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musman69

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So I was wondering if anyone else's significant other liked to be woken up to sex?

When I say this I don't mean just fooling around with them and they wake up. I mean full on waking up to sex.

My girlfriend is a very very heavy sleeper. Well I found out that she can wake up to sex. I mean I'll be in her thrusting for awhile before she wakes up. If I don't thrust hard enough she won't wake up. She likes it a lot because she gets to wake up to sex. I usually wake her while she's having an orgasm.
 
My opposites sleep too lightly for this unfortunately, and so do I. I'd love to wake up just as I'm about to cum inside her though.
 
Trying to and actually having sex with someone that's asleep, to me is the same thing as fucking a dead person.

What's wrong with you!?
 
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The same thing? Careful with words. They wake up. Dead people don't. Mr. Cookie, please refrain from the harsh language/personal attacks.

Is it rape if the sleeper explicitly consents (while awake) that he/she consents to being sexed while asleep? I don't think so. If there are no hard feelings and if both parties are totally accepting of the situation, then no, it's not rape.

That'd be like equating BDSM play with rape because it involves pain. Well... some people like that. Consent is the key here.
 
RhythmSpring said:
The same thing? Careful with words. They wake up. Dead people don't. Mr. Cookie, please refrain from the harsh language/personal attacks.

Is it rape if the sleeper explicitly consents (while awake) that he/she consents to being sexed while asleep? I don't think so. If there are no hard feelings and if both parties are totally accepting of the situation, then no, it's not rape.

That'd be like equating BDSM play with rape because it involves pain. Well... some people like that. Consent is the key here.
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If consent is given of course its not rape - the OP found out that he can have sex with his partner before she wakes up. Doesn't sound like he got written permission from her before she fell asleep.

Having sex with somebody when they are asleep (without consent) is a bit creepy - there is actually a porn company dedicated to this where they load the person up with sleeping pills as some people enjoy watching it.
 
Bearlove said:
Haha - so you were happy enough just to have sex with her when she was asleep? Urrgh - is this not rape ?
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I've met gay and bisexual men who had this happen with a boyfriend/partner, and yeah it was rape.

I met a bisexual man who liked me as a friend. But he told me how he had once raped a guy when they were drinking and the other guy passed out drunk, he gave him oral sex. Even before then I was sort of careful about not being alone with him or drinking too much around him, and I told him how I was not interested in him sexually at all but just wanted to be acquaintances. A friend of mine said that he was "aggressive" but, I just thought he was being nice or liked to flirt/tease people.

This other guy I knew in highschool said how he basically was raped the first time he had sex with a woman. He was at some party and took a xanax and drank on it, and then blacked out, and the next thing he remembers is some woman he didn't remember meeting riding his dick and they were in her hotel room.
 
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Let me be clear! I have consent from her each and every time. I ask before we take a nap or go to sleep if she would like to wake up to it. If she says yes then I do, if no then I don't. Also she doesn't take and meds before this happens. She just an extremely heavy sleeper. She finds it hot waking up to it mid orgasm.
 
I gave a guy a bj while he was passed out on xanax...I actually yanked his pants off and he came and didn't even notice. I felt kinda badass after like I just raped him so I didn't tell him
I am absolutely horny as fuck in the morning and to wake up with a dick inside me is a total turn on.
 
this thread is sooooo dodgy.

lets get this clear.

previously aquired consent for sleep sex and sucking someone off while they are passed out is not the same.

one isn't rape and the other is
 
pofacedhoe said:
this thread is sooooo dodgy.

lets get this clear.

previously aquired consent for sleep sex and sucking someone off while they are passed out is not the same.

one isn't rape and the other is
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This. I don't think that just because its a woman doing it to a man that it makes it ok. If you heard a story about a girl being passed out on Xanax and some guy going down on her while in a drug induced unconscious state and never finding out,nobody would think it was "bad ass".
 
barbiechandlerxxx said:
I gave a guy a bj while he was passed out on xanax...I actually yanked his pants off and he came and didn't even notice. I felt kinda badass after like I just raped him so I didn't tell him
I am absolutely horny as fuck in the morning and to wake up with a dick
inside me is a total turn on.
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Shit yea! My kinda girl :)
 
pofacedhoe said:
this thread is sooooo dodgy.

lets get this clear.

previously aquired consent for sleep sex and sucking someone off while they are passed out is not the same.

one isn't rape and the other is
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^^^^ exactly

I would hate to be woken up to sex.
 
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