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Slow and Sensual OR Hard and Fast

i think we can all agree that if the sex doesn't vary then its really dull

i like pleasing my partner (especially with oral sex) but i also have a weird control freak thing when it comes to fucking, i dont like someone riding me if they're trying to break my dick:\. i like to pin them down with my legs locked round theirs so they cant move and then go at it. i love the control of having them unable to move but getting them off as well.

a mix of aggression/control and submission like a confused teen being blown for the first time is my personal style
 
op is a false dilemma.

sometimes one. sometimes the other. sometimes both. sometimes neither. sometimes all of the above.

alasdair
 
I'd have to say both depending on my mood..got to have a lil spice esp afterbeing together so long or stuff gets boring.
 
Mix it up.

It totally depends on the situation and mood. Sometimes you just want to fuck and go crazy.. other times you're in the mood for a more sensual experience.

But for an average sex session, I think a mix of slow and fast is nice. You just have to feel the rhythm and go with what feels right at the time with your partner.
 
soul mate said:
Do you prefer slow, sensual, guided penetration? Or do you prefer hard, fast, banging?

Perhaps a combination of both?

Any thoughts?
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It depends how much dopamine is reuptaken. The more dopamine is reuptaken the faster you gotta bang it. The more you inhibit the reuptake the slower you gotta go.
 
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