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***Singles Thread*** - WE LOVE IT.
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nickyj said:
No you are just ridiculous.
On a serious note:-
I realised today I can't just go up to a girl that is a complete stranger and talk to them.To me it seems totally unnatural.I can only show interest in a girl if I have some natural interaction with them egs: Non forced interaction like being served in by a girl in a shop,girl approaching me,know from chatting on the 'net,etc,etc.......
I thought about this today because there is a girl I find attractive that I see almost daily travelling to and from work.I've noticed we live NOT too far away from each other,and work NOT too far from each other.I was going to approach her today,but decided that it seems so unnatural.To me there has to be reason outside of picking up to approach a girl,and has to be someone I know from 'natural' interaction.Thoughts? Anyone else feel this way?
UnSquare
Ex-Bluelighter
Sure Shot
Dude,
jus' find some way to bump into her,
while she's carryin' books or papers,
or some shit,
then help her pick 'em up...
Didn't you watch Degrassi?
Dude,
jus' find some way to bump into her,
while she's carryin' books or papers,
or some shit,
then help her pick 'em up...
Didn't you watch Degrassi?
UnSquare
Ex-Bluelighter
Vancouver Is Also A Rockin' Jeff Song
"Tessa! You were f-cking Tessa!"
"Tessa! You were f-cking Tessa!"
Samadhi
Bluelight Crew
^^ ahahah :D
Wake up in the morning
Feeling shy and lonely
Gee, i gotta go to school...
Wake up in the morning
Feeling shy and lonely
Gee, i gotta go to school...
Benefit
Bluelighter
Wacky,
Just follow her home one day, then camp outside her window and right around the time she's getting ready to go to sleep and is putting on her pajamas knock on the window and flash your doodle. Women love that shit.
Just follow her home one day, then camp outside her window and right around the time she's getting ready to go to sleep and is putting on her pajamas knock on the window and flash your doodle. Women love that shit.
UnSquare said:Dude,
jus' find some way to bump into her,
while she's carryin' books or papers,
or some shit,
then help her pick 'em up...
Didn't you watch Degrassi?
lol im afraid to admit it but i loved degrassi! gotta love canadian after school specials%)
Wacky, you know what would be a funny coincidence, if you were that cute guy she see's everyday on her way to work
Theres a guy i see on my way to work sometimes & i know he works in the same building. If he knocked me over by "accident" id be rapt! - you dont have to necessarily ask her out straight away, just have a chat (suss out if she's single & whatnot)
i think asking anyone out in a situation like that is bound to be a little daunting but could be worth it.
katmeow
Bluelight Crew
Benefit said:
I thought you only did that at my house
sonicnature
Bluelighter
Benefit said:
I can see the Benefit in that.
Samadhi
Bluelight Crew
Benefit said:
That sounds disturbingly similar to how my husband and I met... a true testament to women really loving that shit.
kryalkastleE
Bluelighter
samadhi said:
Everybody wants something
They'll never give up
Everyone wants something
They'll take your mon---ayyyyy
And never give up!!!
*im going to the shame thread to admit i own season 1&2 of degrassi junior high and season 1&2 of degrassi high.*
doofqueen
Bluelighter
Wacky said:
I agree. You have to 'know' someone before you want to know them. Asthetics are just that sometimes *shrugs*
BUT
It's still quite flattering to be asked out on the street (unless the guy is creepy) but superficial all the same - still makes you feel nice. You can't be mad at anyone who tries unless they were disrespectful about it.
I like your natural intelligence theory though.
MR Candyslut
Greenlighter
Degressi is worth obsessing over! That, and Press Gang were the coolest
Being single is fucking fantastic if you are dating some wanker who you know you should not be with. I have been single for the past 8 months and I am starting to get sick of people asking me why I do not have a new boyfriend. It is the most irritating question!
I believe in a theory that a wise friend taught me; happy versus content. I hate it when people go out with someone even when they know they are probably not best suited ie content.
Being single is fucking fantastic if you are dating some wanker who you know you should not be with. I have been single for the past 8 months and I am starting to get sick of people asking me why I do not have a new boyfriend. It is the most irritating question!
I believe in a theory that a wise friend taught me; happy versus content. I hate it when people go out with someone even when they know they are probably not best suited ie content.
breakyaself
Bluelighter
Urgh.
So anyWAY I start seeing this guy, and to be fair, I havent exactly let him know I am TOTALLY interested. When I invite him to shit, Im like, Im going here with a whole heap of ppl you may tag along if you want. We saw each other Monday night, and I invited him here tonight, which would be the first night we would have spent together by ourselves since we met. Anyway, I cannot be fucked, and I send him a message and I get one back saying something along the lines of ... im sick of this, im doing all I can to make time for you.. YOU contact me next and tell ME when you have time for me.
We have known each other for 2 weeks, does this guy need to get a grip , or what ?
Im sick of meeting boys who expect too much. Im a busy woman, and I really dont have time for seeing ppl whenever they feel like it.
So anyWAY I start seeing this guy, and to be fair, I havent exactly let him know I am TOTALLY interested. When I invite him to shit, Im like, Im going here with a whole heap of ppl you may tag along if you want. We saw each other Monday night, and I invited him here tonight, which would be the first night we would have spent together by ourselves since we met. Anyway, I cannot be fucked, and I send him a message and I get one back saying something along the lines of ... im sick of this, im doing all I can to make time for you.. YOU contact me next and tell ME when you have time for me.
We have known each other for 2 weeks, does this guy need to get a grip , or what ?
Im sick of meeting boys who expect too much. Im a busy woman, and I really dont have time for seeing ppl whenever they feel like it.
MR Candyslut
Greenlighter
Eeek! I can't believe he said that after two weeks, breakyaself!
I can understand his annoyance, and i must say, the whole sms text thing would have been highly irritating
. I used to be a serial sms offender when it came to getting out of things until i realised how annoying it is to get a such an impersonal cancellation ![:\](https://bluelight.org/xf/BL_Images/Orig_Emoji/wrygrin.gif "wry grin :\")
Still though, if that dude is having such a sooky lala after 2 weeks of knowing you? Well, all i can say is 'hot potato.'
I can understand his annoyance, and i must say, the whole sms text thing would have been highly irritating
. I used to be a serial sms offender when it came to getting out of things until i realised how annoying it is to get a such an impersonal cancellation Still though, if that dude is having such a sooky lala after 2 weeks of knowing you? Well, all i can say is 'hot potato.'
breakyaself
Bluelighter
I know ! I dont think 2 weeks justifies his words, at all.
Chill winston, chill.
But I think you are right about the sms thing, I even considered calling, but I got over that idea fairly quickly.
Chill winston, chill.
But I think you are right about the sms thing, I even considered calling, but I got over that idea fairly quickly.
zephyr
Ex-Bluelighter
^ send him a smoke signal or esp. If he doesnt get it them the problem is at his end, not yours.
I think one of the best things about being single is that there are opportunity's around every corner.
Maybe it just cos im a daydreamer lol but i like the idea that my life can go in whichever direction i want it too, anytime.
Im starting to wonder if i could actually be snapped out of that. Its going to have to take someone pretty great for me settle down.
Maybe it just cos im a daydreamer lol but i like the idea that my life can go in whichever direction i want it too, anytime.
Im starting to wonder if i could actually be snapped out of that. Its going to have to take someone pretty great for me settle down.
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