doofqueen
Bluelighter
Innocuous said:You know doofqueen, often when people get with a partner, gay or straight they find that person satisfies everything mentally/physically/emotionally, they then feel it conceivable that they might never be with another person.
This does not actually mean:
a/ they will never be with another person
b/ they will never be with another person not of the gender of the person they are currently with.
It just means they are in love, or something like it.
So now you've been with your lady for awhile the rosie glow has departed.. and like many people you realise you could in fact get it on with people other then your lover. This is hardly a discovery exclusive to bisexuals. Either leave for pasturers fairer, or find ways of enjoying what you've got. :/
Relationship crisis maybe, identity crisis no.![]()
Your most probably right. Maybe DG is right. Maybe I am fearing something in my confusion. Maybe it's that I don't want to hurt her down the line if these feelings of mine don't go away.
And since when did being bisexual and being polyandrous become synonymous? Plenty of people are both happily monogamous and bi.
Oh yes, I totally agree!
http://www.bluelight.ru/vb/showthread.php?t=260866
I'm going to restate my opinion that gay/straight labels are kind of arbitrary, you're just attracted to who you like, irrespective of gender.
^^ I've always said that too. That it's not a certain gender that I like (even though at times I have my preferences for whatever reason) It's the person that I fall for...



