Relationships you value

My relationship with my lifemate, and all of those people that I have interacted with in a profound way, right here.
Really.
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I would have left this virtual place ages ago if it weren't for some of the brutally honest and forthright thinkers and doers, not even to mention the up and coming writers.
 
i'd have to say my closest one would be my aunty. Why...well she is basically the same as me only older....she went through the same shit i have been going through and she can relate to me.
my cousin...without her i think this world would be boring!!!!!
family....i always have them to lend me a hand when i need it most.
 
I would have to say that there is a great many relationships that I value in my life.
First and formost I value the love of my life. Michael/MickEy Mouse, you mean so much to me I only hope that you know the extent of how in love I am with you. I hope to spend every moment of my life with you in it.
My mother. If it wasn't for her I wouldn't be here to start with. I also wouldn't have been given the opportunities that I have been granted and blessed with thus far. She's not only my mother but she's one of my best friends.
My brothers. That's a story all it's own. If it wasn't for all of them being rough on me when I was younger then I wouldn't be the strong and independant person I am today. I wouldn't be a smart ass, athletic, and car gal I love being now. They've influenced my life so much.
And last but not least by any matter are my friends. Tiffy, Mike, Aaron, Shrouq, and LeighLeigh. Not to mention many, many BLers that have listened to me whine about stupid, stupid problems when they had much worse things to worry about. My friends have been through thick and thin just as I have been there with them through the same.
I appreciate everything that everyone has done for me and has taught me. I love all of you and hope that the friendships that 've made last for a long long time.
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My family, specially my mom and my sisters.
My partners in crime Bruce and Ed.
 
My best friend Ivy: for 10yrs we have been best friends, and even tho we live far apart now, and dont see each other that often.. we still email everyday, and call all the time (shes the only person i dont mind running my phone bill up for
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). We meet up as often as we can even tho its not always easy. and we have seen each other in our worst moments (yipes)... but the thing that is special is that i know no matter what.. there is NOTHING this girl wouldnt do for me... which is more then i can say about anyone else i know.. i couldnt ask for a better friend.
my mom and brother- my mom is always there for me.. and more then just a mom, she is my good friend.. my brother too.. we have been thru so much together.. it's no wonder we are always together.
Jay: my only *str8* male friend. Someone i will *always* be here for, no matter what. I have shared a lot with him that no one knows, and i know he is always around to listen and be on the same level with me. I value our reltionship *sooo* much! and i love how he makes me feel appreciated and special without even knowing it.
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~*Jen
*As bad as I am, I'm proud of the fact, that I'm worse then I seem.*
 
*Away from the board, these people are people that I value and truly love. Without them, I do not know where I would be today.
Tom (aka Tiger)- Because of him, I was introduced to this board. I have known him since my college days, and we have had many laughs together, and have seen eachother go through many different relationships with different people. He is the only guy to have met all of my ex girlfriends, and was the first person I would always turn to when I went through heartbreaks, failures, and tough financial times. We have fought, argued, exchanged punches in the heat of basketball games and testosterone battles (I threw you through a wall...ha ha) and through it all, I cannot think of any other human that I hold dear to my heart other than....
Greg (aka G$) A friend of mine that would give his left arm to you and would always be there to give a good laugh. He was my fraternity "big" brother, but the amount of advice we have given to one another balances us out. He always makes me laugh whether it be fucked up or sober. When I think of how people should live their lives, I do believe more should be like Greg.
Dawn (aka FPIT)- Tom hit a gold mine the night he met you. To think, I was right there too.
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I swear if only I wasn't so shy.
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I will not forget the day we first talked on the phone and I do appreciate how much you have helped my good friend grow and mature. You have a wonderful maternal instinct, and the more I visit and hang around you, the more I feel your warm and kindhearted soul. It takes a very special girl to put up with us when we are together, and you always seem to know what you are doing.
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Thank you.
*Because of the board, I have several relationships that I truly value.
Flower- I met her before I became a Bluelighter, and since the moment we first met, we fit together like two long lost puzzle pieces. She has helped me through the good, and through the bad. She has seen me at my all time best, and was there to pick me up during my all time worst. She doesn't sugarcoat anything she says to me, she is honest, and will tell me the things I do not want to hear. She supports me, and always watches out for me, no matter if she agrees with me or not. Words cannot truly express how much this girl means to me. She is definitely one of a kind, and I am very happy to have her in my life.
Dakeva- I guess I will call him the male version of Flower.
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We have had our differences, hated one another, seen eachother stumble, and still, the respect I have for this guy cannot truly be expressed. I look at him and admire how far he has come since the days of our fallout as roomates. I consider him more than a bluelighter, but more of a brother.
Yoyi and Oldroller - Two "older" and wiser people that I enjoy talking to on a daily basis. Both have always been there to remind me when things go bad that there is light at the end of the tunnel. They too have been through hell and back, and through it all, they remain so positive and are willing to share that with me any time I need it.
All of you somehow someway have helped to shape my life. For that I thank you, and look forward to the journey we shall travel together in our lives.
Thanks Supaglowthug for this post.
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Brownie
 
In my short life, I have a very short list...
*My Mom~ I love the woman to death and she always reminded me to never let go of my dreams, and she always wanted to understand where I was coming from.
*My sisters~ I'm the baby of the family of three, and my two sisters have always been there no matter what the problem...I've used their shoulders a lot to cry on,
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*My best friend Ashley~ Oh, Lordy, I don't know what I would do without her. I have known the girl since Kindergarten and we've grown up together. She always seemed to understand me, and still does. She has supported me through everything and knows more about me than I know about myself~
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*Lindsey~ Another best friend I met my first year at Toledo...she introduced me to partying and was my shoulder to cry on when boys got evil and times got tough.
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*My cousin Lori~ I talk to her all the time about life in general and learning lessons from our mistakes...she was really there really recently when things went wrong with my love life...she told me a lot of things that put everything in perspective (I'm sorry
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And last but not least...*Matt Fonz~ He was a good friend my first year at Toledo and he taught me that sometimes you have to sit back and really look at what you're doing...you may be hurting yourself or others and don't even realize it. He also taught me how to smoke out of a big-ass water bong, but that's another story~
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I was going to post to this, but it will have to wait, as brownie made me cry... *sniff*
 
Here goes mine:
Mum: we are very very close and of course there is no one else in the world that loves me more than my mum.
stepdad: always takes good care of me and looks out for me, always has time for me whenever I need someone to talk to or just hear about my day...
Best friend Mandy: friends for 10 years, speak 3 times a day not cause we get a hell of a lot to say, just cause we like to know EVERYTHING that is going on with each other. never known a friend to understand me so well and care for me so much, and we are truly soul sisters!
Best friend joanne: truly makes me laugh and has always been sooo there for me the best way she knows how. My first high school friend, the first one to get me into mischief, truly someone who is so close to my heart.
Best friend Lisa:
a friend that is more like a sister not a friend, so close we are more like family. Although we have had our ups and downs, we pulled through every fight we've had and hopefully remain the best of friends.
good true friends:
these are the girls i went to school with- belinda, sam, susie, linda, camilla whom i was her bridesmaid at her wedding a month ago and has newly become a close friend cause we rocked hard in London together!!!
My baby cousin Alex:
although only 8 years old, one of the most important people in my life. She looks at me like im a big princess, and is in awe of me cause im her "big cousin"!!!!!!
My family and friends are the most important gifts in my life, I have such a great life, and I NEVER take ANYTHING for grantite!!!!
Peace
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This is a great thread..
First, i'd say my mom. This woman has done so much for me in my lifetime that I can't even begin to explain my gratitude and love for her. I love her with all my heart and someday I hope she will know how much I appreciate all that she has done for me in my twenty years of existence. I love you mom.
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(even though she will probably never read this
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My brother Chris. Not only a big brother but also one of my best friends. We've partied together, laughed together, cried together, and through all this we have become two bros that would do anything for each other. I'm lucky to have him in my life not only as a brother but a true friend.
My friend Sarah. In the short time that I have known this girl, she has been a total sweetheart and a wonderful friend. She was there for me during my period of extreme depression and being down, willing to listen to all my problems, and to show me that there is a bright side to everything, and that it all begins with a smile.
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Finally, all of YOU out there in Bluelight land. Thank you for making this place my home on a daily basis. The friendships that I have made through this board are priceless and I wouldn't trade them for the world!
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theres really not too many relationships that i give a flying poo about, but here are the really important ones.
katie
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shuddr2think) ever since you moved away, i feel like a forgotten girlfriend calling her boy who she thought loved her in the army.
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youre the closest person to me, and i treasure that. come back, or ill have to make up a story about being pregnant or something.
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nata: my bug. we get a little closer every day, and i appreciate the time we spend together.
matt
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judo) you are a weenie, and i think thats why we get along so well. :P
chris: i dont understand you, and thats probably why im so intrigued. *hits self repeatedly in head*
my dad.....im a daddys girl, i guess. hes everything to me, even though sometimes i think hes a big giant jackass.
my mom: i havent seen her in half a year....and despite all the hard feelings, i miss her.
vibr8tor: ive known you for over a year now, and you have never ceased to be there when i needed you. i miss you, and i wish we could spend more time together.
i dont why id post this, half the people i listed wont ever read this, and it is really representative what i really feel.
ah, what the hell.
 
My boyfriend...I couldnt ask for much else..he is the greatest guy I have ever met. We have a really good relationship so I am happy. I cherish it so to speak.
My best friend Roni. We have been through everything together. And even trough fights we remain as close as ever.if not closer. She is so awesome.
Jen
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firstly, my dad....hes an ass, but i love him alot, no matter how much he messes up...hes my daddy ya know?
drea...she is my kid, my mom, my sister and alot more too. She is one of the only people i can be fully myself around, and she has saved me many many times in the past year and a half...and even tho i moved 2 hours away, i have full faith that our friendship won't suffer...
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NataBug...She is...my party buddy. We lose IQ around each other, and i miss spending time with her just bein goofy. She is a good friend, and i am glad that we both overlooked differences and decided to get coffee and skip lunches together.
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My housemates. They are all so different, and all of them make me happy. They all have their own thing goin, and its cool....
there are more, but....i don't feel like getting into those...
good post
 
hmm...a lot of these really made me think.
off the board:
my mom: even though we fight constantly, she is always here. unconditional love. we only have each other. honestly, if i'm half the woman she is, i'll be happy.
my best friend claire: even though she lives in chicago, we will always be in touch, she will always make me laugh, and i'll always know her.
best friend rena: teaching me to buckle down, keep my head up. always showing me there's a tomorrow.
nic: he'll always have me. just one of those things.
on the board:
bj: greatful to know u just because you're always teaching me. i know u get frustrated with how naieve i am, but you've opened my eyes to so much. thank u.
brownie: ok old man...gotta thank u, just for always having a kind word, or a not-so kind word (buttsweat) and for teaching me (cuz that's what you do best
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and lots others...thanks
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