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***Singles Thread*** - WE LOVE IT.

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Back to being single [oh wait... status hasn't changed in 3 years.].\ Oh well!, does anyone else think that people, in general, over-estimate their self-worth as partner material?

Now before anyone jumps down my throat and reminds me of all the people who are so obviously insecure - I agree with you, they're everywhere. However, these same people, when rejected, will almost always be thinking "He or she never got to see my true colours/ I would've given the world/ it's his or her loss and they'll never even know it."

People from all walks of life, manage to convince themselves that it's the other persons loss for missing out on the GODLY relationship they were offering =D.

I also hear regularly "Yeah, I've realized I can do so much better than all the previous people I've fucked." I've seriously began to marvel at the way the majority of the population put themselves on this almighty pedestal, and in the process, dispose of the worth of just about everyone they've crossed paths with.
 
Doppelganger said:
does anyone else think that people, in general, over-estimate their self-worth as partner material?

Now before anyone jumps down my throat and reminds me of all the people who are so obviously insecure - I agree with you, they're everywhere. However, these same people, when rejected, will almost always be thinking "He or she never got to see my true colours/ I would've given the world/ it's his or her loss and they'll never even know it."

People from all walks of life, manage to convince themselves that it's the other persons loss for missing out on the GODLY relationship they were offering =D.
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Nope, I pretty much always convince myself it's my fault. Even when the person in question is grade A asshole ;)
 
^ But at your core, despite whether you say it out loud or not [insecurities always take the stage first,] do you really think that you're not worthy of that person?

Edit: And eventually, do you not begin to think that you're better than that person?
 
Doppelganger said:
Back to being single [oh wait... status hasn't changed in 3 years.].\ Oh well!, does anyone else think that people, in general, over-estimate their self-worth as partner material?

Now before anyone jumps down my throat and reminds me of all the people who are so obviously insecure - I agree with you, they're everywhere. However, these same people, when rejected, will almost always be thinking "He or she never got to see my true colours/ I would've given the world/ it's his or her loss and they'll never even know it."

People from all walks of life, manage to convince themselves that it's the other persons loss for missing out on the GODLY relationship they were offering =D.

I also hear regularly "Yeah, I've realized I can do so much better than all the previous people I've fucked." I've seriously began to marvel at the way the majority of the population put themselves on this almighty pedestal, and in the process, dispose of the worth of just about everyone they've crossed paths with.
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never met anyone like that
i think most people i'm friends with just dislike themselves
 
I know that i'm not exactly dating material.
I'm a cunt, i'm selfish and lazy.

I'd say that until I change at least somewhat, I won't ever really overestimate my worth as someone's boy.

This thread reeks of desperation btw.
Just thought I'd add that.
 
MoeBro said:
This thread reeks of desperation btw.
Just thought I'd add that.
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That is true... discussing real feelings has for some reason, always been seen as an undesirable personality trait.

It's so much cooler to play it cool %).
 
^ omgz, you totally want to make love to me now!

(and i thought noone was going to appreciate that) :)
 
Doppelganger said:
Relationships that 'lack direction' [that's why I'm single.]
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I don't think it's just that, I could name 10 reasons as to why a guy wouldn't want to stay with you
 
^ So have some balls and do it, rather than crying like a little bitch over the argument we had the other day!

I could come up with at least 10 against anyone. But I bet you think you're clever...
 
Doppelganger said:
Back to being single [oh wait... status hasn't changed in 3 years.].\ Oh well!, does anyone else think that people, in general, over-estimate their self-worth as partner material?

Now before anyone jumps down my throat and reminds me of all the people who are so obviously insecure - I agree with you, they're everywhere. However, these same people, when rejected, will almost always be thinking "He or she never got to see my true colours/ I would've given the world/ it's his or her loss and they'll never even know it."

People from all walks of life, manage to convince themselves that it's the other persons loss for missing out on the GODLY relationship they were offering =D.

I also hear regularly "Yeah, I've realized I can do so much better than all the previous people I've fucked." I've seriously began to marvel at the way the majority of the population put themselves on this almighty pedestal, and in the process, dispose of the worth of just about everyone they've crossed paths with.
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I think people do this more as a comfort thing.. Keep telling yourself the best is yet to come to keep yourself from dwelling on past mistakes

You will only really find yourself happy with someone when you see them as your equal. Not unworthy of them or too good for them but that your equally worthy of each other.
 
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