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***Singles Thread*** - WE LOVE IT.

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aww fatz:( your maid should be able to make you feel better:D

Thats the great thing about it though. You CAN get drunk and jump them and all is forgotten afterwards=D it was just a drunken moment
 
^ The rules clearly state that after getting drunk and jumping a friend you get a second shot at it in the morning before admitting it was a mistake

Fatz: Yes I'm a bastard. I even made a killing selling the vid on the internet. In a similar vein to 'the star wars kid' there is now 'the baseball bat kid'. The only thing better than tears is humilition =D
 
up all night said:
Leprachaun: You're in love with leecie?!

trancegirle: It's some enneagram test that tells you who you are. They're always so accurate. I get a different reading every time I do it. (look up myer-briggs)

I think we all fear doubt and doubt fear. I don't really know what you guys were discussing but you write such big posts and this is the singles thread ffs.
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I'm in love with the most beautiful woman in the universe... That's all. ;)

Just came up with a new quote today though...

Birds of a feather smoke spliffs together
 
FaTz said:
I need a girl I can lock away and pull her out at certain times like when I'm on the couch and need a joint rolled, or when I need stuff from the shop etc

Am I asking for too much
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course not- I've secretly been yearning to fulfill such a position. (NOT :D)



I've been single for soooo long, and I was thinking...if I then found myself in a relationship, I then mite not like it heaps i.e discover the many downsides.
Tis good having various boys on call and not having to answer to anyone, do as you please come the weekend etc. But then again it'd be cool to have someone automatically available as you're buddy you can go have dinner with, or check out a movie etc. Tho friends can fulfill that role too but can't have the canoodooling/physical side.
Not that I'm for PDAs. gawd that pisses me right off. A couple in my work last night were practically goin for it while ordering their food. Time and place people!

Was also thinking...imgaine how much marriage would freak you out (if you were just about to). Surely even the most in-love couples get a bit anxious and question if it's the right thing to do, to commit youself to this person for the rest of your lfie (theoretically). Any married people out there got cold feet big time, or conversely, didn't stress at all and felt it was 100% the right thing to do?
heh why am I even make this a discussion point I'm soo far from marriage =D

oh wait its a singles thread that suggestion for discussion is void...

oooh also wanted to do this haha, our thread really supposed to be about

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:D
 
me and my cheese shut down by m4dd0g

c'mon cheese, let's go where we r appreciated haha

*trudges off to jaffle maker*

gawd I'm already in a crazy mood n the weekend hasn't begun
 
I think im too much of a stoner-girl to get a proper boyfriend.

and just coz im cooler than them pssssssssshhht. But i still try my best hand... like tonight!
Its not a date. drinks.

I want what someone said - the boyfriend i can have round when i want one. I dont want a permanent one. I want a blu-tack boyfriend
 
Doppelganger said:
^ The only people who have argued this particular point are you and DQ. Samadhi and Trancegirlie were arguing that it's not a weakness to be afraid --their argument had merit!

What you're argueing, however, is that you don't have to fear or doubt something to be confused.

I provided a logical analysis, here it is again:

"To be confused, assumes you're having to question, to have to question, assumes you've had to doubt, to have to doubt, assumes you've had to fear."

Unless you can dispute that with some equally logical reasoning...I feel completely justified in assuming I'm correct. Because all you and DQ have given me is excuses that prove you're unable to grasp simple reasoning patterns.

I'll stay away from this topic now!
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I don't really appreciate being told that I can't grasp simple reasoning patterns. It's a little insulting to one's intelligence to be told that just because i disagree with a statement that you think is correct that i don't 'get it' you know? I'm not saying "just coz" at all (which funnily enough is what I thought were pretty much the only answers I got from the marriage thread were and everyone else disagreed so I see where you are at in your opinion on this issue)

I am not scared of the consequences of my sexuality. I am not scared of being gay, bi or straight. I know i'm not straight though. It's wether i am lesbian or bi that is what i'm dealing with at the moment and again i'm not scared[/] of what will happen to me if i identify as either. I just want to know in myself 'what' i am but at the same time labels should not matter but people use them to identify things. So no i do not FEAR anything from this desision. I don't think I'm missing out on anything either really.

What was the question again?

oh you said you won't join in the conversation anymore. (I do that too when i get frustrated and feel people are taking me wrong or misunderstanding me) :)
 
zephyr said:
DQ: didnt you post somewhere before you were aware from a young age you were bisexual? So where is the confusion? You know you are attracted to both sexes so why is it such a suprise you want a b/f when you have a girlfriend? Thats normal as is your reluctance to hurt your g/f by getting a guy in your life despite the fact she says its ok. You dont want to hurt her, but that might be inevitable.
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yep, i have known since i was 14 that i liked both genders. Have always been totally comfortable within myself to say this. BUT when meeting my girlfriend I started thinking that maybe I was a lesbian because I got from her everything that i "needed" and thats emotional, physical, sexual and mental - so basically everything anyone could ever want in a partner. So thought ok i really don't want to date/fuck men again cos i'm really quite over dating arseholes (who just happened to be men) and even if things don't work out with my gf then i can see myself only dating women. Confused about this because I still found men attractive but just didn't see myself dating or sleeping with any anymore and then thought "well does that actually make me a lesbian?" because (example) gay men can still find women attrative and be gay right?

Then started maybe thinking "hrmmm i do kinda miss boys (actually only particular ones so it wasnt a generalisation as such) and yes she did say I could IF that's what i wanted (we had a hypothetical discussion) which she pretty much said if that's what she wanted she would cope but it would upset her but she would "let" me cos she doesnt want to loose me which i think is unfair. Besides the fact that i would just feel like a tart if i was seeing two people at the same time anyway :-/

so i don't know! I don't know if i'm mising male sex cos i have only been having female sex (which is quite Aok by the way) or if i was just missing sex with a certain someone or what because i can see myself with my gf for a long time, even building a life together. Maybe i'm just missing HER because we don't see each other that much and was missing "someone" I hate that.... and i hate that i just wrote all this on BL :\ but i don't know how to explain my point without explaining my situation
 
doofqueen said:
yep, i have known since i was 14 that i liked both genders. Have always been totally comfortable within myself to say this. BUT when meeting my girlfriend I started thinking that maybe I was a lesbian because I got from her everything that i "needed" and thats emotional, physical, sexual and mental - so basically everything anyone could ever want in a partner. So thought ok i really don't want to date/fuck men again cos i'm really quite over dating arseholes (who just happened to be men) and even if things don't work out with my gf then i can see myself only dating women. Confused about this because I still found men attractive but just didn't see myself dating or sleeping with any anymore and then thought "well does that actually make me a lesbian?" because (example) gay men can still find women attrative and be gay right?

Then started maybe thinking "hrmmm i do kinda miss boys (actually only particular ones so it wasnt a generalisation as such) and yes she did say I could IF that's what i wanted (we had a hypothetical discussion) which she pretty much said if that's what she wanted she would cope but it would upset her but she would "let" me cos she doesnt want to loose me which i think is unfair. Besides the fact that i would just feel like a tart if i was seeing two people at the same time anyway :-/

so i don't know! I don't know if i'm mising male sex cos i have only been having female sex (which is quite Aok by the way) or if i was just missing sex with a certain someone or what because i can see myself with my gf for a long time, even building a life together. Maybe i'm just missing HER because we don't see each other that much and was missing "someone" I hate that.... and i hate that i just wrote all this on BL :\ but i don't know how to explain my point without explaining my situation
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Hehehe. I talked to a girl that said this to the boys. She said she didn't mind a threesome. BUT I asked one of her close girlfriends about it and her girlfriend said that the girl said to her, she didn't like it at all and felt dirty.

Go figure. ;)
 
You know doofqueen, often when people get with a partner, gay or straight they find that person satisfies everything mentally/physically/emotionally, they then feel it conceivable that they might never be with another person.

This does not actually mean:
a/ they will never be with another person
b/ they will never be with another person not of the gender of the person they are currently with.

It just means they are in love, or something like it.

So now you've been with your lady for awhile the rosie glow has departed.. and like many people you realise you could in fact get it on with people other then your lover. This is hardly a discovery exclusive to bisexuals. Either leave for pasturers fairer, or find ways of enjoying what you've got. :/

Relationship crisis maybe, identity crisis no. :)

And since when did being bisexual and being polyandrous become synonymous? Plenty of people are both happily monogamous and bi.
 
^^ Totally agree Innocuous. :)

I'm going to restate my opinion that gay/straight labels are kind of arbitrary, you're just attracted to who you like, irrespective of gender.
 
Leprechaun said:
Hehehe. I talked to a girl that said this to the boys. She said she didn't mind a threesome. BUT I asked one of her close girlfriends about it and her girlfriend said that the girl said to her, she didn't like it at all and felt dirty.

Go figure. ;)
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but i don't want to have threesomes. I've been there and done that ages ago when I was "experimenting"
 
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