sad story , haven't been laid in over 2years and going crazy

[Shrooms00087]

its a long story but i promise ill make it as short as possible..after abusing drugs from the age of 10 to 18 i fell into a spell of mental side effects which lead to me becoming anorexic and almost dying at 19. after recovering from anorexia i began to binge eat and that brings us to today. i was 300lbs but I'm now around 260..at 5'6 i look really fat and i can't get laid. i will say this when i was a skinny 150lb addict i had no problem getting laid. any input is welcome, thanks in advance

You put too much value in others. Go masturbate and revere love for itself rather than putting value on the act itself. You seem to say by getting laid you will see yourself in a new positive light. "I had no problem getting laid" yes but it seems you still had your troubles, no?

The worst part of this whole story is you're recognizing the wrong problem.

 

[nuttynutskin]

Maybe you should stop referring to women as sluts and they may sleep with you???!

I was thinking the same thing. Along with the other things I think the op could stand to change the way he views women.

 

[morpher001]

delta thanks for your post it was right on the money. I'm sorry u had to go through what seems like a very similar story to mine. i abused drugs which lead to the eating disorder and it was hell but look at us now. we are alive and well, something I'm sure u thought was never going to happen in those dark days of the past …i can't stress enough how much your post means to me, thanks you again. and you're right on the hooker thing, i don't even want to do it. I'm scared of diseases lol and that just isn't how sex should be, no kissing or the chase of finding someone..its all part of the experience! but I'm just so damn horny haha. i never thought about it much as i was basically dying from the whole ED thing, staying alive was the only thing on my mind but now that I'm ok( and btw Im still losing weight 250lbs now) its really bugging me…21 yr olds r just horny things!!!

You need to lose the 'sad story' (excuse for failing at life) more than you need to lose the weight.

A fat interesting guy gets laid before a skinny boring guy. For clarity, eating disorders, substance use problems, anxiety disorders do not qualify as in any way interesting. So never mention those.

Go do stuff for fun and make a point of talking to people (male and female) even if you start out awkward.

 

[Ziggy stardust]

i am losing weight but its not an overnight process detroit….my question is how do i get laid right now, while I'm still in the process of losing weight..like any fat guys with some good tips to get some sluts in bed would be nice!!

Short and fat is fine...your misogynist attitude isn't...