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Kayyyleee

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Okay, so I'm not exactly new to the e scene. I have rolled quite a bit, however, it's always just at roll parties or with a few friends. I never got into going to raves.

For my birthday, my friends and I all decided to go to a huge outdoor rave. I was super stoked and could not wait! I know I had good beans, and I was in the right mind set. I dropped before the rave and was feeling great, but once we got past security and into the rave, I started tripping out. I felt like I was getting so many negative vibes, from everyone! It pretty much killed my roll, and gave me an anxiety attack. Totally overwhelming.

Just wondering, does this happen to other people or am I just retarded?? So many people I've talked to will only roll at raves.. so why was it so unenjoyable for me? And is there any way I can like train myself into being able to roll at raves and have a good time?
 
You sound like me... I only roll with a few friends or at small house parties. I myself have never been to a rave and I don't think I would like it. Maybe the rave just wasn't fun, rolling is though. =] Were they not playing good music?
 
It was very good music, amazing bass! And all my friends were having a good time, I just kept looking at all the other people and it was overwhelming negativity... I got bored which is weird cause i've NEVER been bored while rolling, and I left early. There were also a lot of people that were completely floored... couldn't even see their eyes at all. That was making me trip too.
 
Hopefully your friends left with you when you mentioned you weren't having a good time. Idk what it is about raves but I don't think I would have a good time at one especially since my favorite music is hip-hop/rap and even more so when I'm rolling. Are you going to try to go to another rave or not because of the experience?
 
Haaa, actually they all stayed. I had someone else come pick me up.

I would like to try it out again, but maybe that's not such a good idea?
I dunno...
 
Okay wat u gotta do is take glowstickz! At raves glowstickz r ur best friend....and make sure that when ur using them that u can make it move to the beat of the song( which of course when ur rollin the music has to b techno) and also a benefit of having glowstickz throughout the night is that since ull b looking at the glowstickz the whole time and u wont notice anybody looking at u and u wont get any negative vibes.=)
 
Maybe rolling in public isn't for you? Or it could have just been that event. I know I've been to a few raves and gotten bad vibes that killed my roll. Some nights it's obvious bad beans are going around, so there will just be a lot of people having a bad night in the bathroom, or sitting up against the walls wishing they could go home. Other nights, the venue is just way too crowded and the kids get all ragey and pushy and that can kill the vibe as well.

If you're willing to try again, try an 18+ event instead of something all ages. I've noticed that the vibes at older events are better... way better. And if it's more for the artsy/burner crowd you'll have people on different kinds of drugs and that's always fun to see while you're rolling (I was spinning my orbits one night and some guy who was tripping on some LSD came up and was totally in love with me making "The Life Giving Blossom" with my lights.) Or try smaller events.

I'd also suggest not popping until you get into the venue if you're okay with that. If I'm iffy about an event, I'll wait till I'm inside and check the place out, wait to see if the vibe is right type of thing. If not, nothing is making you stay (instead maybe the $$ you paid or friends.)

Or maybe raves just aren't for you. And that's okay. If you have a good time rolling at home, stick with what works. :)
 
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01roadking said:
I have what I believe to be a unique situation. I am a youthful happily married 51 y/o man. We are both professionals and are reasonably successful by all accounts- and happen to live in Vegas... which caters to every imaginable indulgence. So we both like to roll occasionally (a handful of times per year). I probably look more forward to it than her. I think she does it to keep me happy and wouldn't miss it if she never did it again. Not to say that we don't have a good time when we do roll, because of the bonding and intimacy that invariably follows. There is one non-negotiable condition to her rolling; which is that we do a house roll. She will not roll in public, like clubbing where almost everyone's rolling....she'll drop me off at a techno club so I can see a favorite DJ spin and then pick me up at 9am after I've been rolling and dancing all night. She has never questioned my fidelity and assumes I was probably dancing with various women and that's all as I come home to her. Which has been true...but I would like to establish a friendship with a younger girl where its just understood. She becomes my rolling buddy and it leads to wherever it leads. No guilt, commitment or obligation...nor am I looking to get played or be a sugar daddy.. Am I dreaming and that's just a fucked up fantasy? I'm curious...



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huh?
 
01roadking said:
I have what I believe to be a unique situation. I am a youthful happily married 51 y/o man. We are both professionals and are reasonably successful by all accounts- and happen to live in Vegas... which caters to every imaginable indulgence. So we both like to roll occasionally (a handful of times per year). I probably look more forward to it than her. I think she does it to keep me happy and wouldn't miss it if she never did it again. Not to say that we don't have a good time when we do roll, because of the bonding and intimacy that invariably follows. There is one non-negotiable condition to her rolling; which is that we do a house roll. She will not roll in public, like clubbing where almost everyone's rolling....she'll drop me off at a techno club so I can see a favorite DJ spin and then pick me up at 9am after I've been rolling and dancing all night. She has never questioned my fidelity and assumes I was probably dancing with various women and that's all as I come home to her. Which has been true...but I would like to establish a friendship with a younger girl where its just understood. She becomes my rolling buddy and it leads to wherever it leads. No guilt, commitment or obligation...nor am I looking to get played or be a sugar daddy.. Am I dreaming and that's just a fucked up fantasy? I'm curious...



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So... you want a youngg roll buddy you can party and cheat on your wife with?
That's baadddd idea bro, & gross.
Not all fantasies should be played out.
 
01roadking said:
I have what I believe to be a unique situation. I am a youthful happily married 51 y/o man. We are both professionals and are reasonably successful by all accounts- and happen to live in Vegas... which caters to every imaginable indulgence. So we both like to roll occasionally (a handful of times per year). I probably look more forward to it than her. I think she does it to keep me happy and wouldn't miss it if she never did it again. Not to say that we don't have a good time when we do roll, because of the bonding and intimacy that invariably follows. There is one non-negotiable condition to her rolling; which is that we do a house roll. She will not roll in public, like clubbing where almost everyone's rolling....she'll drop me off at a techno club so I can see a favorite DJ spin and then pick me up at 9am after I've been rolling and dancing all night. She has never questioned my fidelity and assumes I was probably dancing with various women and that's all as I come home to her. Which has been true...but I would like to establish a friendship with a younger girl where its just understood. She becomes my rolling buddy and it leads to wherever it leads. No guilt, commitment or obligation...nor am I looking to get played or be a sugar daddy.. Am I dreaming and that's just a fucked up fantasy? I'm curious...
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ummmm yeah bro, you are dreaming big. haha, i am sorry but i just do not think your fantasy will ever come true. i mean there are things you can do to up your odds, like being a sugar daddy. that may up your odds, i mean, as sad as it sounds you might have come up with the flow for that. you should be in shape and not repulsive, i just think that might help too. i just dont see a young woman wanting to roll with a 51 y/o guy she barely knows. but hey, post an add on craigslist! see what happens!

Kayyyleee said:
So... you want a youngg roll buddy you can party and cheat on your wife with?
That's baadddd idea bro, & gross.
Not all fantasies should be played out.
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lmao
 
Personally, raves are my favorite environment to roll in. So many new people to meet, and it's always good seeing some of the same people too and have wonderful conversations. Sometimes people (ahem, juggalos) will be giving off bad vibes but it's no big deal I just move to somewhere else in the room or just to another room. This being said, raves aren't for everyone and some people prefer rolling in smaller groups of people or just alone (I don't understand those people though).
 
I love rolling at raves, the loud music, lights and everything is awesome. I think you just kept thinking too much about what people were thinking about you and were thinking wrong of it, because chances are most people there were probably rolling too.

What I did is learned poi and I just spin lights at raves when I'm rolling.
 
best place to do it!i've rolled with friends driving around, at a small party, at a small rave, at a massive, and at a club. So far I'd have to say the club and massive were my favorite hands down, just the music when its blasting is so sick=D
 
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