Show Me Your Serious?

[nuttynutskin]

How is he using me?

Maybe using you wasn't the right words. Is manipulating you and walking all over you better?

I bet that's exactly what he was going for. Now that you know, and might have made him aware, you're gunna be so much easier to manipulate!

Can't say that I disagree with that.

In my experience, it has worked just fine. When someone has all the power because you are easily manipulated, stop talking to them, and see how quickly they try to see you or talk to you.

I agree completely... That's how it works especially with narcissists. I'm not saying that without a doubt the op's boyfriend is one, but if he is then goddamn he's getting all the narcissistic supply and control that he could ever want. Narcs crave narcissistic supply and when that's cut off they will typically try to win it back, and if that fails move on to finding a new source of it. So that pretty much goes right along with what you're saying.

 

[pofacedhoe]

op- you're old enough to know better

this is the same thread topic you have posted lots of times. no-one knows what your boyfriend means. go talk to him, the whole thing sounds ultra childish though