BeachBum4u
Bluelighter
An ex of mine totally enjoyed it but was super conscious of herself to the point of turning me down on many occasions. She'd have to make sure she was clean and everything was just right down there, if you know what I mean. Also, she grew up in a religious family and definitely had a few hang-ups when it came to sex. At the end of the day, she really just had a bunch of trouble "lettting go", so to speak. She doesn't sound too much different than your SO. BTW, she would rarely go down on me. She called it a chronic throat problem; super sensitive gag reflex. Good Luck with things!