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Jblazingphoenix100

Jblazingphoenix100

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OK, so I spend a lot of time in the Lounge - but I thought that SLR having a Q & A thread, where you get to know the people who post in here a bit better relationship-wise than their knee-jerk reactions or pretentious retorts - just interesting stuff really.

This could turn out OK - so just weather it a lil eyy, mods?

A nice lengthy reply with plenty of detail would be good, not like one sentence unless it's a really simple answer.

Here goes -

What do you consider to be taboo sexually, and why?
 
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Anal. LOL My butt will forever be a virgin.

ETA mah question:

How do you initiate sex with your partner?
 
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When I'm seeing someone I usually just start rubbing their ass and outer thighs, then inner and breasts, while maybe kissing their neck from behind and whispering dirty things or sweet nothings in their ear...


Of all the positions you have done from the Karma Sutra - what's your favourite one you find yoursefl doing the most often?
 
^ Hmmm... my favourite.... depends on the mood but I do like having my legs on the man's shoulders, I get a good pounding and visuals, too ;) but at the moment we seem to be doing doggy style most often, probably because I've been feeling pretty submissive.

What the longest you've gone in a long term relationship (not long-distance) without having sex with your partner?
 
^ oi you're supposed to answer the question first before posting a new one :)
 
Oh noes I fudged the game. :!

Is the G-spot in the dictionary?

I thought I had a thesaurus around here somewhere....






You will find the G-Spot located deep within the vaginal wall.

Firm controlled, pressure is needed to reach the G-Spot in its non-stimulated state. Stroking this area with a firm, masterful touch, she will experience twinges of contractions in her uterus. As she approaches the point of orgasm, if this is her first time having one this way, she may get a 'full-bladder" feeling. This happens because of the prolonged intensity of the orgasm. The clear, whitish fluid from her G-Spot ejaculation will be different from that achieved through clitoral stimulation.

Researchers have attempted to build on the claim that G-spot stimulation leads to female ejaculation, hypothesizing that non-urine female ejaculate originated from the female paraurethral glands, or Skene's gland.

The best way for a partner to discover her G-Spot.

You are more likely to find the G Spot if the woman is already well aroused, and using fingers are generally more effective than a penis.

1. Ask her to lie on her belly, legs apart, and hips rotated slightly upwards.

2. Insert two fingers (palm down) and carefully explore the front wall of her vagina with a firm touch.

3. Reach under her body and place your other hand on her abdomen, just above the pubic hairline, and apply a soft, downward pressure. This often helps to stimulate her G-Spot.

Position one

Guide her on to her hands and knees, with her buttocks raised and her head down. Kneel behind her and grasp her by her waist. As you penetrate her vagina in this position the head of your penis will hit her G-Spot automatically.

Position two

Guide her on to her back, raising her buttocks and lower back. As you mount her, gently bend her legs so that her knees touch her breasts. Now lovingly thump her G-Spot until she is an orgasmic mess.

Position three

Lie on your back, with your legs extended. Have your lady straddle you, with her knees positioned outside your legs, she will be facing your feet with her back turned to you. In this unique position, your penis will easily hit her G-Spot.

Female Ejaculation

The G Spot is said to be linked with female ejaculation where women produce fluid on climaxing similiar to males except the ejaculate is usually a clear watery fluid that is not urine.
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=D
 
you didn't answer whether you could find it, but if we're being pedantic that was not the actual question (you suck at this game dude - you need to ask a question once you've answered it hahaha <3 )

Do you like giving head? If not, why not?
 
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you didn't answer whether you could find it, but if we're being pedantic that was not the actual question (you suck at this game dude - you need to ask a question once you've answered it hahaha <3 )

Do you like giving head? If not, why not?
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Yes, I enjoy giving fellatio to men but I only do this with a male partner/boyfriend who I'm in a relationship with. Everyone else gets to service me.

What's the kinkiest thing you've done?
 
hmm, prolly going to a dungeon with a friend. we mostly watched but i did get whipped a few times.

what is one thing you have always wanted to try but haven't yet? why?
 
have sex with another girl... more specifically fucking a girl with a strap-on (i'd be wearing the strap-on). i think the fantasy is probably more hot than the reality would be.


where is the most inappropriate place you've had sex?
 
at a public beach in the surf with a chubby. she loved it more than i cared to at the time, i probably wouldnt have bothered if she werent so persistent. I didn't even know the girl. random on the beach. salt water isnt really the best lubricant either.

What's place is at the top of your travel list & why?
 
Lustyfound!!!!! It's supposed to be a sex question! Lol

ok I'll spin it. I want to have sex in an Irish castle. I dunno why but it sounds hot.

What is the hottest thing you've ever had done to you that made you feel like you want to explode?
 
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This might sound awfully simplistic, but when milady licks from my balls all the way to the tip of my penis and then makes her way up to licking my nipples I just want to explode, literally. Another one is when she is reverse cowgirl maneuvering like a pro and it also makes me want to explode, or implode, depending on where she sends me.


What is one thing that you've never done, but really want to do someday, sexually?
 
No effin way on the anal reverse cowgirl....that would hurt me and I like anal occasionally.

To answer your question, it would be drunk one night stands where all I remember is the guy's nickname was Sack. He had the largest scrotum I have ever seen.

Do you prefer to have sex under the influence (and what) or sober?
 
i don't really do anything other than drink, so i guess i prefer sober sex. usually when i am drunk i get distracted too easily.

a related question, have you ever used a substance to boost your performance in bed?
 
I've had sex on various things - acid, coke, alcohol, xanax, etc. I don't take anything to boost performance (I guess that would be a guy thing anyway). I have a few viagra pills that were given to me by my boss. I used to be a software developer for an online pharmacy, so he gave me a few pills. I still have them. LOL One of these days, I'll get someone to try them LOL

Would you trust someone to have sex on camera? I've been asked multiple times to do it, and I always say no, because I don't trust anyone to post that shit up on the Internet as soon as the relationship is over.
 
^ it's a good question... I've had naughty pictures of me taken but never full on video/amateur porn. I think I would trust my bf if he really wanted to but he never mentioned it... I'm kinda disinhibited in bed but I reckon cameras would bring about immediate stage fright, so I'd probably prefer not to. I've never dated anyone who would put something like this online after a break up though, and I hope I never will... it's true you never know though!

Q: what's the longest amount of time it has taken you to reach an orgasm (with and without a partner)?
 
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