^^ perhaps looking back to when we (not sure who we are but i know that i don't anymore - checked the forum daily cos we felt more a part of it.
we felt that we had something to contribute. or that it was like any other social network where personalities came out and you could identify with them, whereas now - i don't know the majority of the people here.
i used to know when i opened a thread who would be in it and pretty much what sort of response they would have given. also, i find that i have moved on to having the sort of discussions that Thoth is talking about with people IRL.
BL is an excelent way to talk to people, flesh out who you are, develope your own identity. but after a while you move on. that is what happens in life. your social groups swell and contract, you circles radiate into different directions and you no longer need the framework that a BBoard has to offer.
sure, it's fun to come back now and then and read some things. and gain information, i still troll through the threads looking for little nuggets, but what i was asking a couple of years ago, is now being asked by others. i don't need to read it. there are some things that crop up now and then, but not often.
(ps i still listen to happy hard core, and am right now. i don't really like DnB, so maybe i'm not that jaded.) tee hee