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Rolling with a parent to resolve past bitterness

RhythmSpring

RhythmSpring

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Hi BL!

I use MDMA mostly for therapeutic purposes... I've gotten a lot of value out of rolling. I've also used it recreationally, and that's awesome too, but I value it mostly for releasing baggage and self-healing.

A few years ago my Dad and I went through a really toxic period with lots of passive aggression and fights and mistrust. It was the worst period of my life and probably one of his.

We're both open to the use of psychedelics and MDMA for spiritual purposes, and I was wonder what you all thought about me proposing to have an MDMA (molly) session with him to try to figure out what happened... we're sort of distant right now and the heat has subsided but tension still exists.

I'm 21 and he's in his 50s.
 
Is your father on any meds? 50s are still fairly low risk these days for doing MDMA, but you'll want to make sure he's not going to be on any meds that will interfere and that he still has a good heart for MDMA (it raises body temp and blood pressure -- a bad heart and MDMA are NOT a good combo).

As for will it help... it depends on you two. MDMA would provide a safe mental state for you two to work out your differences. I'm sure it has the capacity to help, but a lot of that still depends on the two of you =)
 
He's been feeling fluish lately and fatigued, but I think he's just getting over that. Other than that, no heart/blood pressure problems.

Thanks, AylaV, for reminding me that it's not the drug that does the work, it's still the people.
 
Like others said, I think if he is in good health then it may be a beneficial experience. If you intention is to work through your difficulties with him, then the experience may allow you to open up and face issues that you otherwise wouldn't feel comfortable dealing with.

I really do think that MDMA has amazing therapeutic potential of used appropriately. All our fears, insecurities, etc., can be looked at while being enveloped in a warm feeling of love and acceptance.

If you do go ahead with it I'd be curious to hear about how it turns out...
 
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My dad rolled with me and my little bro for his first time 2 months ago! =) He will be 54 next year- he had an amazing time, but health isn't about age- it's about individual conditions. PLEASE read this beautiful account written by a 50 year old man, who shared MDMA with his son: http://www.guardian.co.uk/books/2001/jul/14/books.guardianreview

If your dad is in healthy conditions, and open to an MDMA experience- I highly, highlllllly recommend it. MDMA is responsible with giving me the best year of my life (this one!) because I got to let my little brother experience it with me for his first time, and my dad. I think bonding is the best part of MDMA, and what's more meaningful than doing that with family, while you can? <3
 
As a person of 64 who rolls every 2 or 3 months I kind of get pissed off when I hear all this over-protective health advice as soon as anybody plans to roll with an older person.
The main thing to remember and this applies to all first timers is to roll with only half a dose on the first time. You can up the dose after an hour if everything is okay.
Everything about meds and all the rest applies to everybody.
A relaxed setting and good music should make this a health and beneficial experience.
 
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My dad rolled with me and my little bro for his first time 2 months ago! =) He will be 54 next year- he had an amazing time, but health isn't about age- it's about individual conditions. PLEASE read this beautiful account written by a 50 year old man, who shared MDMA with his son: http://www.guardian.co.uk/books/2001/jul/14/books.guardianreview

If your dad is in healthy conditions, and open to an MDMA experience- I highly, highlllllly recommend it. MDMA is responsible with giving me the best year of my life (this one!) because I got to let my little brother experience it with me for his first time, and my dad. I think bonding is the best part of MDMA, and what's more meaningful than doing that with family, while you can? <3
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So true! :D B, are you sure we're not related?

I have rolled with my Mom, Stepdad, and my older brother. Each and every experience has been amazing, especially with my Mom and Stepdad. My parents went through a nasty divorce when I was younger and my Mom carried so much guilt about the pain she put us through but had never had the courage to tell me how sorry she was, how ashamed she was, how she wished she could have been a better mother and not put us through that.

And when I let her know that I couldn't be more proud to have her as my mother and that I had only pure love for her, that there was no hurt or anger or anything except the bond of love that mother and son have, she was freed of a huge burden and able to let it go once and for all.

It was such an amazing experience. If your dad's health is right, and you guys love each other, it could be a very healing thing for you. MDMA + family really is the best. Good luck! <3
 
sounds a little awkward i dont know if i would ever roll with my dad but if you have the kind of relationship where you can do that, thats great! let us know how it goes if you do follow threw with it.
 
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