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share a story about the weirdest online relationship you have had

Josair said:
Some time ago, I discontinuosly flirted (for two or three years, I don't remember) with a younger girl living almost on the other side of the country (update: Italy). We both had other relationships going on in RL. At one point we planned to spend new years' eve together and get drunk and have fun... then nothing happened.
Few months later she did come visit me for a couple of days and after few hours she said like 'you know, I waited for you to be the first one'. I froze, I panicked, I considered to rent her an hotel room and buy her the return trip for the day afterwards, but I didn't.
We did not talk to each other for years after that meeting, until she come forward to ask what did it happen to me/why was I so uncomfortable. It is a pity though, she was cute and I kinda liked her.
Should her be on BL/reading this thread she could tell her side of the story, maybe it's more weird than mine, lol.
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Oh wow...

My person in question was indeed a Bluelighter who hasn't posted or made themselves known on the board in several years. The whole thing was very, very strange. I've met many BLers who are absolutely awesome both OL and IRL. I hope to meet more. But I am glad I didn't meet the creeper in person ever, and that they don't know where I live.
 
one of the more memorable instances was meeting a certain BLer who exclaimed "i've seen you naked" from across the hotel lobby. on a related note, i have known what many BLers look like without clothing before i met them in person.

usually what i find more weird is reading a post on here from someone i know about a personal topic either here in SLR or in TDS.
 
this thread is great
i have never met anyone off bl but i have met a few people from the couchsurfing site most were really cool but one...
was awkward and wierd he gave me a tour of the ucla campus at night and he was very non threatening but i specifically remember him showing me "the rape trail" as he called it...
 
Interesting....

I have a different spin, story here. I met some people from BL at a club before I joined BL. I had talked to one person on AOL (yes, I'm pretty fking old, just look at my join date) who told me about this club and what was going on. If I were to be there, say hello and such. Sure as hell, I ended up meeting up with them. Very chill people (and not saying that because I was having a good roll) and later they told me about BL and that I should join. Well, a decade+ later, I'm still here. Problem is, I have moved so much since then....I lost contact with them and cannot remember their BL names.

If you are/were in the 904 in '00/'01, I might know you. Please give me a shout if you think you remember me. ;)
 
I met this girl on Facebook last year and she became my girlfriend even though I never met her, then I found out she died of leukemia in the middle of my senior year of college at Notre Dame. I was playing football at the time so I dedicated my season to her and we went on to the national championship game. Then it turns out the girl I was "dating" never even existed. Weird, right?
















Oh wait, that wasn't me. That was Manti Te'o.
 
Perpetual Indulgence said:
yeah I think about that about an hour or 2 into meeting...they know what I look like under these clothes
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lol Holy shit, yes. I thought of that too. Hmmmm, I'm meeting up with someone and they know what I look like naked. Dammit. lol

I don't have any bad stories. I've met three BLers and had fun. My sister thinks I'm crazy, and I tell her where I'm going to be. All she knows is that it's a forum, and she rolls her eyes and says for someone so smart, I am an idiot. lol I've had a few people say that to me, so it's probably true.

I've met others I've known online. I haven't met anyone who I haven't talked to for a while. If I get any red flags, I will not meet up with them, but that's only happened once to me where there was just something in my gut telling me to avoid the guy, so I did. He was a BLer.

I met 3 girls from writing channels. The Canadian girl broke up with her BF, so instead of sitting around moping, she got the other 2 girls to come to Florida in February 2011 for a weekend. It was so much fun, and we had to carry the Canadian girl (literally carry her she was so drunk) to the hotel. It was hilarious. I met a producer that night, and he was 10 years younger than I was. He was hot and the girls wanted me to go for it, but he had no game. He just wanted to get into my pants, and it was too obvious.

I met some people from Warcraft, and had a blast. My current guild leader is married and keeps pushing for a meetup, but again he's married and he's not pushing for anything "friendly," so I have quietly declined.

I don't know if it counts, but I've met a bunch of people through Google. Most of them are IT people, and tech people can be weird, but I think my team was fun. I hung out with this cool guy from the UK for most of it, and he was hot (Jesus Christ, someone from Google will probably find this post and laugh at me haha..assholes always gotta pick on me!). He was awesome and wanted me to stay longer and hang out in San Francisco. I would have if I could. I think there was a rumor that we had something going while I was there, but nope, nothing happened. He did pass the 3 second rule though. haha
 
Because i never got the whole online sex thing (thought it was dumb).. when i was younger in an AOL chat room i asked if anyone wanted to cyber.. pretending i was female..

Sure enough some guy wanted to.. i then went on to scanning my face and sending it to him.. and saying i'm a 1 armed, 1 legged, special needs, half a mouth girl.. he was game till i told him i was male :\

(This is going back almost 15 years)..
 
nothing too crazy, although two straight kids 18 and 21 chatting with each other for 7 hours a day is pretty weird, or mostly just pathetic, or just good fun?

when i was in college, there was a semester where all i did during the day, pretty much everyday was chat with this kid from new jersey(real cool, right?)
he was a mod at a drugs forum i posted at, but was AWOL since i started posting there
one day i was looking up chords for a song on a forum and noticed someone on that forum had the same handle as the mod at the drug forum
sent him a PM and it was indeed the same person and we developed an instant friendship(no homo)
we used to bust each other's balls alot and shit, just for lulz
one day i joked(although i suspected it to be true) that this girl he was in love with was out banging other dudes on the regular

he immediately blocked me and we never talked again, i'm thinking cause the truth hurt
either i convinced him she was a whore or he already had suspicions and me adding fuel made him explode

i miss the kid, hope he's happily married to that girl these days :)
 
im not really into meeting people online, i feel like it's weird and im better than that

but this one girl who is new in town kept hitting me up tryna talk to me so i finally give in and start talking to her. she talks about me showing her around town and i even get her number but whenever i try to meet her she says shes coincidently busy lol. id suspect im getting catfished but my friend actually knows this girl. thus far ive stopped talking to her
 
This ones fairly embarrassing but here goes, it had been a few months since i broke up with my ex and i was really getting tired of going without sex so i started talking to girls on a social networking site, but none really lived nearby or had a car ( i was almost 18 at the time) and then of course you had to take into account how many would actually be interested in a fuckbuddy so that really slimmed the chances down, anyway i met one girl who met both those criteria, she wasn't the prettiest but looking at her pictures and seeing her on cam i thought she wasnt SO bad... so i had her come pick me up because i didn't really want anyone to know about this encounter. So she picks me up and just stares at me for a good minute before starting to drive, she's about 5"-5"2 and definitely didn't look as good as the pictures(which she was already overweight in) but i carried through anyway,twice, I spent about 20 hours or so at her place and whenever we werent having sex or sleeping, she would just stare at me, sometimes for an hour+ straight, then she wasn't able to bring me all the way back for whatever reason so i had to endure the hour long metro/bus ride of shame, not to mention she left marks to remember xP, since then i've made sure not to stoop that low. I'll still probably meet people from online in the future (wether just to be friends or for other purposes) but i'm gonna be a bit more carefull about it
 
^^^ So weird.... I couldn't stop staring at your story8o lMAO..What a strange situation I'm sorry you had to "stoop" that low, we've all done something we're not too proud of.
 
gr33n3y3z said:
^^^ So weird.... I couldn't stop staring at your story8o lMAO..What a strange situation I'm sorry you had to "stoop" that low, we've all done something we're not too proud of.
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oh yeah and to add to it my nickname was jailbait because she was 21 and i was 17 at the time, but yeah i geuss your right :\
 
I've met a lot of Bluelighters, and surprisingly I don't really have any horror stories. In fact, I'd say about 50% of the most important relationships in my life are with people I originally met on BL. Aside from all the appropriate precautions, I am so glad I didn't let us first meeting online stop me from catching up with them in real life. I would've missed out on meeting some of the best and most awesome people I know :)
 
this is going to sound pretty sad but idgaf
i lost my virginity at 19 to a 35yr old really fat chick who was married (but her partner was cool with it?), anyway I had a great time especially blow job-wise because I guess experience really is a pretty defining factor in sex-abilities, I didn't really perform so well though because I lasted maybe 10 minutes but thats to be expected really. Ya she would not meet up after that but it was fun yet awkward.

i also met someone who lived near me from bluelight, and we started by trading rc's with eachother becuase we would always have different ones, then he hooked me up with some subs and heroin eventually. he was a real cool guy though, although he always seemed pretty strung out on meth or nodding out but that didnt bother me. sadly he's passed away now from an OD 8)

loving this thread...
 
I met up with a 4channer after finding out he lives a couple bus stops away from me.
This one day I send him a msg tellin him im heading over his way and I that I was on the bus already. Went over his house played his xbox and I then fucked off.
Haven't communicated with him since because my credit ran out and I don't want to top up $15 every month (or 2 months)? just to msg one person, don't even have money to do that tbh. Fucking phone networks
 
99.99% of bluelighters I have met have been fucking awesome, so no weird stories there...

Gay chat sites on the other hand, Jesus.... 8(

After I broke up with my first ex, there was this guy that I used to chat to online regularly....we got along pretty well, and we were a little flirty, so after a few months we decided to meet in person. I feel that I must stress this wasn't really a proper date or a sex thing, it was more of a casual hey, you seem cool, let's catch up and have a drink and see if we get on in real life....

Anyway, we had arranged to meet under the clocks at Flinders Street Station in Melbourne. This is basically a huge landmark, everyone knows it. There is even a song about it by an Australian band. So I got there and waited.....and waited....after an hour it was pretty apparent he wasn't gonna turn up, so I was a little disappointed but I figured he must have had something come up and just shrugged it off. Later that night I was online and saw him in the same chatroom, so I messaged him and asked him what happened. Turns out he thought I meant "the clocks" as in the gambling venue called The Clocks at the other end of the station, and that he had been waiting there for me for about the same amount of time. I was prepared to accept it as a funny misunderstanding and move on, but he told me he had gone home and drunk a huge bottle of bourbon crying his heart out, and that he didn't think he could trust me again to try and organise another meetup because he didn't believe that I hadn't done the whole thing just to fuck with his head.

Needless to say, we didn't really chat much after that, lol

There have been some other el weirdo situations, but that is always the first one I come back to when I think of this kinda thing....
 
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