Should I give a shit about opinions if I'm trying?

[LordOfTabs]

My family loves to throw disappointment in my face. My grandma is on her death bed and still my grandfather asks about things and shuns me. Should I just strait say fuck off? It hurts. But it's starting to become hatred. Life isn't easy right

 

[theredgiant]

I hate my family as well, you are not alone. My mom stole my identity and got a mortgage in my name and my credit score went from 807 to 700. She also cheated on my dad after 18 years of marriage to have two kids with her coworker who was already married. As a result I didn't really have a father and had a piece of shit for a mother and her coworker lover committed suicide at her job in front of her and her coworkers.You come into this world alone and you die alone. Some people have loving and caring families and some of us get bullshit. Don't burden yourself to make others happy who don't appreciate it. Make yourself happy and get used to because people will let you down in the future.

 

[JessFR]

My father abused me and abandonded me. My mother has hurt me all my life with her words, I don't hate her but I hate her behavior, and I do hate him. I'm the black sheep of my family, as is the case with many other people here, you're not alone in this. If you hate them for their behavior, that is their fault not yours. You're not to blame for having a normal reaction to their behavior. And a lot of us here understand and can relate man. For many, you're right, life isn't easy at all.

 

[Hurhel]

People don't realize that their behavior makes you hate them!

You are not a doormat and have the right to defend yourself. You are a person with feelings not a punching bag. Sometimes you gotta put people in their place so that they can have more regard for you.

Tell them hey! I don't appreciate your rude words and if you cannot say nothing nice please don't say shit to me.

I'm sorry you feel like this but hey I've had issues why my dad and mom too. They tried to belittle me and make me be their errand girl. I'm not a maid nor pet. I'm a person that has a life and feelings too.