In general, I think people over-doing it bring a bad vibe to any situation. I remember, we were in line to get into a party once and there was a little girl (looked under 16 and I only ever saw her at all ages events) in her underwear who couldn't even stand... and we weren't even inside. I saw her a few times after than, always off her tits and I always wanted to pull her aside and try and help her or something.![]()
I hate it when random people follow me around. That can easily ruin the evening and sometimes makes me leave early.
Sorry for quoting myself but is anyone else experience this, or know why it’s being done?
I’m a bloke and the ones following are also blokes. For example, if I am at one of the bigger London clubs and change room they will follow me, and even follow if I move to a third one or back. They will follow to that room and always stay very close. Is it some kind of game? Trying to keep me away from certain girls? Because they are annoyed after I’ve danced with the wrong girl or what.
I’m not a frequent clubber, and haven’t been in about two months but this still puzzles me.
Sorry for quoting myself but is anyone else experience this, or know why it’s being done?
I’m a bloke and the ones following are also blokes. For example, if I am at one of the bigger London clubs and change room they will follow me, and even follow if I move to a third one or back. They will follow to that room and always stay very close. Is it some kind of game? Trying to keep me away from certain girls? Because they are annoyed after I’ve danced with the wrong girl or what.
I’m not a frequent clubber, and haven’t been in about two months but this still puzzles me.
That reminds me of one time I was at a concert. We were in the thick of the crowd between sets, just standing around talking. I overheard a guy next to me talking to his girlfriend. The dude was seriously shoulder to shoulder with me and might as well have been talking to me. He said, "Ugg, I hate these huge crowds." and his girlfriend just sort of stood there. So, being the friendly girl I am and being close enough to kiss the guy, I said, "Oh, I hate big crowds too." Both him and his girl gave me the NASTIEST look and the dude said, "I was talking to her, not you." and they continued to stare at me until I shifted as much as I could away from him (which wasn't much.) Yeah, I understand that I kinda butted into your deep conversation there but don't be a dick about it, specially when we're gonna be stuck next to each other for a while.
oh wow, i would have been your BEST friend for you randomly giving me a balloon. It blows me up big time when people just gift things to me. =)
Thats funny, I seem to only connect eyes with other peopel that are rolling just as good as I am. To which we both get aa huge grin and i scream 'Congratulations!' & High five
security searching you and being way too hardcore about it. Its a fucking rave, people come here to take drugs, if they didn't then the security wouldn't be getting payed. And not letting binkies in anymore (WTF Seattle?!) and of course cops.
Light shows, massage contraptions, and poi.
Just because I am having a great time doesn't mean I want a personal light show, i am quite happy with the one already in front of me and when i decline or ask you to stop don't be a bitch about it. Same goes for the people that sneak up on me with their massage contraptions and start using it on me with asking. poi goes without saying. Also, don't randomly come up to me and ask what drugs i am on, not cool, start with a hello perhaps if you want to make friends.
The main issue is RESPECT and the utter lack of it. Over the 15 or years I have been in the scene it has changed, the people changed, the music even changed, its not bad but different. Maybe I am the one that changed, but I still have fun.
Oh yeah that is an annoyance of mine at raves: dudes trying to hit on you when you are clearly not gay and show no interest
Nothing against gays, nothing against gays trying their luck but if it's obviously not happening then f-off!! (I AM NOT PLAYING HARD TO GET DIPSHIT!!!)
Hahaha reminds me of when i was at a rave and one of my friends was rolling hard and some french gay guy started chatting him up but my mate was gone so didn't realise what was happening. The french guy then proceeded to shout 'ketaminee turboooo' in a strong french accent and shuved a key at his nose lol.
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