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Revenge cheating

An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind, an gives them STis. You don't achieve anything by rebound cheating, apart from showing how much of a douche you are yourself.
 
Revenge cheating is still inflicting poison on you, even though you think it's all about getting back at your partner. If you really want to heal and move past being cheated on, how would being a hypocrite help you to do that?
 
In honesty, what are you achieving? It may make you feel a little happier in the short run, it might make you feel like you have gotten revenge. But what have you ultimately achieved, apart from stoop to there level? What will your future partners think, when they find out how spiteful you've been? Do you really think that much of yourself, your going to use your own body, to gain a sense of achievement.

All you've done is whored yourself out to prove a point which doesn't need proving and certainly won't be proved by doing so.

You don't teach someone not to hit, by hitting someone else in the face and going, 'look'.
You don't teach people not to steal your possessions by stealing there's.

Dude, just don't do it, its not morally right and is a pathetic idea.
 
Hear Me Roar said:
An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind, an gives them STis. You don't achieve anything by rebound cheating, apart from showing how much of a douche you are yourself.
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Hear Me Roar said:
In honesty, what are you achieving? It may make you feel a little happier in the short run, it might make you feel like you have gotten revenge. But what have you ultimately achieved, apart from stoop to there level? What will your future partners think, when they find out how spiteful you've been? Do you really think that much of yourself, your going to use your own body, to gain a sense of achievement.

All you've done is whored yourself out to prove a point which doesn't need proving and certainly won't be proved by doing so.

You don't teach someone not to hit, by hitting someone else in the face and going, 'look'.
You don't teach people not to steal your possessions by stealing there's.

Dude, just don't do it, its not morally right and is a pathetic idea.
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Oh really? So like if party a blows up ur harbour, you don't nuke two of their cities? It seemed effective.

Less hyperbole...say my housemate never cleans dishes. I do. I get tired of it, I stop and leave him without any clean ones. He washes them! It worked pretty well.
 
my ex was an alcoholic. one day i decided to follow him to bars to make sure he was drinking and not cheating. i was "extracting my revenge". well, you might be able to guess what happened. he resented i was there but another guy knew i was shitfaced and vulnerable. i ended up the cheater, and i had the rape shower crying episode afterward, still with no evidence that his alcoholism was linked to cheating.

revenge is a sweet idea, but best left to asian film directors than real life
 
MyFinalRest said:
You will get herpes and hpv from rebound sex.
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Only if that person has herpes and hpv and you don't practice safe sex.
How do you have a greater chance of getting an STD from having rebound sex vs. cheating on someone? I feel like that chance is still there.
Use condoms. Stay safe.
 
llama112 said:
Only if that person has herpes and hpv and you don't practice safe sex.
How do you have a greater chance of getting an STD from having rebound sex vs. cheating on someone? I feel like that chance is still there.
Use condoms. Stay safe.
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So there's only 2 options here llama? rebound sex or cheating?
Condoms don't protect against those two STD's, and also do you feel confident with only a thin piece of latex to protect your life and health from other STD's like AIDS.

Rebound sex is about as needy as it gets. Confident women don't need to catch an ego-boost by gettin' it cheap, quick, and dirty from some stranger.

Good advice would be to break up with a person who cheats on you, get your values straightened out, go out and make an effort to talk to guys, take the physical stuff slowly, and build something lasts this time.

The best way to prevent STD's is to get to know someone first. Get to know them well.
 
Let me just put it like this..It will only work if they both cheated on each other around the same time before they found out about one another....then they come clean and they erase it....An eye for an eye type of situation. But now that there is a party hurt in the equation, I really don't think that it will be healthy for your friend that got cheated on to go fuck someone else. They might as well downgrade to an "open relationship". This sounds unhealthy and childish.

They can however try to see if they can get over it together and earn trust back....it's hard but possible :)
 
Revenge cheating is lame.

I know. I've enacted it. Created more guilt and distance, even though the liaisons never came to light.
 
I'd have 2 just break up.. I don't think I could get over my man cheating. I wouldn't revenge cheat, but I wouldn't hang around either.. I give u major props for hanging around.
 
MyFinalRest said:
So there's only 2 options here llama? rebound sex or cheating?
Condoms don't protect against those two STD's, and also do you feel confident with only a thin piece of latex to protect your life and health from other STD's like AIDS.

Rebound sex is about as needy as it gets. Confident women don't need to catch an ego-boost by gettin' it cheap, quick, and dirty from some stranger.

Good advice would be to break up with a person who cheats on you, get your values straightened out, go out and make an effort to talk to guys, take the physical stuff slowly, and build something lasts this time.

The best way to prevent STD's is to get to know someone first. Get to know them well.
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I never said there were only two options. I said that was what I would do. I would also advise ensuring that the person does not have STDs. There is no way to know 100%. But using a condom and asking that person is a good start. Yeah, they can lie. But so can someone who you've known for a long time.
Rebound sex isn't needy either. I have sexual desires, as do many (I'd say most) people out there. For me, having sex with someone else would be better than having sex with a guy that cheated on me.
 
I am a verry nice guy ask the people that work under me ask my fiance ask my ex's....every thing ended well and I took care of them untill they were back on their feet again....

but if I was cheated on.....


I have a mean and spitefull streak in me that doesnt come out... just ask the people that fucked with me at work...

just ask the people that broke into my truck that lived next door...
just ask the guy in my union hall that tryed bringing me up on false charges...
 
ATLGIRL said:
They might as well downgrade to an "open relationship". This sounds unhealthy and childish.
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Fucking excuse me? How is open a 'downgrade'? Me and my fiance have an open relationship, but I'm not sure how that makes out relationship less serious, makes our love less deep or makes us childish.
 
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