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***Singles Thread*** A kit kat chunky stole my relationship!

^I think (as IRL) it would depend on the couple, the type of people they are, maturity levels, how involved in the forum they are, the circumstances surrounding the break up... things like that. again, as in real life, there could be problems with friends being expected to take sides, that sort of thing.

in the time i've been around i only remember one couple breaking up, iamtha1 and 1234, and that was a very simple 'we thought it might work but it didn't' after a pretty brief relationship, so it wasn't a big deal at all.
 
When Jo and I break up, we'll be sure to tell you about it ValeTudo.

Until then, mind your own fucking business because we're very happy together.
 
What's usually the case is that one half of the couple has much more investment in bluelight than the other. Rarely do you find equal levels of involvement between two bluelight couples in the Aus Social community; that would be quite the anomoly, unless by some freak of nature the two joined at the same time, posted at the same rate and shared a similar obsession before hooking up. I can't think of any that fit this description, myself. So it would be pretty easy for the one who cares less to quietly slip off the radar, if they're mature about it; or if the breakup is friendly and mutual (I can think of another couple as well), just continue on as normal online, minus the injokes and flirting.

In real life obviously BL couples have circles of online friends that may be shared but hey, bluelight isn't anyone's whole world or even close - you would hope most people have real life friendships and support networks to rely on; and the few special Bluelight friendships they made as a couple, either continue or fade out in their individual merit.

Like any breakup really. Except the behind scenes gossip is posted on a board instead of whispered at parties :D OMG wtf what do you know BBQ!!!!! *roll eyes*
 
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Benefit said:
When Jo and I break up, we'll be sure to tell you about it ValeTudo.

Until then, mind your own fucking business because we're very happy together.
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yarni: jo, do you want to talk to james?

jo: yeah sure... hi hunny, yeah we had a really good night, we're just going up to the shops to get smokes, we'll be home in a bit...

yarni: wrong james, you dick.
 
Strawberry_lovemuffin said:
but hey, bluelight isn't anyone's whole world or even close - you would hope most people have real life friendships and support networks to rely on
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Okay, except Benefit, who likes to sit at home making tin foil hats, breeding mice, and adding to his collage of photos of Jo on his bedroom wall.
 
I dont doubt whatsoever, and im by no means proclaiming you rockstars ;), just curious about the kinda fallout that may ensue. Well said though ladies.
 
Strawberry_lovemuffin said:
What's usually the case is that one half of the couple has much more investment in bluelight than the other. Rarely do you find equal levels of involvement between two bluelight couples in the Aus Social community; that would be quite the anomoly, unless by some freak of nature the two joined at the same time, posted at the same rate and shared a similar obsession before hooking up. I can't think of any that fit this description, myself. So it would be pretty easy for the one who cares less to quietly slip off the radar, if they're mature about it; or if the breakup is friendly and mutual (I can think of another couple as well), just continue on as normal online, minus the injokes and flirting.

In real life obviously BL couples have circles of online friends that may be shared but hey, bluelight isn't anyone's whole world or even close - you would hope most people have real life friendships and support networks to rely on; and the few special Bluelight friendships they made as a couple, either continue or fade out in their individual merit.

Like any breakup really. Except the behind scenes gossip is posted on a board instead of whispered at parties :D OMG wtf what do you know BBQ!!!!! *roll eyes*
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I believe you, dale, myself and my boy were talking about this at BBG's party. Even if BL people do hook up they generally keep it off the board for as long as they can and limit the knowing of the hooking up to their off line friends and online friends who are close. BL isn't everyones life and with most couples i know on BL they met through the site but they developed their relationship offline and keep their private life to themselves. Hence one having more involvement than the other.
 
Strawberry_lovemuffin said:
do you really want to hear about our boring trips to the supermarket and Blockbuster video?
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lol!!!! =D that has given me the motivation to stay single for a little while longer.

no offense ladies, but some of you can be so boring to have a relationship with;

wake up, sex, breakfast, snuggle, go to shops, sex, lunch, get a tan, sex, go to shops, snuggle, watch a video, sex, fall asleep while you gab on the phone, snuggle, dinner, snuggle, sex, snuggle, sex, snuggle, sleep.

if i was gay i'm assuming it would go something like this;

wake up, sex, beers, breakfast, sex, drugs, extreme sports, lunch, sex, socialising, watch sports, beers, sex, drugs, socialising, dinner, drugs, sex, socialising, beers, sex, snuggle, sleep.
 
^ LMFAO!

From my contact with gay relationships, I'm sorry to shatter your delusion, but it is probably more similar to the former ;)

Diego - ladies never do extreme sports before lunch-time! ;)
 
Strawberry_lovemuffin said:
^ :D You heard about that! :D

;) silly biatch, I told him don't go there!
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Slightly off topic...

The more I think about it, the more I'm cut that no one else jumped in to stop them. Me, one of smallest guy there... fuck!.. Although I don't know who to be cut at, cause I can't remember who was around.

*continue as you were*
 
A couple of years ago I broke up with someone who was a mod on BL after an 18 month relationship. Things got a bit nasty online but, funnily enough, not really between him and I, just between some of our friends. There was one flare up between he and I in Words but we both deleted our posts within the day because we realised how lame it was to post crap like that online. I do remember one (now ex) bluelighter having a go at me and then leaving BL. haha happy/ hilarious days.

Last Tuesday night, over coffee with my best friend, I decided I definitely wanted to be single because I love being on my own. I really value being able to do my own thing and I don't seem to find time to catch up with all the people I want to see let alone fitting in a reasonable amount of time for a boyfriend. Actually being single is proving to be an unexpected hurdle. I'm a very bad decision maker.
 
deeCee said:
Slightly off topic...

The more I think about it, the more I'm cut that no one else jumped in to stop them. Me, one of smallest guy there... fuck!.. Although I don't know who to be cut at, cause I can't remember who was around.

*continue as you were*
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maybe that's why you don't have more posts in the Off-Topic thread ... because you post your garbage ramblings all over the place instead ;)

really though, who beat up 1234? and why? don't tell me he was dancing on the bar naked again then attempting to urinate into other peoples schooner glasses? i warned him that this sort of behaviour was only accepted in Frankston.
up all night said:
A couple of years ago I broke up with someone who was a mod on BL after an 18 month relationship.
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yeah, you and katmeow did make a good couple for a while though :)
up all night said:
Actually being single is proving to be an unexpected hurdle
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i've got novelty t-shirts that say things like 'i only date models', and 'sex instructor - free trial upon request' ... seems to do a good job of keeping me single, so i'll lend one to you if ya want ;)
 
Diego Blunt said:
i warned him that this sort of behaviour was only accepted in Frankston.
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Considering the house pricing in South Frankston is now closing in on toorak, not to mention there could be people here could actually be from Frankston :p
 
lol, good one mate. unfortunately you don't get the reference and probably also think the cheese appreciation thread was started in order to prompt a serious discussion on fromage. naughtiest maximus and beech would testify with me that frankie town is the shiznit ...

:)
 
deeCee said:
Slightly off topic...

The more I think about it, the more I'm cut that no one else jumped in to stop them. Me, one of smallest guy there... fuck!.. Although I don't know who to be cut at, cause I can't remember who was around.

*continue as you were*
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...yeah and you see, if i was there i would of seen it comming...i work with booze filled people and can spot fights a mile away and defuse them before they happen :\ I threw a guy out of bar the other day literally by the scruff of his neck...think i left nail marks :p Im glad you had the decency to be quick off the mark and break it up. Or it could of been a lot worse for the hurt party goer. For stepping in you get my respect.

*exits thread*
 
Wacky said:
Well if you don't care how some women are towards others(Towards men in this case.),cause it doesn't affect you.I'd say you are getting the karma you deserve,for being so selfish.
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What a stupid argument. No suprise there.

The whole "karma" debate is flawed. Maybe it is you men who deserve "what you get" it you get mistreated by women. Karma is just a way of blaming someone or something else for your errors in judgement.

I prefer to shoulder the blame for a few bad experiences on my own shockingly bad taste in men rather than "karma"- which is just a load of bullshit anyway.

I am not interested enough in you to go back and read any of your posts but if you have had any bad luck with women then perhaps- oh karma boy- you deserved it as well?
 
zephyr said:
Karma is just a way of blaming someone or something else for your errors in judgement .... I prefer to shoulder the blame for a few bad experiences on my own shockingly bad taste in men rather than "karma"- which is just a load of bullshit anyway.
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lol, you have no idea what karma is do you? it is all about personal responsibility. i really believe you must have your wires crossed on this one 8( ;)
 
zephyr said:
What a stupid argument. No suprise there.
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I guess an insult is better than admitting you are wrong ;)

zephyr said:
The whole "karma" debate is flawed. Maybe it is you men who deserve "what you get" it you get mistreated by women.
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Nice assumption there 8) Of course nice men bashing too 8) The men who only care about themselves (ie: are selfish like you), get what they deserve,among other things.But,there are men and women who aren't getting what they deserve eg: Giving people a chance,and NOT getting treated as they should.Hopefully there time will come eg: Me :p.


zephyr said:
I prefer to shoulder the blame for a few bad experiences on my own shockingly bad taste in men
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So,in a previous posts you continue to 'men bash'.Funny way of shouldering the blame for a few bad experiences.Nice creditability you have,NOT!

zephyr said:
I am not interested enough in you to go back and read any of your posts but if you have had any bad luck with women then perhaps- oh karma boy- you deserved it as well?
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Aren't we full of ourselves ;)
 
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