Rolling with another couple

[LibraZ]

My husband and I allways talk about rolling with another couple, but we never do. He just asked two mutual friends of ours if they would be interested in going away for a "couples" weekend. I know the guys, and they roll, but I don't know the girlfriends. We are planning on going out for some drinks a few times before we plan the weekend so we can all meet eachother...will probally be around the end of the summer.

One of the things I love best about rolling is the loss of inhabitions...so I'm a little weary of what it's going to be like with the people I don't know. Actually, I'm more concerned about the girls than the guys. I generally get along better with guys anyway. I have a VERY strong personality, when it comes to girls one of three things happens: 1- they love me 2- they're intimidated by me or 3- they don't like me b/c thier man thinks I'm cool to hang with- -> so stupid...

Anyway...how many of you have rolled with another couple? How was it?

 

[Eforeurope]

I've done it several times with my gf and other couples and never have anything more serious happened that a huge cuddle puddle lol 8 people in the bed and such. I say give it a try

 

[lilczey]

yeah i have done this a few times but really i would either b just wit my gf or at the club or by myself

in my opinion

 

[versatile]

I've rolled with new people on many occasions. Cant say i like it since you tend to love everyone when rolling, and when you meet the same person sober you realize they are not that amazing. I think its better to roll with people you already like and have feelings for, that way you just increase them. I think you will have a great time regardless, just my 2 cents

 

[webguy]

I say go for it. If you like losing inhibitions, maybe they will, too. You never know when life will throw new experiences at you, and if you don't embrace them when they are there, poof, the option is gone and life can get dull wondering what might have been. You already know the other guys, and you seem to think they're going to be fun to party with. Would they be with people who also aren't fun? And if these girls are lame, at least they won't be around these guys long into the future. Better to develop a good circle of trusting friends who like to party. It's the best if its with people who fit with each other in terms of attitudes about what is the right kind of play once everyone is dis-inhibited.

 

[LibraZ]

I've partied with the guys before- drinking at a party- when they were single and we chilled as a group with my husband. We had a blast so I know it's all good there.

I guess the best I can do is try to get to know the girls a little bit before actually spending the whole weekend with them. I've been accused of being drunk even when I am 100% sober...so hopefully they'll get a good taste of my personality before hand.

Whatever we end up doing though, I think hubby & I are going to book our own room in stead of getting a big suite, just in case we want to cut out on our own.

 

[webguy]

Imo

You're right: for lots of reasons it's a good idea to have a place to be alone. Like sleep at the end of the night. But a desire for private time sometimes comes up DURING a party, too, and you don't necessarily want to leave the venue, especially if three couples are the sum total of the entire party. That's why the best house parties are nicer still when there are door locks on the bedroom doors. A little escape for a little play doesn't mean your message to the other couples is: "it's over for the night, gang." But don't plan on disappearing entirely. Look at it this way: you can have fun alone with the hub any night. The fun that's only available when you and the hub are partying with these other couples is what's rare. You wouldn't have written in to learn about other people's experiences with this if you weren't interested in exploring what can evolve: some play / dancing with the other people, too. It might not be a half bad idea to chat up the other girls when everybody's not high yet, to learn what their limits, hopes, fears are. You might be surprised to discover that their motivation to do this party with other couples, and not just with a random mixed group, has to do with their hope for some loosening up of things in their relationships. And if they are not experienced users, what could be more fun than guiding a new girl(s) into her/their first whole body orgasms? I think the semi-privacy of a 3 couple setting is just about the perfect place for all that.