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Should I tell my friend about his girlfriend and my brother??

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MrNoDramaMan101

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I came home to see my brother (45mins ago) and seeing where he was at I went to his room to see if he was asleep and walked in on him and my best friend (been knowing since I was 2 years old) girl friend having sex. My mouth dropped now I am stuck in between a rock they begged me not to tell Franklin (my best friend) what was going on the past 8 months, 8 MONTHS this been going on, my brother also said if I was a real brother then I wouldn't tell Franklin and his girl friend begged me to the point where she had tears, telling me not to tell my best friend. Its just not right and I would feel wrong if I ratted on my brother cause we are real close brothers and I love him to death but I love Franklin just as much like a brother but I am caught in between a rock like I said and I need to know what to do. Should I tell my best friend or keep it from him and don't rat my brother and my best friends girlfriend out. Thank you guys

P.s My best friend and his girlfriend are getting married in 3 weeks this is crazy.
 
If they are gonna get married please tell him man, he will eventually find out one day and if they are married it will be even more lame for him
 
yeah i'm sorry but the marriage thing swings it

tell him. who wants to marry some girl that cheats on them? but be aware the messenger often gets shot
 
Do it now while the emotions are fresh. If you sit and think too much then you will talk yourself out of it.

Your brother will still be your brother, he will get over it eventually. Your best mate will be lost forever if you don't say anything and they do get married.
 
Dude, if they're getting married tell him. It sucks that you have to basically rat out your brother, but it will be worth it. Otherwise, you'll most likely be sitting at his wedding knowing that he's marrying a hoe, and you could have prevented it. Don't let that happen.
 
The marrying thing kicks the dick, you gotta tell him. It would be questionable otherwise, but think how badly your friend will be hurt when he has to get a divorce after finding out his wife has been having an affair for years
 
Yeah he needs to know this before he gets married. Not that any of the situation is your fault but like you said you're in a hard place. Who would have it worse, the girl and your brother getting busted? Or the dude entering into that sort of agreement with a girl that's already been cheating on him for nearly a year, and cheating despite the knowledge that she is about to get married in 3 weeks?!?!?
 
I'm in agreement with everyone else so far. Tell him. Sucks you had to walk in to that.
 
Tude said:
Sucks you had to walk in to that.
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This is a big part of it IMO ... and not to be overlooked. OP, these two put you in a HORRIBLE position. I know they're thinking 100% of themselves at the moment. But, we're thinking about you and what an awful spot this is. If I were you, I would not be feeling guilty about telling your friend what you need to tell him. Instead, I would be pissed at these two for, in a sense, putting you right in the middle of this. They should have had more foresight and consideration of you (if not of your friend). They set things up in such a way that allowed themselves to be caught (there were certainly ways to avoid that possibility) ... and forced a huge problem not of your making onto you.
 
You should tell him at the wedding when the priest (or whoever is marrying them) asks if there is anyone who has a reason these 2 should not be wed.

I'm j/k'ing, but I feel bad for you being in that situation. Telling your best friend is the right thing, but its got to be incredibly tough. He isn't going to be believe you he'll be so shocked, I am sure of that, then if the other 2 deny it you might be put into a position of looking like a liar, though he should realize you have no reason to make up such a lie. At that point the other 2 involved should fess up because they are truly the ones to blame, as to if they will....

There is always the saying what they don't know can't hurt them. In the end you just gotta do what you think is best. good luck.
 
Don't let your friend get trapped in a doomed marriage. He is going to be hurt and upset but it will be much easier for him now rather than going through a painful and long divorce. Your brother and the girlfriend obviously care very little and are being very selfish, if at all, for your friend. He's going to need some support so please be there for him.

Another approach you might want to take is to force the girlfriend to tell him herself. I would say something along the lines of "if you don't tell him then I will"
 
purplefirefly said:
Don't let your friend get trapped in a doomed marriage. He is going to be hurt and upset but it will be much easier for him now rather than going through a painful and long divorce. Your brother and the girlfriend obviously care very little and are being very selfish, if at all, for your friend. He's going to need some support so please be there for him.

Another approach you might want to take is to force the girlfriend to tell him herself. I would say something along the lines of "if you don't tell him then I will"
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Yeah I'mma have to tell him but I don't know how to break it to him..you know what's funny someone else that I asked about this said that my brother is a "G" for doing this WTF??
 
RTrain said:
You should tell him at the wedding when the priest (or whoever is marrying them) asks if there is anyone who has a reason these 2 should not be wed.

I'm j/k'ing, but I feel bad for you being in that situation. Telling your best friend is the right thing, but its got to be incredibly tough. He isn't going to be believe you he'll be so shocked, I am sure of that, then if the other 2 deny it you might be put into a position of looking like a liar, though he should realize you have no reason to make up such a lie. At that point the other 2 involved should fess up because they are truly the ones to blame, as to if they will....

There is always the saying what they don't know can't hurt them. In the end you just gotta do what you think is best. good luck.
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I think I should bust them out at the wedding why should I worry about embarrassing my brother and the girlfriend?? were they embarrassed to been doing what they been doing??
I actually look down on my brother now for this. He keeps texting me to not say anything but I'm not listening..as far as I know they could be banging right now as I type SMH
 
I just can't believe what a piece of shit the girlfriend is, planning on marrying a guy while you're fucking someone else the whole time? That goes beyond being a whore, that just makes her a horrible, selfish dishonest person with no redeeming qualities that can't even be trusted to order a pizza, let alone marry!

It's kind of slimy that your brother was doing this, but it's not his best friend and he's not getting married....
 
BlueHues said:
I just can't believe what a piece of shit the girlfriend is, planning on marrying a guy while you're fucking someone else the whole time? That goes beyond being a whore, that just makes her a horrible, selfish dishonest person with no redeeming qualities that can't even be trusted to order a pizza, let alone marry!

It's kind of slimy that your brother was doing this, but it's not his best friend and he's not getting married....
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Yeah I hate cheaters myself..uggh It just makes me sooo mad just thinking if this were to happen to me!!! although it has never happened but still!! I actually lost respect for my brother as well!!
 
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