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***Singles Thread*** A kit kat chunky stole my relationship!
- Thread starter FaTz
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^^ hahahahahahahha thats great! :D
who would seriously take someone back after that? more to the point who would expect to be forgiven?!
people who cheat, and obviously knew what they were doing should just exit the relationship never to be seen again. And if they dont they deserve whatever's thrown back at them.
who would seriously take someone back after that? more to the point who would expect to be forgiven?!
people who cheat, and obviously knew what they were doing should just exit the relationship never to be seen again. And if they dont they deserve whatever's thrown back at them.
zephyr
Ex-Bluelighter
Karma does not explain why bad things happen to good people, or why bad people sometimes continually get away with shit.Diego Blunt said:lol, you have no idea what karma is do you? it is all about personal responsibility. i really believe you must have your wires crossed on this one 8(
But if you think karma exists then I must have done something damn good to deserve the wonderful things that are going on at the moment.
I dont ever recall meeting you at any point- and if I have I doubt Id remember. But thats a huge assumption on your part that I am selfish because I dont have much sympathy for men who get treated like shit by women. They probably have in turn treated women like shit- or if they havent then SOMEONE ELSE HAS AND THEY ARE PAYING THE PRICE FOR IT. I dont know any female who hasnt been treated like shit by a guy at least once in their lives. You think that kind of experience wont affect future relationships?
I know theres a few guys here who have posted "woe is me" posts in singles threads over the years who have been absolute cunts to women here. I have absolutely no sympathy for them. I wont mention any names though.
But dude, you dont know me. All you see is posts on the internet. I am very generous to people I love and care about- almost to a fault. This is where I go wrong and get taken advantage of at times by people who are selfish.
If you seriously expect me to have sympathy for men after the hell I have been through over the last 10-12 years (you'd know alllllllll about that wouldnt you, since you know me so well 8( 8( 8( Do some fucking research before daring to make that assumption.
Did I deserve violence and abuse? HUH?? Did I deserve to have holes bashed through my walls and my stuff trashed when I finally got the guts to leave him? Do I deserve to be stuck with paying for the lifestyle of my crackhead ex and his skanky new girlfriend who STILL LIVE IN MY HOUSE AFTER A YEAR OF BEING SEPARATED" huh? Did I deserve to have thousands of dollars stolen from me?
Awwww Did Wacky get butthurt by some girls who didnt treat him with the same respect he showed them? Would you like a tissue? Did any of them beat you up? Rip you off? Fuck other people in your bed? Take off for days and days without telling you where they went? Did any of them spend all your money on drugs then get extremely angry with you when you had absolutely nothing left to give them?
Fuckhead. You do not know me or my circumstances- no one does so do not even pretend that you do.8( 8(
Benefit
Bluelighter
zephyr said:
Names! Names! Names!
FaTz
Bluelighter
zephyr said:
Explain being a cunt though? As in disrespecting them, or otherwise?
zephyr
Ex-Bluelighter
^ i think you know what I mean.
FaTz
Bluelighter
Hmmm. Not really, but I'll stay out of this topic for obvious reasons
Diego Blunt
Bluelighter
'being a cunt' - calling when you werent supposed to or not calling when you were supposed to ... caring about sex too much, not caring about sex enough. etc. etc. etc. basically refusing to jump through the hoops like a fucken circus monkey
SO ANYWAY, moving right along ..............................
has anybody ever been to a traffic light party??? they suck.
i accidently went to a club once that had one of those nights on ... i was eligible at the time but obviously chose orange, because only a moron would choose green ...
hmmm, that isn't really interesting enough to reignite this thread ....
re: those emails ... i too can't believe that someone would be such a slut/sleaze and then EXPECT forgiveness ... basically if you cheat you surrender all your relationship rights for an undetermined period
i was once cheated on and didnt break up with the girl because it was a relationship of convenience and i was fairly needy at the time ... but instead turned into an absolute cunt, bringing it up at every turn and being a real asshole (which she deserved for a short while) ... after a couple of weeks like this, the girl decided that she'd 'completed her sentence' and started talking back and getting angry/annoyed/upset ... i genuinely tried, but i really couldnt forget about the situation and kept being a dickwad towards her ... im almost certain she was trying to break up with me when she said; "i think we need to talk ... something something" ... but i was suddenly so shocked and offended that i cut her off mid-sentence with, "nup. go fuck yourself you stupid whore", said goodbye to her parents and ran out of her house... i still kinda feel like an asshole to this day and had/have never spoken to any other lady in this manner ... but she cheated and i was faithful, so who gives a fuck, right? right everyone? right? anyone? oh![:\](https://bluelight.org/xf/BL_Images/Orig_Emoji/wrygrin.gif "wry grin :\")
SO ANYWAY, moving right along ..............................
has anybody ever been to a traffic light party??? they suck.
i accidently went to a club once that had one of those nights on ... i was eligible at the time but obviously chose orange, because only a moron would choose green ...
hmmm, that isn't really interesting enough to reignite this thread ....
re: those emails ... i too can't believe that someone would be such a slut/sleaze and then EXPECT forgiveness ... basically if you cheat you surrender all your relationship rights for an undetermined period
i was once cheated on and didnt break up with the girl because it was a relationship of convenience and i was fairly needy at the time ... but instead turned into an absolute cunt, bringing it up at every turn and being a real asshole (which she deserved for a short while) ... after a couple of weeks like this, the girl decided that she'd 'completed her sentence' and started talking back and getting angry/annoyed/upset ... i genuinely tried, but i really couldnt forget about the situation and kept being a dickwad towards her ... im almost certain she was trying to break up with me when she said; "i think we need to talk ... something something" ... but i was suddenly so shocked and offended that i cut her off mid-sentence with, "nup. go fuck yourself you stupid whore", said goodbye to her parents and ran out of her house... i still kinda feel like an asshole to this day and had/have never spoken to any other lady in this manner ... but she cheated and i was faithful, so who gives a fuck, right? right everyone? right? anyone? oh
Diego Blunt said:im almost certain she was trying to break up with me when she said; "i think we need to talk ... something something" ... but i was suddenly so shocked and offended that i cut her off mid-sentence with, "nup. go fuck yourself you stupid whore",
said goodbye to her parents
and ran out of her house... i still kinda feel like an asshole to this day and had/have never spoken to any other lady in this manner ... but she cheated and i was faithful, so who gives a fuck, right? right everyone? right? anyone? oh
HAHA
go diego
Diego Blunt
Bluelighter
you gotta be nice to the folks no matter what ... they will "poison the water" even quicker than the loud, annoying friend that you refuse to give the time of day. who knows, maybe if i was rude to them, the olds go and put a notice up at the PTA meeting telling everyone that im a pedophile or something.
besides, the mum was an ok sort, so i didnt want to ruin my chances
besides, the mum was an ok sort, so i didnt want to ruin my chances
up all night
Bluelight Crew
haha you make me laugh lok1. 
As for bastard men/ women: I'm glad they exist. If you're silly enough to stay with them (as I was) then you're teaching yourself a hard lesson and my sympathy is minimal. If you continue to date losers who treat you like shit then... I don't know. Buy a dog.
Wacky, so many of your posts on here are attacking women and their actions. Have you ever considered the fact you may be single because you're stuck so high up on that horse of yours you've lost the ability to communicate with women in a way that doesn't sound aggressive and accusatory? Nothing is black and white. Absolutely nothing.
Diego Bunt: Shut your face you stupid whore! (Say hi to your Dad for me.)
As for bastard men/ women: I'm glad they exist. If you're silly enough to stay with them (as I was) then you're teaching yourself a hard lesson and my sympathy is minimal. If you continue to date losers who treat you like shit then... I don't know. Buy a dog.
Wacky, so many of your posts on here are attacking women and their actions. Have you ever considered the fact you may be single because you're stuck so high up on that horse of yours you've lost the ability to communicate with women in a way that doesn't sound aggressive and accusatory? Nothing is black and white. Absolutely nothing.
Diego Bunt: Shut your face you stupid whore! (Say hi to your Dad for me.)
zephyr said:
It's no assumption,that you are selfish because you "don't have much sympathy for men who are treated like shit(That don't deserve it.)"especially since from what you have said,you have had many guys that have treated you like shit(Which you apparently have NOT deserved at the time.).With what has happened to you,I think you could have sympathy for people that have been treated badly that DON'T DESERVE IT.Instead,you seem to have a 'no sympathy unhealthy attitude' towards people(guys) treated poorly that don't deserve it.
zephyr said:
Just because every female has been treated like shit by a guy,does NOT make it right.In fact,that's the problem,guys shouldn't be doing that.People quite often tend to treat each other like shit, when they have NOT deserved it.
zephyr said:
Well,it wasn't right for those guys to be like that.
zephyr said:
I expect you to have sympathy for men that have done no harm to you,been treated poorly for no reason,and in fact been treated in a way that you could relate to.
ALL people should take there poor treatment out on the people that treated them poorly,NOT innocent people that have nothing to do with it.
zephyr said:
I NEVER said you did.I was talking about you getting the karma you deserve NOW,because your view NOW which included men bashing,and having no sympathy for guys, that have wrongly been treated like shit.
zephyr said:
No need for the insults and assumptions.I NEVER said I know all about your circumstances.From the sounds of it,if you are NOT doing so already,there are people out there you can speak to for help.........
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What you have said is an assumption.up all night said:
If,you attack me for having morals(Your high horse comment.), and that I feel the need to stand up for them.Then that's a worry.
I'm standing up for what I believe is morally right and just.I feel most people tend to treat each other like shit,and feel it's NOT right.If,this equals me attacking some women on here for their actions.Than it just so happens I believe these women are being selfish and lack human deceny.
If you saw some posts I've made in other sections of bluelight eg: 'sex,love,relationship'.I have spoken out against guys who cheat on there girlfriends,among other things.
Doppelganger
Bluelighter
Wacky: Women do not give a fuck about men, ok?
FUCK MEN!
We give a fuck about individuals, who may or may not be men. But we certainly don't sit around with our girlfriends over coffee, discussing our everlasting compassion for the poor, darling men of the world.
FUCK MEN!
We give a fuck about individuals, who may or may not be men. But we certainly don't sit around with our girlfriends over coffee, discussing our everlasting compassion for the poor, darling men of the world.
Mary Poppins
Bluelighter
NO WACKY!!! Nooo!
Doppelganger
Bluelighter
^ why do you never put a space after your punctuation marks?
up all night
Bluelight Crew
Sad women fuck men too. You never know your luck in a big city, Wacky.Wacky said: