hateboringsex
Greenlighter
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- Jun 18, 2014
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Hi,
Just looking for a bit of help, ive been with my gf for about 5 years and we have always had sex quite regularly, so no problems with the amount, just the quality.
I always try and make it enjoyable for her, so try not to come to quick, but she just says she wants me to come quickly as thats what she likes. Now to me that sounds like she wants it over and done with, which i have told her, but she says thats not the reason.
Now i have made her come a few times, can probably count on one hand, she says she finds it difficult and that shes not even bothered about coming. I just get feeling she is just saying these things just for my benefit.
To be honest im just not enjoying it, yeah i get my rocks off, but its just boring, maybe it is for her too , i dunno.
When we are having sex she doesnt do anything, rarely goes on top as she feels self concious. even though i tell how good she looks. She certainly would ride me, which i would love, although i havnt asked, she just likes me to do all the work.
She is quite submissive i suppose and likes me to take control, which i do but i just dont get any feedback, sometimes the odd sound, but it doesnt sound enthusiastic.
She gives me amazing blowjobs, but on the other hand she doesnt like me returning the favour, it just makes her uncomfortable.
We have had an argument about it, as i just get frustrated with her lack of enthusiam, shes not very experienced and i think finds it hard to talk about. Maybe its my fault, maybe its me thats the problem, im starting to worry that we are not compatible, but i suppose thats something i shoudlnt have left until now to worry about.
I do love her, but this really bothers me.
Anyone got any similar experiences or just some advice on where to go from here?
Just looking for a bit of help, ive been with my gf for about 5 years and we have always had sex quite regularly, so no problems with the amount, just the quality.
I always try and make it enjoyable for her, so try not to come to quick, but she just says she wants me to come quickly as thats what she likes. Now to me that sounds like she wants it over and done with, which i have told her, but she says thats not the reason.
Now i have made her come a few times, can probably count on one hand, she says she finds it difficult and that shes not even bothered about coming. I just get feeling she is just saying these things just for my benefit.
To be honest im just not enjoying it, yeah i get my rocks off, but its just boring, maybe it is for her too , i dunno.
When we are having sex she doesnt do anything, rarely goes on top as she feels self concious. even though i tell how good she looks. She certainly would ride me, which i would love, although i havnt asked, she just likes me to do all the work.
She is quite submissive i suppose and likes me to take control, which i do but i just dont get any feedback, sometimes the odd sound, but it doesnt sound enthusiastic.
She gives me amazing blowjobs, but on the other hand she doesnt like me returning the favour, it just makes her uncomfortable.
We have had an argument about it, as i just get frustrated with her lack of enthusiam, shes not very experienced and i think finds it hard to talk about. Maybe its my fault, maybe its me thats the problem, im starting to worry that we are not compatible, but i suppose thats something i shoudlnt have left until now to worry about.
I do love her, but this really bothers me.
Anyone got any similar experiences or just some advice on where to go from here?
