stardragon
Bluelighter
Definitely stay away from ecstasy; that stands a good chance of making it impossible. But I agree with those who said trying drugs prolly isn't the way to go here.
Some studies show that only 25% of women can orgasm from penile-style vaginal stimulation alone. For most, it's all about the clitoris. I'm in the majority here myself; it sure feels nice, and I love the sensation of having something inside me (it improves orgasms a lot), but by itself, it just ain't gonna happen. Play your tongue right, though, and I go multiple (gods' gift to women
), so it's not a physical capability thing; it's just that the stimulation has to be the right kind.
Does she orgasm when masturbating? If so, it's probably a psychological, letting-go, trusting, vulnerability thing with you. There also may be buried "but good girls don't like sex" things (no one wants to admit to it in these days of supposed sexual liberation, but it definitely still exists as a meme in our society, and it could be in there).
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No drug, not even alcohol, causes the fundamental ills of society. If we're looking for the source of our troubles, we shouldn't test people for drugs, we should test them for stupidity, ignorance, greed and love of power. (P.J. O'Rourke)
Some studies show that only 25% of women can orgasm from penile-style vaginal stimulation alone. For most, it's all about the clitoris. I'm in the majority here myself; it sure feels nice, and I love the sensation of having something inside me (it improves orgasms a lot), but by itself, it just ain't gonna happen. Play your tongue right, though, and I go multiple (gods' gift to women

Does she orgasm when masturbating? If so, it's probably a psychological, letting-go, trusting, vulnerability thing with you. There also may be buried "but good girls don't like sex" things (no one wants to admit to it in these days of supposed sexual liberation, but it definitely still exists as a meme in our society, and it could be in there).
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No drug, not even alcohol, causes the fundamental ills of society. If we're looking for the source of our troubles, we shouldn't test people for drugs, we should test them for stupidity, ignorance, greed and love of power. (P.J. O'Rourke)