Relationships you value

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SupaGlowBug

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What relationships do you really value? Who are they, what do they mean to you, and why do you value that/those friendship(s)?
Relationships I value:
Jeremy (my bf)-
Our relationship is soooo, special. He's truely unique and such a beautiful person. I've never met anyone quite like him (except myself).
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And I love him unconditionally.
Tari Jo (my bestfriend)-
We have been through so much together. We know eachother like the back of our own hands. And love eachother like sisters. Why wouldn't I value this one?
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My sisters (Vina, Vera, Vania)-
They're my sisters, they're understanding, loving, and there for me when I need them. I was truely blessed to be a part of our disfunctional family.
My true friends-
True friends are there in times of good and bad, thick and thin. It seems as though true friends are hard to come by. So when you do ya just gotta love em'. I love my wondeful friends that I just couldn't get through my week without. (And there may be some blers in this catagory as well.)
These are the people in my life that are significant parts of me. We all have em', and we all love em'. And sometimes we even take them for granted.
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~vicki
Mmmmmm, porn!!!
aim- sweetlikepeachis
[This message has been edited by SupaGlowBug (edited 15 October 2001).]
 
I cant really say I value a lot of relationships...sadly, cuz I always get fucked over in the end. But there are a few Bluelighters who I am ENTIRELY Grateful for. But other than that, not my family, not my friends.
 
I value very much, my love, my Angel, my Cee Cee (know to most of you as TranceaddiKt) I don't know what I would do without her
I also value my bestest friend in the whole wide word Josh
 
the relationship i value the most would have to be me n my boyfriend... its so nice to be able to have such a great relationshep with such a great person who is on my wave length
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love ya babe! *mwah*
and there are a few friendships i value heaps too...like me n cutiful
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and a few others
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(non-sappy) hugs for Evan.
As for me...wow, I have so many wonderful friends right now, I'm really blessed.
-my best best friend cari, whom I've known since sophomore year in high school, and who is probably my twin soul...
-my friend alyson, perhaps the only girl I've ever been in love with, though we had no need for sexual bonding
-all my wonderful guy friends at the moment, who are really proving to me how wonderful and amazing men can be; thank you Stephen, Audie (Brownie), Dave (PhreeX), and Anton (lilhighguy).
-all my up and coming guy friends, who are doing the same as the guys above: Michael (MGS), Jonathan (Sebastians_ghost), Dave (Dakeva), Drew (SnakeCharmer - though he doens't talk to me enough the bastard!) and Gus.
-my pseudo-boyfriend (yes, that's you sean - smh254) -- I love what we have even if it's not easily labeled.
 
Friendships:
[*]Amy: Even though we have crazy issue's I love how she can make me smile with just one simple look, and how she can make me feel like we're the only 2 people on this planet. She gives me the love I need, and also is there for me whenever I need. I love her!
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[*]Dan: Ever since middle school I've been best friends with this kid. He makes me laugh, and is basically around whenever I need him. We hardly chill as much anymore, but I still consider him one of my close friends.
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[*]ML: Our conversations about lifes random moments are the best! She makes me smile and makes me get that fuzzy feeling in my stomach whenever she looks into my eye's. There's always so much going on with her, good, and bad, but she still makes time for me. And I appreciate that alot!
Family:
[*]Mom: She is actually one of my best friends. I can talk to her basically about anything and she is always around when I need her. She never lets me down when I need advice on anything and well... she's just my mom!
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[*]Dad: Even thought we have crazy issue's between us, I still love him and respect his ideas and opinions stuff. I hope that one day we'll be able to see something in the same light as each other, but if not, s'all good. And I know he cares about me as I do him... and that's what is important.
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There are obviously more, but I had to pick the most significant.
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Brad - 0.o
AIM:Smokies712
Rawrz - BPCF+
Founder of the DHC!
 
Every relationship I ever valued went down the drain, and I deicided never to be the one hurt again.
 
This is a great topic...I will answer it when I get back from work.
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Brownie
 
Mom/Dad - They have always made sure that I can have only the best in life. (Not materialistic stuff, although they do give me stuff...) Im talking about taking me to church when I was younger and staying in a certain town to get a good education.
Kristi - My g/f. The cheese in my sandwich, the nugget in my pipe, the twinkle in my eye. This girl makes me laugh everyday and she fills and major void in my life. We broke up right when summer started and I had probably the worst summer of my life. I dont think the two were connected, but makes you think. Thankfully we got back in August and things are all good in MildKandy and Kandielace world.
Jon (aka J Kay) - Been a friend for about 3 1/2 years. The only kid I can say I could trust with a million dollars. No shit, this kid is the most honest motherfawker there is. Always gives good advice, and is keeping an eye on the best for others. Never greedy, or jealous, a great person.
Bluelight Kids - Any kid i've met through here has been wonderfull. dream_of_xtc, Doloreshaze (she doesnt post too much anymore), SourCandy (ditto)... Appreciated the time ive spent with you guys and you have definetely taught me a lot about myself and life. Theres so many more kids but you guys stick out in my head.
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-Wayne
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AIM: MildKandy
E-mail: [email protected]
 
I value every realtionship, weather they have been good or bad, each and every one helped shaped who I am today and are therefore important to me. From my realtionship with the girl who runs the shoe store i used to visit every week to the realtionships i have had with my family memebers and partners.
Even that 10 minute chat with the guy on the bus has the posibility to teach me something so I cherish it.
If I had to value any above all others it would be my close family - mum dad and my two sisters and my closest friends. They are the people who continually help me evolve, who love me for who I am even though I am ever changing.
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The only thing I'm good at is being bad.
[This message has been edited by PsychoKitten (edited 15 October 2001).]
 
I value the relationship of my friends and family, but most important the relationship of my girlfriend SupaGlowBug.
I value:
Vicki:
This past Oct.14 was mine and Vicki's 9 month anniversary. We have a very unique relationship. The way our relationship keeps going strong is because we have great coomunication with each other. Communication is the key to a good realtionship. Vicki is the best thing that happened to me. i don't know what I'd do with out her in my life. I love you Vicki!!!!
Lane:
What can I say he is my best friend. I have known him since the 3rd grade. We have been through so much together. We tell each ohther everything and anything. He has been there through the good times and bad abd has supported me in anything that I do. I support him in anyting that he does.
My family:
Of course I value my family. They have always been there for me for everything.
All my other friends:
I value them because they are always there when I need someone to talk to. Someone to chill with, someone to help me out in a time of need.
There is so much more I value but I'll stop here.
-Jeremy-
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AIM- spdracer95 or spdracer959
Tampa, FL
"Sexellent!!!"
 
Probably the relationship I value most is the relationship I have with myself. It is great to be able to love yourself and be comfortable and happy spending time alone. Lots of people never develop good, healthy, loving relationships with themselves, so I feel really glad that I have. Also, I know that my relationships with others are that much better because of my relationship with myself.
-Aura
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Where are we going, and why am I in this handbasket?
 
a relationship i had once, but no longer have... but that i will always always treasure.
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E-girl
IM: tiggersgurl2067
"It's the heart afraid of breaking that never learns to dance. It's the dream afraid of waking that never takes a chance. It's the one who won't be taken who cannot seem to give. And the soul afraid of dying, that never learns to live."
 
Raine - She is my closest friend in the world and I haven't known her nearly as long as most of my other friends. She makes me smile no matter what kind of drama I am in the throws of. I love her to death!!!
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"And then there was a time when a boy broke up with me because he thought I slept with a hooker"
"And there weren't none"
"Live Fast, Die Pretty"
 
I value my relationship with my pet fish. After all, a fish can't backstab you and steal half an ounce of weed from you.
 
alykitty: What can you say about someone who finishes your thoughts, and sometimes even has them before you can? We still, to this day, surprise ourselves by the extent of our friendship, and having gone through some shit and come out on the other side still together... we have concluded that it IS our world, and we like it that way.
I won't go into names of the other friends and family I have on this board... the list would be way too long.
My sister: We are absolutely nothing alike, we don't have in-depth conversations, and we could spend a lot more time together. But something about being in the same room with her and knowing how close we are despite all that? Fucking awesome.
My cat: He's me, only feline. He reads my moods better than almost anyone (see alykitty above), and is pretty much the coolest bad-ass I know.
My nieces and nephews: The coolest kids in the world!!!!!!!!!!!!!! They teach me so much about myself and the world around us.
Great post!
 
my mom and dad: they are so supportive and open-minded, most of the time.
my boyfriend: there isn't anyone else i could spend so much time with and not want to kill. after 3 years i love him more now than ever. everything is better when i get to share it with him.
my bestfriend court: if i were a lesbian i would marry her. she has helped me through so many hard times. she always tries to understand me and she is the least judgemental of all of my friends.
i value all the relationships with my friends and the rest of my family. i also value the relationships with my exes and the friends i am friends with no longer.
 
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