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ok so i've been ridiculously horny for like the last two weeks or so

i had sex about four months ago, but i was totally blacked out so i didnt remember much
needless to say it didn't really reset my system how sex normally would

before that i had sex about a year ago

i haven't been having sex because i got tired of random hookups, and chose not have sex until i met someone i wanted to be in a relationship with

i guess its been so long that now i'm crazy horny all the time, even masturbating won't help it just comes back
should i just go get laid??
 
Theres nothing to do here. Either you get laid or you dont. Find a FWB is my advice. That way its not a random hook up and your getting laid.
 
You've made the decision to stop sleeping with randoms, which you obviously made for a reason or how you felt about it. I stay try and stick with it if you think it's a good thing for you. I have a really high sex drive, but I don't have sex outside relationships, and I've only liked two guys enough to have ever done that...so I have definitely experienced these problems you speak of.

Possibly too much information, but: my solution was getting more creative with masturbating. Each day I just took time out and watched porn for ages. Good porn too. Make sure there's something you like about the pornstars or the genre etc. - hunt around. It's harder for women to find porn that really hits the spot than it is for men, so do some searching and check out a lot. Toys too, all sorts. I jump online read up on cool ones, get enthusiastic and then give them a go. I've liked a few that I didn't think we're really going to be my thing. I personally love toys, even since I've been in a relationship we incorporate toys into sessions all the time - they're good for your sex life all round IMO, because they help to keep sex new and exciting. Draw it out too, watch porn and play for a while. I found after mentally getting into it for a period of time rather than just getting the job done quickly, really helped keep my urges at bay. Well, not always admittedly. It still got really frustrating for me at times, but it was manageable, and I really learnt how to get myself off properly and I'll always reap the benefits of that ;) Plenty of times I just wanted to fuck, but randoms have just never been my thing for some reason...I have no idea why. So whatever you do, try and give yourself at least a decent 'simulated sex life'. Try new things, watch different porn, and enjoy yourself. Suppressing your sex drive isn't a good thing IMO. So even solo, you've gotta put in some effort and creativity for your 'sex life' to be satisfying.
 
Ok so my bf has a very high sex drive,horney 24/7. Hes 36 & im 44 and we just arent always on the same page w/this. We're now at the point where I stall & delay when time 4 bed.Arguments have increased buz of this. Desperate! What should I do??
 
Seems like a pretty simple conclusion, are you asking us to tell you to do what your libido is clearly implying? :)
 
Boyfriend has the solution!

I got the answer.....FUCK THE SHIT OUT OF HIM EVERY NIGHT TIL HIS DICK IS TOO SORE TO HAVE SEX FOR A FEW DAYS.. WHEN IT DOES TAKE ADvaNTAGE And get some rest.
 
Oh I found a solution to this kind of problem: go out and have some really bad sex. I didn't do this intentionally but I was with a really, really bad guy about a week ago and I can tell you, I still don't wanna have sex again, haha.
 
i sometimes want to be that guy that can go out and just have sex with a girl

but i need that emotional connection, its who i am
and i made the promise to myself to not sleep with anyone unless i truly cared about them
even though that's been mentally traumatic for me, i believe in my heart i made the right choice
because random sex will only temporarily fill a void, and it'll be nowhere near how gratifying it is to have someone who you care for and cares for you

sometimes i feel so old for my age it fucks with my head because i'm not like the majority of men/people my age
makes me feel wrong for not being normal but i am who i am and i'm proud of it even when its difficult and i might not realize it
 
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