I'm a fellow New Englander, from RI, whatever that's worth....IME, if you're coming off of dope and you take 35mg of methadone, that's enough to hold most people even with large habits....That doesn't mean you get bombed, it just holds you
Tapering off of methadone is different...I agree that a lot of it is psychological, but it's not all in your head...You should do what you're comfortable with. but understand, there's no way to get off scott free...
I found, even when I was on a high dose of methadone, sometimes I would start getting a runny nose and feel kind of achey in the early morning hours 2-6 AM....It's kind of like a false sickness though, because even if I missed my dose, I still wouldn't really get sick that day
Do what you're comfortable with, it's your body and your life and staying on methadone is preferable to relapse...But if you're boyfriend is acting all "holier than thou" because he's on Sub, that's bullshit too....Getting off sub sucks too! It's scary I know, but it's not THAT bad as long as you don't just jump off...
And, IMHO, jumping from methadone to subs, just to do a detox from the subs is more trouble than it's worth..