Relationship, Love, Partnership, Friendship...

(what ever you'd like to label it) advice please:

I'm a single mother of yes "three" (2-dads - I know, oh my(drama)) and would love all the advice I can receive on this delima of mine:

1) Should I continue to focus strickly on my girlies playing it single
or
2) Attempt to find "love" (my fear)

My girls are my world and priority in life and I'm unsure if I can share "myself" (did I mention I'm a bad sharer). I'm torn, what is healthy for me or best for them??

Advice please!

Thank you!!

 

Come on friends...please post, I'm new!

 

Your girls have already lost their dads (don't know how much the dads are involved but it always feels like loss to kids when they are not living with them) so bringing in other adults that may or may not stay is a lot to ask of young children. Dating people but not rushing into anything that would necessarily involve your girls seems like the safest bet. Childhoods go by in the blink of an eye and any relationship that is worth getting them involved in should be very serious. It takes incredible communication to make it work but when it does it could enrich your girls lives as well as yours.
So, I guess what I am saying is, don't shut the door on yourself, but take it very slowly as far as introducing any new man into your girls lives.

 

^ Great advice, as always herb!

ddaannaa: Welcome to BL and to Blogs! I can't offer you any advice that could compete with herbavore's, but I can point you in the direction of a bunch of people who can. The Sex, Love and Relationships forum would be an excellent place to post a question like this, especially after having a look around to make sure that nobody else has asked something like it.