Me and mine have a bunch of rituals.... She doesnt smoke (I do), I do not think you should smoke until the come-down!! ENJOY YOUR ROLL!!
1. We always start by doing something to pass the time as soon as we drop, usally cards. This allows us to ignore the pre-roll antisipation.
2. We always talk about what we want to practice while rolling. i.e. Dancing, glowsticking / stringing / gloving.
3. As the roll hits we LOVE to stretch each other out. Sit facing each other with your legs straight out (knees locked), put your feet together and then grab each other by the bi-ceps and pull down (not to tight, women bruse easily)... Slowly pull down to the end of each others finger tips, you can use her favorite lotion (not to much) if its to slippery you just slide around... While doing all of this rock back and fourth.. Just typing this makes me want to roll....
4. Somthing that I personally do before we roll together is think of all the bad things I have done recently.. This allows me to remember to bring them up / talk about them / apologise!!! Works great for me.. Thats part of the deep conversation the the above have mentioned..
5. If you have a pool swimming is always awsome, we have a hot tub and a pool so we will sit in the hot tube for a few and then jump in the pool, ahhhh,, this blows you up harddddd!!!
6. For some reason I always turn into a comic when I am rolling, but only I get the jokes, my wife always asks me if I am ok

, I always like to do random "WEIRD" stuff, and this keeps her guessing and keep her mind on stuff. Once in a while you will have that lazy roll where you self endulge and you just sorta do your own thing, (Fun 2)....
I could go on and on, the bottom line is ENJOY EACH other!! The best things are not planned they just happen.. We always go to the store together to shop for SUPPLIES.. I.E. Glowsticks, different flavored water(s), candy, vicks, new toys..bla, bla, bla..,. This is fun 2.
I realize lots of this was mentioned, figured I would ellaborate...
BE SAFE, HAVE FUN, TEST YOUR PILLS,, ENJOY YOUR ROLL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!