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Sex and penis size

The biggest I've seen in real life was 9 1/2 inches. I would see it when ever I looked down. I don't know how it felt since I am unable to have sex with myself. That was about 40 years ago and have lost a little in size since then.
 
Gay here

The biggest I've ever seen was a 8.5 length by 8in around. My boyfriend now finds mine to be too big, I'm currently a little over 8in and I'm pretty thick. Shape and curve play a great roll. His is 8in and sticks straight out and curves slightly to the right. It feels amazing.
 
Bigger penis = higher testosterone levels = more confidence, masculinity, healthier kids, etc. Every guy who is truly hung gets more girls on average because girls all talk about how big it is, how it smells like, looks like, and whether it curves to the left or right. They so obviously get wet just hearing about it.

In fact, some told me they would pick an average looking guy with a rather big dick than a handsome guy with an average dick. Most women do not want to hurt the guy they are with or I general and say 'Its how you use it' which is only partly true. Guys with big dicks are more more likely to give women G-Spot orgasms than guys with average dicks.
 
InfectedWithDrugs said:
Bigger penis = higher testosterone levels = more confidence, masculinity, healthier kids, etc. Every guy who is truly hung gets more girls on average because girls all talk about how big it is, how it smells like, looks like, and whether it curves to the left or right. They so obviously get wet just hearing about it.

In fact, some told me they would pick an average looking guy with a rather big dick than a handsome guy with an average dick. Most women do not want to hurt the guy they are with or I general and say 'Its how you use it' which is only partly true. Guys with big dicks are more more likely to give women G-Spot orgasms than guys with average dicks.
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I can't speak for all women.... Although apparently you can, but I can assure you I already have a boyfriend and am not looking for another. And have no interest in lying to the males of bluelight to make them feel better.

I truly can't tell any difference between an average length dick and an above average length dick. And I can DEFINITELY promise you there is as much as thing as too big as there is as too small. And most of the bullshit measurements guys post online are big enough to be too big.

Now, I don't have many other females as friends, and haven't since elementary to middle school, so I only have limited experience with what women talk about among other women, largely because I've generally found it boring. But if they are talking about dicks all the time, which I've never noticed personally. It's probably because it's a clique of shallow bimbos not worth dating to start with.

I may not be able to be able to speak for all women on all issues, but I think I have enough experience living in the body of at least one woman to say this....

Long dick + cervix = not fun!
 
InfectedWithDrugs said:
Bigger penis = higher testosterone levels = more confidence, masculinity, healthier kids, etc. Every guy who is truly hung gets more girls on average because girls all talk about how big it is, how it smells like, looks like, and whether it curves to the left or right. They so obviously get wet just hearing about it.

In fact, some told me they would pick an average looking guy with a rather big dick than a handsome guy with an average dick. Most women do not want to hurt the guy they are with or I general and say 'Its how you use it' which is only partly true. Guys with big dicks are more more likely to give women G-Spot orgasms than guys with average dicks.
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Bigger penis = Bigger penis. The rest of your post was fun reading. Have you had sex with a women ? Do you know what G-spot stimulation is ? If you think you need to be 'hung' to hit that area and if you think that guys with average dicks are unable to give the women a G-spot orgasm :eek:.
 
I think it's excuse making, women won't date me cause my dicks too small not various other things I could change but refuse too.

It's similar to other subtle sexism in the form of "women won't date me cause they only date rich guys"
 
Just as dicks and vaginas are highly variable, so are preferences and experiences. There is no one right answer but dicks absolutely can be too big or too long or too small. Different strokes for different folks. Generalized statements surrounding dick size won't be true for absolutely everyone and I wouldn't have it any other way.

Variability is what makes life interesting.
 
JessFR said:
I think it's excuse making, women won't date me cause my dicks too small not various other things I could change but refuse too.

It's similar to other subtle sexism in the form of "women won't date me cause they only date rich guys"
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yeah if you can give a woman an epic orgasm by just using a single finger in the right place, I highly doubt that you need to be "hung". ;)
 
I prefer average over big. Big ones are over rated. I'm not a big girl and would rather be with an average size and feel totally comfortable instead of being on edge that a rough pump is going to hurt and feel like it's hitting my stomach. You can have more fun instead of having to be careful not to get hurt. If I were a man I would rather get my whole dick deep inside my woman rather than just two thirds of it. You can't get any closer to someone you love than them being 100% in you and wrapped in eachothers arms. Nothing better than that.
 
JessFR said:
I swear boys are so hilariously insecure and dishonest. I know so many guys who are clearly 5'11 swear that they're 6'2. And cock size is the same. Most of the guys in this thread, were they telling the truth, are so ludicrously above the average. Guys delude themselves into thinking 6 inches is average, and that they are least 7 or above. Which is complete crap.

Longer is not automatically better. And to be honest, from what I've observes. Their concern for the size of their dick is much less about what women will think and much more about what other men will think.

Poor boys, they're so sensitive and emotional about this stuff. Guys, any girl worth seriously getting involved with won't care about your dick size unless it's massively outside the norm on either direction.
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Really? If you think all guys are like this, i would suggest you're hanging (no pun intended) with the wrong fellas.
People of both genders can be irrationally hung-up on their physical attributes, especially as they relate to sex and sexual attractiveness.
Equally, some of us have a healthy amount of body acceptance and perspective when it comes to our perception of our reproductive organs and physical appearance.
I think a lot of the anxiety over genitals in some western cultures (some - namely the more puritan ones - are worse than others) is a result of the shame, taboo and censorship of the human body.

If your cultural upbringing considers genitalia to be obscene, vulgar and dirty - it makes sense that people (male and female alike) are going to develop complexes, weird attitudes and strange fixations towards their (and other people's) reproductive organs.

To use a really basic example, hollywood films are so filled with violence and murder that it is an obligatory plot device of some (if not most) genres - but the sight of a penis on screen is somehow still "controversial" or "risqué" - comparatively uncommon, and enough to earn a film some kind of 18+ rating - as if all nudity (and therefore the human body - something the entire [human] audience of such media has in common) is somehow sexual and obscene.

Violence on the other hand is so completely normalised in film, that it has long been a staple of film and television made for children's audiences.

I'm not saying kids' shows should necessarily make a point of depicting cocks and vulva - but i sure as hell am less disturbed to see a naked person than i am to witness an act of violence. To me, human bodies are, in general normal and inoffensive - whereas gratuitous violence is far more distasteful.

Our media standards help instil strange values in people by having (what i consider to be) a strange set of values in terms of what is, and what isn't acceptable.

If human bodies weren't so taboo in mass media - and nowadays commodified by sexualised, pornographic representations (as opposed to realistic ones) - i think guys and girls alike wouldn't be so obsessed over things like penis length and breast size.

Also, anyone that thinks you need a huge penis to stimulate a woman's g-spot is presumably ill-informed about female anatomy ;)
 
In my experience, nearly everyone, women included, are poorly informed about female anatomy.
 
I had a 10 inch thick as shit cock about 4 months ago and I hurt for 3 days, my husband is a comfortable 8 inches and thick and his is way more enjoyable. I am a very petite Asian girl 110 lbs and the bigger the cock the harder it is to enjoy.
 
7.5 to 8.5 is perfect. Of course i have never turned a man away and had some pretty small cocks, and as long as they know how to use it, that's OK. My husbands buddy bless his heart got screwed and is only 4 inches but God does he know how to use it. My husband laughs when his buddy id fucking me, says he fucks like a rabbit.
 
JessFR said:
I can't speak for all women.... Although apparently you can, but I can assure you I already have a boyfriend and am not looking for another. And have no interest in lying to the males of bluelight to make them feel better.

I truly can't tell any difference between an average length dick and an above average length dick. And I can DEFINITELY promise you there is as much as thing as too big as there is as too small. And most of the bullshit measurements guys post online are big enough to be too big.

Now, I don't have many other females as friends, and haven't since elementary to middle school, so I only have limited experience with what women talk about among other women, largely because I've generally found it boring. But if they are talking about dicks all the time, which I've never noticed personally. It's probably because it's a clique of shallow bimbos not worth dating to start with.

I may not be able to be able to speak for all women on all issues, but I think I have enough experience living in the body of at least one woman to say this....

Long dick + cervix = not fun!
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best answer i've seen to any thread. made me lol
 
Biggest I've taken is 10 inches. He was really fucking thick, too. Kind of surprising from a tall, skinny, white boy, tbh. I generally just prefer really thick, and length doesn't exactly matter as long as it's more than 4 inches. Super long is really scary, especially if the dude is aggressive. I told my playmate that I didn't want to do a certain position because it would be too painful for me, but he did it anyway.
 
My husband is a big and fat 8.5 inch and thick as hell. There are a couple of guys who share our bed on a regular basis, and one of them is at least 10 inches. Trust me I'm very small and Petite at 5'5 and 110 lbs and to think his big ass cock can get all the way in is amazing. My pussy get dripping wet watching the video's my husband has made of our sexual exploits.
 
damn, this makes me want to couple swap with you guys. We are in our low 30's

Milf126 said:
My husband is a big and fat 8.5 inch and thick as hell. There are a couple of guys who share our bed on a regular basis, and one of them is at least 10 inches. Trust me I'm very small and Petite at 5'5 and 110 lbs and to think his big ass cock can get all the way in is amazing. My pussy get dripping wet watching the video's my husband has made of our sexual exploits.
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