Im a girl.
I once got with a good guy friend of mine when I was rebounding and quite drunk. Anyway. At some point he's like "you have such an awesome arse. Can you turn around?? I just want to look at it." And I was like "umm no".. aside from it being kinda awkward, I don't like my arse. He insisted another couple of times and I refused, and then after a while he was like
"Look stop being so shy. You have a great butt ok?!" and pulled me around onto my knees infront of him.
(This all being in the back of his car, so the awkwardness was increased by the fact we were short of space)
Next thing I know and he's licking my arse!
I didn't even know people DID that back then!!
(I was prob. 17, or near enough, and he was a few years older than me)
I don't think I have ever been so shocked in my life! I think the level of shock and confusion that someone would actually want to do that completly interferred with me being able to determine whether it was ok or not. All I could think about was what a freak he was and was trying to avoid kissing him again. lol
He couldn't have acheived a bigger turn off for me at that moment haha.
I think I extricated myself from the situation shortly after that, being quite suddenly much less enthused than I had been originally.
The other awkward thing was that we returned to being just friends and I always remembered that.
It took me a few years after that to even hear of a rimjob, let alone work out that the two things were connected. haha