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pull-out method

Different men have different sperm counts. So just because someone says "It works for me" does not mean that it really works.

I had a friend who used the pull out method for years and thought it worked, I used to argue with him all the time about it. He would say stupid shit like "You gotta know when to pull out, that is the trick." Well guess what, he knocked up 2 women in one month and got the clap about 2 months after that. Both the women got abortions and hated him for it.

Also, to the women who post here and say "I am not worried about STDs because my boyfriend and I are monogamous." Get a fucking clue! I am a guy and have cheated on every single girlfriend I have ever had. All of my friends have cheated on their girl friends as well at some point or another. Guys cheat even when they are totally happy in their relationships and when they are getting tons of great sex. All it takes is a few beers and a hottie to change their mind. In the back of every guys mind is something like this "I am a good guy and do not cheat and have been good to my girlfriend, but good guys finish last and all the bad guys get all the women and now some babe wants to have sex with me, I am going to do it because I owe it to myself to be a bad guy just this once!"

Becareful kiddies, I have seen this pull out, abortion, STD circle so many times in the last 20 years that it is just not worth imagining you will be different.
 
^^ it takes a really fucked-up guy to have unprotected sex with someone else and then continue having sex with his girlfriend, though. That's stooping really low. Cheating and risking hurting somebody's emotions is one thing.. cheating and risking somebody else's health is completely different... Both are bad, but potentially becoming infertile or getting hiv that you have to deal with for the rest of your life is much much worse. Guys (and girls) that do this don't deserve to have sex. Ever.

If I ever did cheat on my bf and it happened for some stupid reason to be unprotected, I would either tell him, or break up with him as soon as possible. I hope most people are this considerate. Although I realise there are many who aren't and it pisses me off sooo bad you have no idea!
 
Maybe I overreacted, but it seemed as though you were saying that only shitty guys would do such a thing, when in fact it is fairly common. Your post at first glance seemed to say that so long as you aren't dating an asshole, sex w/o condom is acceptable. Maybe I mis-interpreted.
 
As part of my nurse training I have had a placement at a youth health clinic, which mainly deals with contrapception and it was a real eye-opener to some young peoples attitudes towards sex....

There were LOTS of young girls coming in (mostly under 16) that had requested either the contraceptive injection or the pill, which they were given. Pretty much all of the had no long term partners, but only a handful of them were remotely interested in the free condoms and none seemed interested in attending the young peoples STI drop in clinic.

Even worse, we had two different young men come in asking for the morning after pill, why? because they and thier girlfriends (apparently) didn't like condoms and thier girlfriends (apparently) couldn't get on the pill and couldn't have the injection because they were scared of needles. They wanted the MORNING AFTER PILL for the weekend, when they were planning to have unprotected sex!
needless to say they were sent away with some larger more sensitive condoms and told to try those!

Anyways the town this clinic is based in has one of the highest STI and teenage pregnancy rates in the UK, which just seems to go hand-in-hand with young peoples negative attitude towards condoms....
 
i use the pull and pray method. Well....not exactly.

my boyfriend doesnt wear one until over halfway through sex, then we put one on. I cant get birth control for another month and I hate the feeling of condoms, they irritate my skin and make me raw if i have sex with one for more than a few minutes. I've been using this method for months and havent had a problem. yeah, call me a moron, i dont really care.
 
Perhaps you have a latex allergy? There are condoms made of other material which may not be as irritating.
 
huntmich said:
Maybe I overreacted, but it seemed as though you were saying that only shitty guys would do such a thing, when in fact it is fairly common. Your post at first glance seemed to say that so long as you aren't dating an asshole, sex w/o condom is acceptable. Maybe I mis-interpreted.
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No, I was reacting to orange's post in which he said that the women not worried about std's because their relationships were monogamous "shouldn't be so sure". If a couple has been screened for std's and switched to non-condom birth control, then I think it's really rotten for one of them to cheat on the other without using a condom. Don't get me wrong, I think cheating on someone who trusts you is unacceptable even if you do use a condom.. but doing it without is completely unforgiveable. You aren't just playing with somebody's feelings anymore, you are now playing with their life! And it's amazing, but there are people who are selfish enough to do this!

Then again, some std's spread even when a condom is used and I'd be pretty pissed off if I ended up with herpes for the rest of my life because some guy that I had put my trust in couldn't keep his dick in his pants.
 
It's a valid method. The name is Fertility Awareness Method, or Natural Family Planning. Basically, you monitor your body to find out when you're ovulating (hence when you're fertile) and then plan your sexual encounters around it.

The details are a bit more devilish. There are a couple of things you check-- the first is basal body temperature. This is usually done first thing in the morning when you wake up at an established time. Regular fluctuations in this indicate when you are ovulating.

The position of the cervix inside the vagina is also used. This involves sticking your finger in there and finding it. It too moves around depending on where you are in your cycle.

The third thing is to constantly monitor the mucous coming out of your vagina and collecting on your panties. It changes consistency throughout your cycle and is a certain way when you're ovulating.

As you can see, quite involved and requires a HUGE amount of commitment. This isn't something you do half-assed. When done correctly it's comparable with other, more known methods of contraception.

So now you know. :P
 
AstridAsteroid said:
I have used the pull and pray method for almost all of my sexual history (which goes back to Jan '02). Haven't had a problem with it yet.

spork-- condoms fail, too, though. Just last night my best friend was having sex and his condom broke. Kthx. Really, nothing is fool-proof except abstinence.
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what about birth control, 2 condoms, AND the pull out method?

or a visectomy.
 
banksy said:
what about the temperture gadging process anyone used that
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Tech Kinetics said:
I've never heard of that method before
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I saw a documentary on that once. These men in Britain would soak their testicles in some very, very hot water, thus killing all live semen. Then they would go out and have a good time. Out of the control group of men that participated I think the success rate (non-pregancy) was relatively high. I forget the actual numbers behind this. I think it was a couple of days of soaking resulted in a week of infertility.

I just don't know if I could put my "boys" through something like that.
 
Originally posted by jedimafia
Condoms are evil! Only ever worn them 2 times, when you eat food do you wrap your tongue in clinfilm? i sure dont
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Last time I checked food couldn't give you a sexually transmitted disease.
 
^^^Or a baby. (Under breath) You fucking idiot.

Oh and pennywise, the 2 condom method has been shown to fail more often than the 1 condom method, because the friction from plastic to plastic heats up the condoms and breaks them down. If a rubber fails, stop, put another one on, and go back to it.
 
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