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Ok, I feel a little embarased to talk about this but this is an anonymous forum so...
I had sex with a girl 2 or three days before. When we got on missionary potitions, after a while she inflected her knees bettween me and her. I told her to relax and she told she was relaxed but she was in pain while I fuck her. Something about the dick hurting her uterus. I always did it the same way and most girls liked it. What would have gone wrong with her?
 
Maybe you were going at it a little too rough? Every girl is different when it comes to sex. What one girl is into another may not be into at all. Usually it's pretty easy to tell if she is into it or not. True appreciation of sex comes from intimacy.

Most guys seem to think it's all about how big your dick is or how long you can last...they focus so much on their performance that they forget it isn't all about them! You have to kiss her, caress her, make her feel beautiful. Orgasms are important but for most girls at least in my experience, the connection needs to be there first if you want to truly satisfy a woman.
 
8) Don't be embarrassed. Sex is natural. Pain during sex is not (unless that's your goal).

There are female issues that can result in excruciating pain during sex for the female, no matter how strong her desire. I have endometriosis, as do many girls/women. Missionary position is MOST painful. Doggy style is less so.

As CG said, intimacy is key. Can y'all talk about what feels more comfortable for her?
 
I was kissing and carresing her. I always do. But what would this have to do with pain in sex?
 
Maybe she wasn't wet enough?
Maybe your penis was big for her?
Just talk to her about it.
 
You are probably too long for her and hitting her cervix. She could have a shallow vagina or she may need more foreplay. The vagina expands the more turned on a woman is. If jonah falcon can have sex with woman having a gigantic cock, everyone can. He says if a woman is turned on enough, she can fit a fire hydrant in there (not actually but it demonstrates how proper foreplay helps with penetration).
 
That's okay (well I mean, the pain isn't good, but it's not "weird" or anything). Slow down. Try other positions. :)
 
it sounds like she wasn't relaxed - maybe more foreplay, kissing, reassurance. or i guess you're just 'gifted', i which case try some other positions, and regulate your speed and force i.e.: try her on top?
 
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