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Should I use opiates to enhance my first sexual experience?

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I would vote no. Your first time is gonna be quick regardless and there isnt a point in trying to change that. Hell opiates would just take away from the experience.
 
I can't be arsed to do the dirty while I'm high. Nodding out and drooling on her boobages is not highly recommended.
 
NeighborhoodThreat said:
No. Use opiates to enhance sexual experiences, but not your first sexual experience.
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Hah exactly. Even after your first experience, I feel like there are better drugs out there to enhance sexual experiences.
But for your first time? Try it sober! :)
 
Morphling said:
I can't be arsed to do the dirty while I'm high. Nodding out and drooling on her boobages is not highly recommended.
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Lol yes that was probably the most accurate description of what sex on opiates is like frankly. Most of the time I just want him to leave and let me nod out peacefully.
 
meh, do whatever drugs you want its better than being a virgin for the rest of your life.
 
OnCloud9 said:
Well, this kinda sucks I'm gonna bust so fast...

Sorry to get into this but how about Dexedrine?
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Dude just don't use drugs. There'll be plenty of time to experience with various ones, be it stims or opies, once you've had plenty of sex but in the meantime this is your first time and it would just be dumb (sorry but it would be) not to have the real thing.
 
My first post was talking about how much time/life you can waste while having a relationship with someone you don't naturally get along with, but feel like you LOOOOVE while high. That comes from experience, and I know exactly why you like it, but, trust me, it's not worth it.

Another problem is if you do happen to do a good job on opiates, then your sexual parter will come to expect that same level of energy/stamina for all future escapades. What happens when you run out, or decide that being an opiate addict isn't a good life decision, and then try to have sex with her again? You will basically feel like a virgin again, and she's gonna wonder what's wrong with you. Let's say she does "support" your decision to finally get clean, but she will be secretly frustrated that you're not able to perform as well as you did when you were fucking your life up. This can lead to triggering and relapse as others have mentioned.

The best way to go about things, mentally, is trying to do your best to please her naturally, but be aware that you are a virgin, and that you are simply establishing a foundation of sexual experience on which to build. I'm sure if she knows you're a virgin, then she isn't expecting an earth-shattering marathon of sex. So don't put all this pressure on yourself to be this great Cassanova on your very first time. The sex might be bad on your end, but that's because you're new at it. Work on building stamina naturally and I PROMISE you that you will be thankful in the long run, and all your future significant other's will be happier as well.

Plus, let's say copping becomes an ordeal the day of the deed, then she's already turned off and you two will not have matching energies. You'll be on your way up, while she's wondering what else could've been so important to make her wait. It doesn't matter how long you can last if you've pissed her off before you started.

Marijuana is a great aphrodisiac on its own, and it will be sure to give you plenty of willingness and ableness to please her on its own. I don't have a problem morally, or emotionally, with you wanting to be altered in some way for your first time. I just think there's more to it than you know, and there's lots of purely logical reasons why it's a bad idea for opiates in particular, and your first time especially.
 
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CoffeeDrinker said:
My first post was talking about how much time/life you can waste while having a relationship with someone you don't naturally get along with, but feel like you LOOOOVE while high. That comes from experience, and I know exactly why you like it, but, trust me, it's not worth it.

Another problem is if you do happen to do a good job on opiates, then your sexual parter will come to expect that same level of energy/stamina for all future escapades. What happens when you run out, or decide that being an opiate addict isn't a good life decision, and then try to have sex with her again? You will basically feel like a virgin again, and she's gonna wonder what's wrong with you. Let's say she does "support" your decision to finally get clean, but she will be secretly frustrated that you're not able to perform as well as you did when you were fucking your life up. This can lead to triggering and relapse as others have mentioned.

The best way to go about things, mentally, is trying to do your best to please her naturally, but be aware that you are a virgin, and that you are simply establishing a foundation of sexual experience on which to build. I'm sure if she knows you're a virgin, then she isn't expecting an earth-shattering marathon of sex. So don't put all this pressure on yourself to be this great Cassanova on your very first time. The sex might be bad on your end, but that's because you're new at it. Work on building stamina naturally and I PROMISE you that you will be thankful in the long run, and all your future significant other's will be happier as well.

Plus, let's say copping becomes an ordeal the day of the deed, then she's already turned off and you two will not have matching energies. You'll be on your way up, while she's wondering what else could've been so important to make her wait. It doesn't matter how long you can last if you've pissed her off before you started.

Marijuana is a great aphrodisiac on its own, and it will be sure to give you plenty of willingness and ableness to please her on its own. I don't have a problem morally, or emotionally, with you wanting to be altered in some way for your first time. I just think there's more to it than you know, and there's lots of purely logical reasons why it's a bad idea for opiates in particular, and your first time especially.
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Amazing post.

He is right. Plus, when you take opiates YOU won't get to cum.

I use to take opiates from time to time with my ex and I would always wake up wanting to have sex, and she wouldn't want to because she'd be so worn out and raw from the previous night. If you're young, and a virgin, you will be able to go MULTIPLE times. Just take a short breather and get back to it. That's what I do.
 
Trust me, if she is into you and you guys are dating or whatever, then you are going to fuck her and fuck her over time, and you are going to get really good at it. Don't worry so much about your first time, just take it as a moment (the one that you've been waiting for your whole pubescent life, haha!)
 
when you cant come cause you are high the other person often feels they are not doing something right.

you don't want to create that scenario when it can be avoided
 
Yeah I have trouble cumming alot. Im on chronic pain maintainance and I dont always cum. It upsets woman often and they usually dont feel better till I tell them the medications Im on and the dosage. I yearn for the days of opiate free sex. IMO its best to avoid sex on opiates unless you absolutly need pain medicine.
 
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