes...
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Aw that sucks :( I hate those kinds of phases where you just want to stay in your room all day and not see anyone...you should try to push yourself a bit though, force yourself to do it and you'll start wanting it again, IME.

And yeah I would usually do that but once in a while I treat myself to a £12 cinema ticket (for fuck's sake) and in this case it was worth seeing it on the big screen.
 
Yeh, I don't always say much but you guys keep me entertained and company. I'm going to put the kid to bed and come back to read about the latest dramas. peace bhai.
 
Yeah Pagey my girlfriend and I saw Django when it first came out in the theatre... it was fucking epic. Amazing. I need to see it again just to soak in all of it's awesomeness. One time is just not enough haha. When it comes out on DVD my friends and I are all going to have a Django viewing party. Booze and strippers will be present. :)
 
kaywholed said:
meh, basically chickened out and didn't bother talking to anyone.
I am super le sad, and hate life at the moment and don't feel like talking to anyone. Gonna try and get my ass to yoga tonight, but I haven't exercised much other than walking in over a month and I feel like shit.


or torrent the dvd screen thats been out for weeks.

lounge personas are the bestest.

i r super curious to see how people are IRL. on the internet I like being super offensive and trollish. IRL i try to avoid getting punched in the face, but sometimes...
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kaywholed, I wish you would use the same awesome moves you pull here IRL. ;) You have a way with words. Even in your PMs, you are such an awesome character. I wish you would find that same charisma IRL.
 
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