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Ignore the bitch, what's the point in texting her back if she's got a new bloke and she only wants to mess with your head anyway.

Received a cheque for £80 today, good stuff!
 
yeah i can understand it when you put it like that. maybe you could put it to her like that? and if you don't wanna lose contact (lets face it if you were with her it makes sesnse you'd like her as a person!) perhaps tell her that when you're feeling in a better place you'd like to catch up? its the sort o thing that can easily be taken the wrong way though, so you'd need to be careful.
 
TheSpade said:
Ignore the bitch, what's the point in texting her back if she's got a new bloke and she only wants to mess with your head anyway.
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i think the number of people who actively wanna fuck with someones head is quite small really. she may not understand the impact she's having, hence my suggestion above.
 
Thanks for the advice and support, it's a really difficult time, I wish I could just ignore her as spade says but I care too much! I just keep punishing myself by taking loads of drugs!
 
Believe me i know its hard but the best thing you can do is delete all known ways of contact you have with her like , mobile numbers, facebook etc etc

and then ask her to stop contacting you because you are just making things harder for you

I was in a simmiler position as your self , i was with the girl i loved most ever in my life even more than my family but we just couldnt make it work , the reasons dont matter here though but we always said we would keep contact but all it was doing was fucking my head up even more every time we spoke ..

One day i decided no more .. sent her an e-mail about things she had done that really pissed me off and not to contact me ever again .. then instead of thinking about all the good things i focused on the bad things and why we had split up and yes it worked for me, i felt my self getting better and better all the time

You dont have to hate her but finding the bad sides to her and thinking of them will work mate i promise
 
Acidtek said:
Good morning people, my ex is messing with my head by texting me once a blue moon, even though she has a new fella, it feels a bit like she's stringing me along by texting me now and againg making me think there might be something there still! I don't know women=headfuck
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man, you and me both! women confuse the head of me, simply because when they say they are fine, they are not, so you comfort them, but when your crap, they couldnt give two shades of shit about ya! :|

not speaking about all women here, just the ones i encounter :D
 
Think I might have to do that smackcraft, it's hard though isn't it! Thanks again for the advice chinup, your words have been taken on board. Cheers
 
Breakups =headfuck

Contact with ex=headfuck

No contact with ex=headfuck

Getting hammered because you can't cope with how you feel, then saying very, very stupid things ("come over and shag me") to your ex on msn=headfuck

Having your ex call you the next day to "calm him down" because he's taken too many stims and thinks "they" are in his computer=headfuck

Finding out on Bluelight that your ex ended up in A&E from stim overuse=headfuck

Wondering if you should have helped... if this is somehow your fault... or if if your responsibility to this person, who you still love, is over=headfuck.

So, I can offer you absolutely no advice since I clearly can't handle this. If I did offer you advice, I'd have to follow my advice with the advice: ignore my advice.

Drugs give a nice combination of escape and relief from boredom. But I'm sure you know they're probably not the answer. They seem to sort me out for a brief time, then afterwards all the feelings are still there. I guess time is a healer only when it's sober time :X

Ehh, stupid exes!!!!! *hug*
 
matt<3ketamine said:
man, you and me both! women confuse the head of me, simply because when they say they are fine, they are not, so you comfort them, but when your crap, they couldnt give two shades of shit about ya! :|

not speaking about all women here, just the ones i encounter :D
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I know what you mean! I must also add that i'm not saying that all womenare the same!
 
you dont need to be nasty about it like i kind of was lol

just explain that you cant talk to her any more because of how its making you feel and that you need time to your self and if when your both over it you could maybe then just talk as friends now and again
 
Thanks for the hug angelsmoke, I need it right now! Ex's are indeed a headfuck, ijust wonder whether I'll share the same feelings with a different person again
 
Acidtek said:
Thanks for the hug angelsmoke, I need it right now! Ex's are indeed a headfuck, ijust wonder whether I'll share the same feelings with a different person again
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Put it this way you 2 were not meant to be together and you have learned what them feeling are like and when you do meet someone and them feelings come again with the right person you will enjoy them even more so because that person is who you are meant to be with :)
 
Acidtek said:
Thanks for the hug angelsmoke, I need it right now! Ex's are indeed a headfuck, ijust wonder whether I'll share the same feelings with a different person again
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Aye, we all need hugs!!

I think everyone feels that way when they break up. Along with thinking they'll never stop loving/thinking about their ex. I'm sure you/we will feel for different people one day -- but best to give it time.

smackcraft said:
Thats more so worse on a girls side than a guys cos they always want to know what you are doing with out them .
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Bullshit, I don't ca.... oh who am I kidding. Yes. ^^ is correct.
 
Thanks smackcraft, never really thourght about it rationally, it's all to easy to get caught up in the emotions when you feel like that! I just need to stay off the gear and not use this low period in my life as an excuse to start using again! How you doing anyway?
 
Acidtek said:
Thanks smackcraft, never really thourght about it rationally, it's all to easy to get caught up in the emotions when you feel like that! I just need to stay off the gear and not use this low period in my life as an excuse to start using again! How you doing anyway?
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indeed because thats how i eneded back on the gear , i used to block the emotions which just crept up on me later on

Talking about it getting it out of your system is the best way to deal with it mate

Im doing good though mate , its my fav day of the week again lol
 
smackcraft said:
indeed because thats how i eneded back on the gear , i used to block the emotions which just crept up on me later on

Talking about it getting it out of your system is the best way to deal with it mate

Im doing good though mate , its my fav day of the week again lol
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IT's so easy to turn to gear when you feel like this, it is good to talk about it but it's hard to find people that will listen!
 
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