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Sex lacking after MDMA (relationship issue)

Hey ther guys im actually super relieved to finally find a post that I can relate to so well!

Ive had this lack of sex drive due to mdma for a while now and me and my partner are going through a patch as a result..

We done mdma pretty much every weekend for a year so yeah.. too much there. I never used viagra and I think I prefer that... yeah the limp dick on mandy didnt help but the foreplay for hours was out of this world!

As I said we haven't had sex for about 2 and a half months.. prior to that it was another few months before we had sex... I havnt touched mandy now in about 3. I want to go clean for at least a year or even 2.
Reality doesnt help either.. im a barman who works all afternoon/evening times and she works 6 days a week mornings in london..

We have spoken and both know we need a getaway or just a day together to chill and do nothing.. just hold eachother and be close..

Im just posting here because I am truly worried about our sex life.. and its me not her... I just dont get horny.. the way I used to.. I practically wank on a semi whilst watching porn... takes me at least an hour... as a year ago if I wanted I could have the job over for myself in 5 minutes... the difference is phemominal... we did try having sex a few months back.. and again as described I lasted about 15 minutes. I used to be able to last alot longer. ..

Has any1 experienced this and overcome it?
What do I do?
 
^depression can ruin your sex drive and mdma every week has a high chance after a year of leaving you depressed. give it time and things should improve

you and your girlfriend need to spend time together or things will slide further for sure. two conflicting work schedules dont help and you HAVE to work around that for the sake of your relationship

i had terrible suicidal depression years ago and when i was depressed i couldn't get a boner for 2 months, not even once. so depression (even moderate as opposed to clinical) is a powerful killer of libido. in time your brain will heal for sure i'm speaking from expeirence
 
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