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***Singles Thread*** - WE LOVE IT.

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iamtha1 said:
I think everyone craves want they don't have. Most people in couples crave the supposed 'fun loving' crazy single life, most singles want the stability of a relationship. And so it goes...
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Perhaps for those who are a little insecure. I think perhaps if someone feels they are missing something they may want what they don't have, but what about those of us who are content with just being us or in love and couldn't imagine being single.
 
ruski said:
I think a person is more likely to get scared off if you start bubbling away the minute you meet them about every innocuous detail of your life.
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ruski said:
Perhaps for those who are a little insecure.
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Yes! ;)

Seriously, for some people it just feels natural and comfortable to let the conversation run wild! In fact, I like it that way - it's EXCITING! I would never attempt to change, simply because some people get 'scared'.

I don't particulary desire a man who's scared of reality!

I respect anyone's reasons for not wishing to reveal their secrets at any stage, but for some people... the things you consider secrets, may just be details. They're probably simply not associating too much value with telling you these things...

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Anyhow... on a different note - I think the man who ends up with me is either going to be very, very brave or completely nuts. Probably the latter, actually!
 
iamtha1 said:
I think everyone craves want they don't have. Most people in couples crave the supposed 'fun loving' crazy single life, most singles want the stability of a relationship. And so it goes...
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but that just makes me confused again ... damn it :p

;)

She wants to move in with me! it's only been four months! It's a little too soon i think. I'm freaking out!
 
^ and somewhat flattered ?

Doppelganger said:
I don't particulary desire a man who's scared of reality!
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I deny you're reality and substitute my own

What kind of person in a relationship?

I'm the ultimate confidant, the person who finally gets you, who you can trust 100%, who knows all your buttons and (in an open and positive way) plays you like a fiddle. I get inside a girls head very quickly; within a couple of months i know them much better than they'll ever know themselves.
This has 2 side affects:
1. With problems I can answer exactly whats wrong, why and what they can do to fix it, they quickly become massively dependent and i become a crutch
2. The balance of the relationship is thrown irreversibly out of whack

Attractive quality?
As above.

Attracted to?
Tiny + Confidant + Subtly Twisted
 
trancegirle said:
Another question:D What do you think your most attractive quality is? And what quality are you most attracted to in potentials?
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1. I never really thought about what makes me attractive. I do know that I'm a geek in almost every sense of the word - I can fix things, I have an odd sense of humour, I have obscure tastes etc. I know that I'm unique but I'm not quite sure in what way.

2. Even though I keep complaining about them and even though I know they'll be the death of me, I think I am attracted to the crazy ones. Why? Because normal people are just so boring!
 
I realized a while ago that I'm a terrible person to have a relationship with! I have no idea what my attractive qualities would be!

I'm especially attracted to handsome, arty guys... they tend to have interesting minds! But basically, I like any type of person who enjoys debates, and forgets about them within 5 minutes! I never hold grudges against people I trulycare about... I care too much for that! xoxoxoxo PLUR!!!
 
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Doppelganger said:
I realized a while ago that I'm a terrible person to have a relationship with! I have no idea what my attractive qualities would be!

I'm especially attracted to handsome, arty guys... they tend to have interesting minds! But basically, I like any type of person who enjoys debates, and forgets about them within 5 minutes! I never hold grudges against people I trulycare about... I care too much for that! xoxoxoxo PLUR!!!
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Aside from physical beauty, I don't think anyone really knows what makes them attractive. You can think you know and have a good idea but in the end, isn't it up to other people to decide?

PLUR? Sounds like something that happens after a session of excessive drinking. :p
 
1. Inititally it's interesting conversation. It's something that you can (obviously) figure out straight away and if I can have an interesting conversation with someone then there's usually a lot more I'll like about them later on. After I've got to know someone really well, the thing I'm most attracted to is someone who has the ability to make me laugh.

2. I don't really have attractive qualities but I'm skilled in the art of packaging my bad qualities in really nice wrapping paper.
 
up all night said:
I don't really have attractive qualities but I'm skilled in the art of packaging my bad qualities in really nice wrapping paper.
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Sounds like your attractive quality is a "sense of humour".


For myself:-

1.Girls I feel I could relate to that appear to have an out going personality and a 'wacky' sense of humour like me.

2.I think my most attract quality is "I have a good heart" - Which includes I'm up front & honest with people,can be trusted,keep my word/s,treat people the way I want to be treated,still don't take crap from people eg: treat people the way they treat me (So,if you are shit to me,that is how I will be you.),I stand up for what I think is unfair/morally right,I'm a passionate(quite emotional guy) person.So,if I've in love with a girl,I'm really in love with her and really mean it with all my heart,etc,etc.................
 
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m4dd0g said:
^ and somewhat flattered ?
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yeah for sure... still a little scary clingy though... she'll be proposing soon :-/

Lesbian joke...

"what does a lesbian bring on the third date?"

- " a moving truck"
 
I have come to the conclusion recently that no one here really relates to me, especially in this thread. Everyone who regularly posts in this thread is young and still hasnt had the total turmoil of a divorce. I hope it never happens to any of you.

So Im out of this thread, I do need to talk more to people that are more similar to me in stage of life.

Alls I can say is good luck people, being single is meant to be fun, this is the time you are meant to be enjoying and will tell tales about to your kids.

Its harder than I thought breaking out of what was a horrible marriage, I thought it would be easier than this.

Anyway, Ive made some good friends on this site, esp DQ :D You dont need a partner when you have such good friends around :D
 
thanks mate ;) but i'm very close to your age ya know? :p I'm just not silly enough to get married ;) see two locked marriage threads (people seem to get pissy when you rip off and question their little ceremonial rituals )
 
yeah it was silly, ive had a thousand "I told you so's" etc etc blah blah blah. Fuck it.

Happiness comes in powdered form.

I am wasted.

Heres a big FUCK YOU to the institution of marriage, and defactos anything that remotely resembles commitment

FUCK YOU THE BIG M WORD FUCK YOU!!!!!!
 
doofqueen said:
yeah for sure... still a little scary clingy though... she'll be proposing soon :-/

Lesbian joke...

"what does a lesbian bring on the third date?"

- " a moving truck"
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I thought the joke went...

Q: What did the lesbian bring to the secound date.

A: Her suitcase, and a U-Haul van.

*tehe* its funny cause its true. But keep in mind DQ, its only this serious between you two because you are both pretty intense in the whole relationship. I'm at the three month mark and I still only see my lover twice a week, rarely ever call him, definatly haven't brought up the L-word in any way shape or form. I haven't even introduced him to my closest friend or either of my parents yet. Hense, no talk of moving in whatsoever. You however.... well, you miles ahead. In my eyes, this is just a logical progression of everything else you two have been up to.
 
oh yeah.. i'm back in here..

for sale... one pre-loved 1978 model, good tyres and engine, occasionally obnoxious but otherwise loveable.


$20k ono
 
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