Auntiedote SuperBluelighter
Shredda I don't like those type of threads at all. I think they serve no positive purpose on BL. Can you imagine Erowid having stuff like that on their site?! They'd lose crediblity real quick.
Even though the women have voluntarily posted their bits in there, it still looks degrading and to be honest, it also seems a bit of a sad and desperate way to seek approval from men (and other women). And IMO approval-seeking is the only reason other than money, why women choose to do that kind of stuff.
Some girls will say they do it because they're exhibitionists...well i dont think i've met an exhibitionist yet, who wasn't seeking some kind of approval. Often, a lot of them are actually quite shy underneath. Then there's other women who'll claim that they do it because they're "proud of their bodies" or "comfortable with their sexuality". Personally, i think thats hogwash and i think they're in denial. I've heard old and tired porn stars saying exactly the same thing and it's pathetic to hear them...so gimme a break girls!!
Women who are secure in themselves and their sexuality dont seek and dont need, constant validation.
Whenever i've chosen to show my disapproval of stuff that i think is degrading either on BL or in real life, i've found the typical reaction from women who are into it, is to get angry and defensive and call me a prude or say im jealous...which is not exactly original or correct. When they have that kind of reaction it just reinforces my thoughts about their insecurity.
I'm a fairly open-minded artistic person and an ex-professional dancer, so I'm definately comfortable with both my sexuality and how my body looks and feels. Therefore prudishness and jealousy are not the reasons why i disapprove of rack threads. I don't sit at my computer wishing i had tits like <insert Girly Fluffy Name here>.I simply think they're degrading. So please save any flames of that type.
I can appreciate the female form just as much as anyone in the right respectful context...but those threads are just ugly sleaze. And there's no way i'd put my boobs or any other part of my body up there for some guy i dont know to have a wank over and post about how he wants to fuck me....*shudders*