tgunn said:
And this goes to all the self rightous party goers, dj's, promoters or whoever, get off your high horse and quit judging people for what they choose to do...... If you people dont like what goes on at parties dont go...... So dont judge!
I don't think that a promoter has to conceded defeat to drug (ab)users and dealers just b-c that's the status quo of raves. Just b--c it's "the way it is" doesn't mean that a promoter can't try and make it better. And what is "better"....? well, whatever the promoter thinks is 'better'.
me, as a promoter, i always thought "do drugs, but have composure" was better.... part of the demise of raves came form people doing REALLY OBVIOUS drug stuff... e tricks, rolling on the floor, smacking lips and rolling eyes whilst trying to make friends with security guards and cops, lovin' up on each otehr in the middle of the floor, puking, et al. these are all signs of lack of composure.
when i kicked people out, it wasn't b-c of doing drugs, it was b-c of them OBVIOUSLY f'd up beyond belief....
that was what was good for me.
Good for another promoter may be the absence of drugs altogether.
Each promoter has the right to determine what's "good" for them. It's their neck on the line. And partygoers need to realize which promoter does what... if you don't like that promoter's policy, don't go to their event.
But having 'condescending' promoters, believe it or not, helps us define the norm and also helps us realize when we might be getting alittle out of hand.... part of how we police ourselves is internalized judgement from peers, whether we believe it or not.
so, don't get so bent outta shape over a 'judgemental' promoter.... we need personalities of all types ...