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pull-out method

I went with the pull and pray method for a month with one guy and had no troubles.. but I know people who have gotten pregnant that way. It's so stupid, it's just not worth it. How difficult is it to either use a condom, or drag your partner to get tested and then use some other form of birth control like the pill? (ok, I know I'm a hypocrite since I did it too... but I did go on the pill after that. And I've learnt from my mistakes.). Personally I worry much much more about std's than about pregnancy, I don't know if I'd be so good at condom use with random partners if it wasn't for std's. But even though pregnancy seems like not such a big deal compared to hiv or infertility for the rest of your life, I know people who have had abortions and it was a very traumatic experience for them.. even though they basically had the same attitude as me before... so it never hurts to be extra-careful!
 
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^^ how the ignorance in this pisses me off, you have NO IDEA. Not ONLY because of those who could possibly be contracting and spreading STD's/ AIDS by this, but by those who help the population control SO much by creating children 8( . FUCK or what is even worse is those who don't fucking bother to even TRY to use a contraceptive, have sex, have a chance of being pregnant and then think and rely on "Oh it's okay.. I've always got the morning after pill". Those people who use it/rely on it to keep themselves from getting pregnant need to freaking do the world a favor and just fucking keep your legs closed!! If you can't be responsible enough to use a condom or other sort of contraceptive, and you know you're not responsible enough to deal with the consequences then your ass doesn't need to be having sex! Not using anything because you know your partner is clean is one thing, but if you don't want to produce a child, fucking educate yourself about it and take precautions before it happens. There are plenty of places who gives out FREE condoms. USE THEM.

Like RC said.. People who play with fire deserve to get burned.

There are many other methods of protection besides condoms and the pill. Get informed - otherwise expect consequences. It's just a pity when a child is the result of ignorance and laziness.
 
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as a little side point i must say that once its in, the last thing i ever want to do its take it back out ;)

Guess i will just stick to condoms then :)
 
Originally posted by fastandbulbous
There is no method to this madness


Unfortunately for the rest of us inhabiting this planet, it seems like the least intelligent people are the ones taking chances with this method and producing unintelligent babies who will just continue the cycle.
 
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i agree, darwin was right all along.

Don't let the stupid people breed, they will eventually die and then our problems are solved. ;)

Just curious, to all those that have taken the view that this method is dangerous/risky (myself included)......if you met a person that you were insanely attracted to, and only had that night with them, but had no condoms.......would you sleep with them anyway?

As much as i am being a little hypocritical shithead, i would have to say that I would find it hard (excuse the pun) to say no.

I know there is much more to sex than penetration, however i have been in that situation before and i had about as much will power as a scotsman in a whisky distillery.

It concerns me that I could have such a strong viewpoint on something, then totally forget it as soon as a really fit girl takes off her clothes.

Its a pity evolution hasn't got rid of some of the male sex drive. :)
 
i was not on the pill with my last bf, we used the pull-out method for 2 yrs and nothing happened..

(i realize now this was stupid. plz don't try this at home.)

and NO i don't have ANY children at all...
 
ibiza chick said:
my bf has used this method for over 3 years now it works for us, there is always the morning after pill if we need it
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Is this the shit he fed you? Baby, I ain't never got anyone pregnant. I got this perfected!

Or you and he have been using this method for 3 years?
Edit:I read the thread...I hope you continue to have success with this method.
 
if you met a person that you were insanely attracted to, and only had that night with them, but had no condoms.......would you sleep with them anyway?
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24 hour chemists. 24 hour service stations. Dodgy vendors in toilets. These are all good places to get condoms. And if there is some sort of blackout and all places are struck down at once... well... there is always oral.
 
roshy said:
24 hour chemists. 24 hour service stations. Dodgy vendors in toilets. These are all good places to get condoms. And if there is some sort of blackout and all places are struck down at once... well... there is always oral.
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how about in a chalet on the isle of arran in scotland? :)

The closest form of civilisation was about a 2 hours walk along a firebreak in a forest. And even if i walked there, the locals probably didn't even know what a condom was.

Needless to say, i ALWAYS carry one in my wallet now ;)
 
When i was single, i always used condoms, be it with a guy i was just rodgering, or someone i was actually dating.

When i met my now husband, we used condoms for a while (although, after a month of this, the condom broke and i fell pregnant. We chose not to keep the baby though. :\), then we both got tested regularly for a year (in case anything popped up in that time) and then i went on the pill and started using the pull-out method.

Now, after almost 7 years together, i'm not on the pill (it messes with my body too much) and we use the pull-out method. I'm not worried about falling pregnant, if it happens, it happens. It hasn't happened again, so i guess we're one of the "lucky" couples.

Having said all of that, if i were single, i would ALWAYS use a condom. Pregnancy is the least of a females or males worries nowadays. :\
 
in my opinion, the pull out method is completely ridiculous. as someone said earlier in this thread.. if you play with fire, you deserve to get burned.

i've only used the pullout a couple times with my ex-gf, and never had a problem. however, it wasn't worth it.. we always had to get pregnancy tests a week or two after using the pull out method just to make sure.

and seeing how the pull out method is how all my friends got their gf's pregnant.. i would NEVER do it again. especially if i wasn't dating the person i was having sex with.
 
<---*Living proof that the pull-out method does NOT work*

I realize I am super fertile and really should not even have sex unless I am in a relationship. Getting pregnant the second weekend I had sex with this guy, and the subsequent abortion that I chose, that I am still recuperating from eight months later, has taught me much.

Maybe the people who are "lucky" won't learn this lesson until they actually have to go through it also. I was "lucky" before in other relationships with the pull-out method. It definitely does not work that predictably.
 
I'd rather no one played with fire at all. Children/death as punishment? That's pretty fucked up.

Why are people using the pull-out method and considering it a valid form of contraception (since no one reasonably thinks of it as 'protection')?

Again, I reiterate that your personal anecdotes mean exactly shit. When the statistics say that withdrawal is 80% effective, what that means is out of 100 women, 20 will fall pregnant with it in a year. So the odds are with you (still not something I'd personally want to risk). As time goes by-- 0.8 x 0.8 x 0.8-- after three years, the rate drops to 51% of women escaping pregnancy. This can account for your three-years-and-never-got-pregnant people but they also highlight something else-- sooner or later, odds are, you will get pregnant. Even if it's never happened before. Even if it has. And it has nothing to do with your boyfriend, unless he has a low sperm count.

There are so many reasons why withdrawal is not a viable birth control.
1) it requires self-control which young men may not have yet. And it requires them to know their bodies well enough to know when the point-of-no-return is reached.
2) It requires you to know your cycle (which few young women do). And then it requires you to not have sex during the times you are most fertile.
3) There may be sperm in pre-cum which is left there if the guy hasn't pissed since he last came. That's not a myth.
4) The morning after pill shouldn't be taken repeatedly over short periods of time. It's a superdose of hormones. Even when it's not prescription-only it still requires a conversation with the pharmacist. It's not aspirin.
5) Home pregnancy tests are expensive and the stress of waiting for your period is exhaustive. Shit, I still stress out waiting for my period sometimes, and I'm on the combined pill. Why put yourself through that?

Sorry for the long post, but I don't think you can stress strongly enough that Withdrawal Is Not A Viable Birth Control.
 
I used the pull-out method with one of my exes for a good 12 months or so. On reflection, it was so, so, so lucky that I didn't get pregnant or infected with anything during that time, and I was a stupid fucking idiot for doing it in the first place. It is just completely and absolutely not worth the risk when there are so many other forms of birth control readily available.

We had a 100% success rate. But that doesn't mean that if we'd just had sex one more time that we might have been demoted to a 99.9% success rate. It's all very well to be successful in every single one of your past experiences, but that doesn't immunise you in your future experiences.

And I agree, if I'd been using the pull-out method for 3 years with the same guy and not been pregnant, I would take myself along to a fertility consultant. I very nearly did that after 1 year with this boyfriend.
 
Jesus, I can't believe how many people are actually saying that this is an effective method. ITS NOT
 
heheh I don't really use any technique cos sex has never made me cum (not even pre-cum) so eh, I oull out only coz I gotta have a wank to cum.

Peace Out
 
^^^Do you know what pre-cum is? Its involuntary, its not like when pre-cum comes out you say "oh, there's pre-cum." If you're having sex with a girl and you have no pre-cum, something is wrong with you.

So even if "she has never made me cum" you can still impregnate her. Man, if they teach sex-ed in the crap-ass catholic schools I went to, I KNOW they were teaching it in your schools. You guys all really have no excuse for your ignorance in such importance matters.
 
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